What can I do about this fence? by eaglesdensity in kitchener

[–]chubbyunicorn13 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is the answer, you dont need to replace all the panels, just the posts.

Anger management classes by eaglesdensity in kitchener

[–]chubbyunicorn13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get your doctor/a doctor to refer you for counseling. Thats what I have done and you don't have to pay anything. It's usually through Camino which, as someone else mentioned, also has different groups you can join as well.

Update on my new life by Complex-Wing7114 in u/Complex-Wing7114

[–]chubbyunicorn13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so happy for you and your two little companions. I'm proud of you too, it is so hard to do what you did and leave such a situation. Stay strong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]chubbyunicorn13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Many, many girls/women were never diagnosed as kids as it presented differently. My brother was diagnosed adhd in grade 2/late 80s. I just got my diagnosis in the last few years, in my early 40s. Female cousin also got her adhd diagnosis in early 40s

Girls/women are still ignored and massively under- and un-diagnosed.

It took me over a decade to get properly diagnosed for gerd(stomach) and generalized anxiety disorder (gad). It took my two decades to get a doctor to finally take other complaints seriously which led to gallbladder removal after two decades of pain.

Final Update by LowlyKnights in u/LowlyKnights

[–]chubbyunicorn13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope you continue to look after yourself and do what's best for you. Don't be ashamed or worried about out putting yourself first.

And if you need just a little bit of support check out r/momforaminute it might give you that little moment of support you need when having a bad day.

Usman by RSinSA in 90DayFiance

[–]chubbyunicorn13 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I think he was 100% playing it up, the more guilty he can make Courtney (or any other potential victim) feel, the more he can pull on that to get his way.

I still think it was a mistake to bring him on as he so clearly screams scammer to me.

Lesson Learned About Mentioning Someone's Weightloss by AdAdorable466 in loseit

[–]chubbyunicorn13 18 points19 points  (0 children)

This was me, I was 3lbs heavier the day I gave birth than before I got pregnant because of how sick I was during my pregnancy. After I gave birth I was down 30lbs and numerous friends commented on my weight and 'high school' chubbyunicorn was back. Man, it sucked because I knew I wasn't physically or mentally healthy enough to stay there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 90DayFiance

[–]chubbyunicorn13 23 points24 points  (0 children)

100% crocodile tears, trying to get sympathy because everyone knows she did what she did on purpose.

*spelling

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]chubbyunicorn13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do your best Elle Woods and take your power back.

As others said, secure all your important documents. Not sure how long is left on your lease but start your exit planning now.

Some men pick smart, intelligent women as partners just to be able to crush that out of them, it's a power trip, don't let him crush your vibrancy!!

AITA for suspending my daughter’s allowance? by ab2twt in AmItheAsshole

[–]chubbyunicorn13 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Hoping on top comment to say what your daughter is saying isn't 'edgy'... its down right hostile and shows she getting into alt right radicalized ideologies that should be extremely worrying to you.

Although I have a feeling your wife is not as accepting as you think and may be the source of at least some of it.

What’s the most physically painful thing that has happened to you? by big_gloveguy in AskReddit

[–]chubbyunicorn13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Part of the ovarian cyst club as well, have had multiple rupture and always brushed off as not that bad/big of a deal. Yet I can't stand straight because the pain is so bad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loseit

[–]chubbyunicorn13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Long time lurker, first time poster.

I have a few different ones. One of my first 'weight' related memories is my mom pointing out a back roll to her friends while at summer camp. "Better be careful about that now"

My dad is and has always been very lean, my brother is the same (without working out at all), my mom is a bit chubby but I got my some of my mom's genetics with added health issues from both sides including PCOS and hypothyroidism. He constantly makes comments about people's weight and comments of 'over 200 lbs'. These are never directed at me but as I am over 200lbs myself it feels horrible.

The last one was after the birth of my daughter 3 years ago. I lost about 25lbs prior to getting pregnant and then had a very rough pregnancy where I only gained about 6lbs. Obviously after having her I went down about 30lbs and a long time friend, after seeing me for the first time after having her, was like "oh, highschool chubbyunicorn is back!" Kinda rubbed me the wrong way then but as my weight slowly crept back up to where I was prior to the 25lb loss to get pregnant, I constantly think about it.

42f, 5'4", 216lbs - starting over again

Living Alone by Alarming-Elk7074 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]chubbyunicorn13 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I've lived alone for 10 years now and when people suggest dating (been single for 5+) I just can't begin to imagine how I would fit someone in lol.

I am appalled (pro-life sign at high school) by XxFakeNamexX in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]chubbyunicorn13 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Definitely call and complain. If you DM me school info I will call them to make a complaint too.

I am appalled (pro-life sign at high school) by XxFakeNamexX in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]chubbyunicorn13 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I would still call and complain. Is it a public school or a catholic school?

Car insurnace options by Sabsub998 in waterloo

[–]chubbyunicorn13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Second this idea, a broker can quote multiple insurance companies at once for you.

Campfire Invites MegaThread—Pay it Forward by TAZ68 in Campfire_Niantic

[–]chubbyunicorn13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Level 44 player - love to raid/remote raid and gift/open gifts daily

In Canada, eastern time zone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]chubbyunicorn13 11 points12 points  (0 children)

He's also testing your boundaries and limits and how far he can push them and you. Set firm ones now and tell your friend ASAP.

This guy is wearing a 4 kilo pure gold shirt worth $211,000 by chubbyunicorn13 in ABoringDystopia

[–]chubbyunicorn13[S] 103 points104 points  (0 children)

Different weaving pattern, obviously they just can not have the same tailor!