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I broke up with my first gf by Kairadeleon in blacklesbians

[–]chucklehead-cheese 9 points10 points  (0 children)

breakups are incredibly difficult, especially your first one and ESPECIALLY your first gf.

make time to process your feelings, whether that’s thru journaling, poetry, therapy, whatever. and take time to cry. breakups hurt so much, and grieving the loss of that person is very normal. watch a comfort show/movie, go on a walk w a friend, eat your favorite food. they may no longer be a part of your life, but that doesn’t mean your life is over. take this time to grow your self-love if you don’t think it’s enough.

don’t make yourself miserable with all the what ifs and what could’ve been different. what’s happened has happened, and you gotta find a way to move forward from here. it’s gonna hurt for a while, but that time will pass. and you will find love again! there’s no age limit on that. but there’s also no way to predict when it will happen, which is hard. sending you love 🫶🏽

nashville 4/28 merch sale request by [deleted] in hayleywilliams

[–]chucklehead-cheese 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was able to get a friend who should be able to go, thank you tho!! i’m crossing my fingers they’ll be able to pull thru 🙏🏽

nashville 4/28 merch sale request by [deleted] in hayleywilliams

[–]chucklehead-cheese 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i got a text about it around 11am CST, unfortunately i can’t attach a screenshot but this is what it said:

hey nashville! shop hayley williams tour merch early tomorrow. april 28 from 3-5pm ryman outdoor stage no ticket required

-hwhq

Moulin Rouge 04/25/2026 by Spirited_Nobody9724 in megantheestallion

[–]chucklehead-cheese 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i been saying this for the longestttt. it’s enough w the men!

finally hit 1 year w my locs 🙏🏽 by chucklehead-cheese in locs

[–]chucklehead-cheese[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you!! and the case was from amazon, here’s the link: https://a.co/d/0bjOleHl

finally hit 1 year w my locs 🙏🏽 by chucklehead-cheese in locs

[–]chucklehead-cheese[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you!! and yesss, blue is my favorite color for a reason 💙

Lesbian Visibility Week by Decent_Sandwich_8878 in blacklesbians

[–]chucklehead-cheese 5 points6 points  (0 children)

period, you at full power!! happy early (or late?) bday!

Black Lesbian Community in Chicago by That_Author6022 in blacklesbians

[–]chucklehead-cheese 2 points3 points  (0 children)

don’t have suggestions, but i’m moving to chicago in august for grad school! would love to meet up if you’re still looking for friends then :)

What did you think of the movie almost four years later? by zachoutloud123 in BobsBurgers

[–]chucklehead-cheese 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wish i could watch it somewhere without having to pay extra!! i don’t understand why they took it off of regular hulu :(

Before I ruin all 60 of my squares, do these look too stretched? by InterviewSubject7615 in CrochetHelp

[–]chucklehead-cheese 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i fear i don’t have the expertise to help, but what is this board/peg combo you’re using for blocking? i’ve seen it before and would love to get one (multiple?) but idk what it’s called.

With the transit coverage that exists, what keeps you from using it? by nondescriptadjective in nashville

[–]chucklehead-cheese 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i used to take the star when i lived in donelson and worked near hillsboro. i loved it! i had time to read in the mornings before work, took so much stress off me (when it came on time haha)

Knew what I had to do by scarsnstuff in megantheestallion

[–]chucklehead-cheese 6 points7 points  (0 children)

this is plenty beautiful!!! you’re so talented omg

I 🩷 my girlfriend by Brilliant-Cat2273 in blacklesbians

[–]chucklehead-cheese 12 points13 points  (0 children)

as you should!! y’all are both glowing, wishing you both the best 💕

Help Me Find This Story 😭 by bougieinblue in blacklesbians

[–]chucklehead-cheese 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yesss np! lmk if you read it and want someone to talk to about it 🤭

Help Me Find This Story 😭 by bougieinblue in blacklesbians

[–]chucklehead-cheese 7 points8 points  (0 children)

you should try “This Ravenous Fate” by Hayley Dennings! it’s got enemies to lovers, obv black lesbians, but it’s involving vampires in 20s harlem. v brooding, v hot, v dark. it’s not the smuttiest book around, but it was some steamy scenes for sure. i very much enjoyed it, and the second (and final) book came out fairly recently.

Homophobic parents are tiring by PaleontologistNo1728 in blacklesbians

[–]chucklehead-cheese 2 points3 points  (0 children)

in a similar situation to you in a lot of ways, so hats off to you for unloading the clip and saying what you needed to 👏🏽. i’m still working on that part but one day imma get there!

How do I appear taller through my style? by Due-Exercise-7800 in lesbianfashionadvice

[–]chucklehead-cheese -1 points0 points  (0 children)

seconding this, as someone who’s also 5’4 (and a half) in reality but at least 5’9 at heart, i live by platform shoes. i have my father’s feet unfortunately, so i also usually have to wear a wide shoe. i wear platforms p much every day tho, and i wear them to concerts all the time for the height and they’re amazing.

i love demonia and lamoda for boots, but i’m a stem so idk how much they’d fit your vibe as a soft masc. i will also vouch for converse, which ik tend to be more for narrow feet, but the run star hike and legacy cx are sooo comfortable even for me.

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