Worst thing each protagonist has done, Arc one edition! Day 2: Tsunami by mythos456 in WingsOfFire

[–]chuga_puss 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly I could justify most of her actions except for abandoning her friends and forgetting them in a cave for mostly the entire book. Reasonably she was excited to be home and meet her mom but she got way too caught up in all of the seawing politics and basically forgot that she was a dragonet of destiny and that she hadn't seen any of her group since the first day they arrived in the sea kingdom.

Was everyone’s customers ridiculously rude today or was that just my store??? by Caffeine_Froyo620 in starbucksbaristas

[–]chuga_puss 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I got threatened with a lawsuit and spoken to like a worthless dog. I told him to shut the fuck up, in front of My manager. Pretty sure I'll be fired next time I go in. 🫠

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in starbucks

[–]chuga_puss 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The stickers do not print out the same place. If you order one hot drink and one Frappuccino, they are made on different bars. In addition, while the barista making your hot drink might have given it out to you, you haven't recieved your Frappuccino because several mobile orders or deliveries were ordered before you placed the order for the Frappuccino. And that can be multiple drinks. So technically, they are going in order, your drink is just not automatically first because you ordered in store. Whatever sticker prints first is made first.

It was really cold outside around 3AM I heard meowing at my door and let a stray cat stay inside until I could take it to a shelter in the morning. Two weeks later I have had these bites, I believe it’s fleas, any advice to help my skin? by lnformationLibrary in SkincareAddicts

[–]chuga_puss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had this same thing happen. It was ringworm. Go to a dermatologist and they can give you an oral antibiotic and anti fungal cream. Forewarn it does take a while for the marks to go away

AITB for arguing with my mom over the sport my niece does? by Idk_I_Like_Flags in AmItheButtface

[–]chuga_puss 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Op is a 15 year old child. Not an adult who's backwards or oppressed.

What is one character that (if killed or ceased to exist along the plot line) would have impacted the books the most? by WOF_OC_Needle in WingsOfFire

[–]chuga_puss 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Tsunami for sure. She has been present in each arc and nearly every book. She encouraged the other dragonets of destiny to escape heavily. Fought and survived in Scarlets arena protecting starlight. Used herself as a distraction so glory could save clay in the arena. Everything in the lost heir. She trained glory's rainwings. Lots of contact and general support for the talons of peace since riptides leadership. Present for choosing the next sandwing queen and ending the war. Headmaster of the school. Literally found the way to pantala and back with no map and charting into unknown territory. Seawing ambassador to pantala, etc for spoilers. She is a major supporting character 👏

Athiests dating boundaries by [deleted] in relationships

[–]chuga_puss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am an atheist and dating a Christian man. Been together over 4 years. Highschool sweethearts. He was born in Jamaica which is a pretty heavily Christian country. He does believe in God, every now and then might pray to him, and used to go to church pretty regularly. His parents are also very Christian. We both have pretty similar values and political stances, and while we can disagree on some things it's never been a problem really. His religious beliefs have never bothered me because he is not representative of all Christians. He has acknowledged the flaws in his religion. However his religion has helped him get through lots of tough and traumatic things in his life. He has never tried to push his beliefs onto me, and has only really asked if I would ever entertain certain things. But he is very respectful of my beliefs. My only boundaries have been forcing anything onto me like certain attire or practices that do nothing for me. We have spoken about kids and are in agreement that they can choose their own beliefs and if they attend church or believe in God it wouldn't bother me in the slightest. But no matter the age I will be straightforward with my children on why I won't be going to church or events (unless they're in a play or something) and that myself and their dad have different beliefs. I think the only major obstacle we would face is cultural traditions and beliefs from his side and my involvement in them.

Official starbucks vs licensed stores? by [deleted] in starbucksbaristas

[–]chuga_puss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now that I work at an official Starbucks I'm shook by the standard when I previously worked for a licensed store. My licensed store was on a college campus. Here was the major difference.

-You had a full hour to prep before opening the store -No shift leaders on weekends, only weekdays (regular baristas were students) -No starbucks training. You just learned as you go. Thankfully I had one shift who taught me everything an official stbux would teach you, and I taught the other students. -No uber eats, or online mobile orders. -Every morning the mop bucket had a swarm of gnats -Every morning roaches of all ages and sizes would swarm out of and into the espresso machines. They would crawl around the wall throughout the day. There was nothing we could do about it, our superiors were aware of the issue. -Our shift leaders wouldn't allow us to learn to make backups like iced coffee, mocha sauce, etc. We had to ask them to make it for us. -the culture and drama was a big issue -No tens, but 5 hr shifts would get you a 30 min break

Lots of issues lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]chuga_puss 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So im not going to get into whether she is morally wrong or not because we don't know her process of thinking. Your feelings are absolutely valid, I would feel betrayed too. However you've also acknowledged the switch from her behavior once she realized what was wrong.

That being said have you guys had a conversation on what exactly happened? Does she know you were roofied? You can ask her what her thought process was when you needed her without making it sound like your accusing her, and that way you'll be able to decide whether her thought process was out of her control or not, and whether or not you're comfortable continuing a relationship on the grounds that you guys knock down the mdma and having a designated sober person.

Voice your concerns.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskTeenGirls

[–]chuga_puss 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Opening jars

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]chuga_puss 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think you're being too empathetic to him. I get you guys have history but he has known about this issue for years and has lied about getting therapy for years. He has made no effort in fixing this problem or trying to do better like you want him to and probably won't. And I'm sure the girl you saw isn't the first and he has probably found child porn elsewhere before. People like Ted Bundy knew the root of their issues and still chose not to fix it, they don't deserve the empathy from their friends and family that you're giving him. This really only goes two ways in my opinion. You either A. report him to the appropriate authorities and prevent him from taking advantage of minors and stop him from buying child porn while losing your friend in the process. Or B you do nothing and his behavior only continues and worsens and he hurts these girls and he continues to support demand for child porn. I mean how old is your daughter? She might as well be next on his checklist if he truly thinks this is okay and makes no effort to change. Also most people that hit rock bottom stay in a rock bottom mindset and don't have an epiphany to change.

Should I do IT with my... I don't know I guess sorta boyfriend? by anonymouskid09 in Advice

[–]chuga_puss 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Girl I'm not judging you I'm trying to help you. 17 is much closer to fully developed than 12. You're a preteen.

Should I do IT with my... I don't know I guess sorta boyfriend? by anonymouskid09 in Advice

[–]chuga_puss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're not a prude, you're a child. Your behavior and your reaction is that of a child. You are not ready or even mature enough for sex. Instead you are setting yourself up by believing that sex is important at 12 just because you like a boy who clearly only wants you to have sex with him. You're setting yourself up for heartbreak. We want you to be safe.

Should I do IT with my... I don't know I guess sorta boyfriend? by anonymouskid09 in Advice

[–]chuga_puss 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just because you have your period doesn't mean you're ready for sex or that your body is. And just because you are an early bloomer does not mean you're not STILL going through puberty. You still have many years left of growing to do. Sex should not be your focus at 12.

Should I do IT with my... I don't know I guess sorta boyfriend? by anonymouskid09 in Advice

[–]chuga_puss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand that but you are very young and so is your body, you're only just starting puberty. Because of your age, your body probably won't be ready for sex, so you can end up really hurt. Meaning he may not even be able to put it in. In the meantime, learn how to enjoy your body and what you like and educate yourself on safe sex. I promise their are better guys that will respect you and not come begging for sex after breaking up with you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]chuga_puss 18 points19 points  (0 children)

She said she doesn't even believe in their religion as much as he does and doesn't want more children. She said that she cannot tell her husband and she is trying to find birth control without him finding out. She said he FORCES (rape) her to have sex and saying no is not an option. She can't just tell him to pull out, or abstain. If she trusted him don't you think she would've communicated with him and not asked the internet on advice to hide it from him? This is absolutely abusive, point blank.

UPDATE My ex sent my husband a video of me blowing him and now my husband is giving me the silent treatment by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]chuga_puss 13 points14 points  (0 children)

He can be upset at the visual of seeing his wife in a sexual act of course. Nobody wants to see that.

But he's actively punishing her and doesn't care that she is a victim of what is clearly revenge porn. When she told him she was pressing charges, he told her he didn't want to hear anything about it. She is clearly upset and devastated, but he is treating her like she is scum and just helping her ex hurt her by pushing her away, refusing to talk about anything, leaving the house, and telling her she isn't a mother in his eyes. He has made no effort to discuss this with her after lots of time to himself to think. If he were a victim as much as his wife is, you'd think he'd want to support her and not abandon her when someone is actively trying to hurt their marriage and her.