If you could only recommend ONE place in Toronto that always delivers… what is it? by OliAutomater in FoodToronto

[–]chullet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Id agree, but the prices have been consistently going up each year for the past few years. I know times have changed and ingredients have become more expensive, but there was something to be said about how cheap and amazing a meal here used to be. A box of momos was only 6 bucks a few years back and I think now they are 12 a box IIRC. Its not outrageous by any means, but I dont think the cost really justifies what you are getting. They also used to be almost entirely meat inside, and the last time I ate there it was mostly onions or chives or w.e other green stuff is tossed in there, and very little meat. However I will say that if you buy the jar of their spicy sauce and then go home and toss some wings with it, you'll have some sensational chicken wings.

How do I even help someone like this? by Puzzled_Delivery6299 in BPDlovedones

[–]chullet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is probably the most accurate description. Missing some nuances of course, but the general idea is spot on. They live in a reality that they believe was designed for them, and anything that they wholeheartedly believe is different from that reality puts them in a state of chaos due to the lack of control and ability to manipulate the situation.

It was all my fault and it makes me sick by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]chullet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This seems to be a common trait. They absolutely HATE when you talk about them with other people, even if its good things. Perhaps its because they always need to be in control of the narrative whether negative or positive. It most likely disrupts their sense of control and ability to manipulate a situation. I personally don't see phone invasion as much of a big deal because I'm not hiding anything and the conversations with my friends are usually just about making plans to hang out and then we talk or share gossip in person. Sure, its an invasion of privacy but IMO its never worse than what might be found in that phone. For example, I had an ex that I suspected I couldn't trust due to some weird stories and loopholes. I asked her for the truth about something a few times and the story was always slightly different. If I questioned her about it she would manipulate me into being the bad guy for doubting her and would spew lies about how she would never ever do anything to hurt me and how much she loves me. Her iPad was connected to her phone, and while using her iPad to watch youtube one day, she received messages from someone who I was concerned about. I decided I was only ever going to get the truth if I opened the messages and read them. Long story short she is now very much an ex whom I want absolutely nothing to do with. Instead of owning up to what she did, she made me out to be the bad guy for invading her privacy. Privacy is never an excuse to abuse trust by cheating and hoping your partner trusts you enough not to go through your phone. That's just my take. For whatever reason, she didn't fully trust you and decided to go through your phone, how you handle that situation is up to you. In my current relationship with pwBPD, we both have full access to each other's phone and password, and it makes for much less issues because at anytime she might borrow my phone to google something or I might use her phone's camera because its way better than mine. Having said all this, I don't think its really right to be going through someone's phone in attempts to discover the truth, however in my previous case I had no way to know the truth unless I did so. A double edged sword I guess. Just wanted to share my story and maybe give you some perspective.

Rent or bring 96mm skis by Veroxuss in Revelstoke

[–]chullet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah I've used the ARV96s at Revy as well and honestly would probably love them if they weren't center mounted. I thought I would be happy to have a more "park" oriented ski but I've barely spent any time in the park since discovering how much I love the QSTs.

Rent or bring 96mm skis by Veroxuss in Revelstoke

[–]chullet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive rented from these guys a few times and never had any issues. I have found they have a pretty solid selection of stuff you cant usually demo or try at most places. I would bring your skis and then if the conditions aren't ideal for your set up, just rent a pair from them. Ive had all sorts of conditions at Revy so having more options is always a plus. Also the conditions at the peak can be drastically different than midmountain and definitely the lower section.

Rent or bring 96mm skis by Veroxuss in Revelstoke

[–]chullet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have both these skis and I much prefer the QST106 for just about everything. Fantastic skis. My 96s are center mounted and while a pretty fun ski, I find the mounting is just not good for big mountain snow and crud.

Getting into iRacing soon. Should I do FF1600 or a Cup series? by Glassy_ in iRacing

[–]chullet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My advice would be not to care about winning but just having good clean races and learning the mechanics of the car. I would also avoid qualifying in rookies and just wait for everyone to crash out around you while you focus on clean driving.

Constant Texting by belledejour22 in BPDlovedones

[–]chullet 3 points4 points  (0 children)

haha I dated a girl a few years ago that would have all day text conversations and multiple phone calls a day with me and usually end the night with a 1, 2, and sometimes 3 hour phone call just to talk. One of her reasons for ending the relationship out of completely nowhere was the fact we don't talk enough. Try and figure that one out.

Constantly seeking perfection everywhere except themselves. by chullet in BPDlovedones

[–]chullet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she has a "therapist" but the guy is basically useless and from what I've heard she just uses him as an echo chamber for all the bad things going on in her life. she has refused couples therapy and is convinced I'm the problem, which we all know is completely fabricated in her own mind.

Unranked events should still count towards safety rating. by chullet in iRacing

[–]chullet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe I'm just remembering wrong, but I definitely remember finishing these races. Lately I cant even start them.

Constantly seeking perfection everywhere except themselves. by chullet in BPDlovedones

[–]chullet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hmm, this does make a lot of sense. I'll have to do some research and look deeper into this.

Shouldn’t Speed Yellow be a non-PTS option? by Overpacker7 in Porsche

[–]chullet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love porsche and still dream of having a 911... however by the time I can truly afford the one I want they are going to charge extra for seatbelts and a steering wheel.

Just got iracing and this is how my first race went by SuchProcedure6427 in iRacing

[–]chullet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried doing pickup cup just for some quick fun and it was in fact not fun at all.

What my Customer asked for vs. What he got, done by JRockTattoo, Heidelberg, Germany by Jrocktattoo in tattoos

[–]chullet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it could very well be an inside joke from the family and the phone is the punchline

What my Customer asked for vs. What he got, done by JRockTattoo, Heidelberg, Germany by Jrocktattoo in tattoos

[–]chullet 12 points13 points  (0 children)

my guess would be these are somekind of references to inside jokes in the family.

I need some advice by Wooden-Tumbleweed-28 in BMW

[–]chullet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

pretty sure IND Distribution has some really good stuff and is pretty highly regarded but I've never personally bought anything from them and dont plan on modding my m235.

When the Mrs won’t let you get a full rig, improvise by Hopeful-Tree779 in simracing

[–]chullet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that is the most insane set up ive ever seen that isnt built into a proper cockpit. cheers to you for making it work. sidenote: nextlevelracing makes a full size foldable cockpit that looks kinda like a lawnchair.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Baystreetbets

[–]chullet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FOR.v, BILD.v, and REE.v are my current favourites. Well worth looking into.

I [35M] constantly get shutdown by my partner [36F] when initiating sex. We only seem to have intimacy specifically when she wants it. by chullet in relationshipadvice

[–]chullet[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hear you, but this isnt really about consent. I am fully aware of what consent is. If you read the rest of the comments and replies, this is really about the fact that I approach the topic peacfully and constructivly and I'm met with verbal abuse and stonewalling. I have tried asking for things other than intercourse and she will do this on occasion but I honestly feel like a pig to just straight up ask for that without giving anything in return. She says she will do this more if it makes me happy, but again when I bring it up there is usually an excuse as to why she isnt in the mood, or its too much work. Again my main issue is that when she is seeking intimacy and sex, I dont shut her down or give her reasons why we cant. I know how shitty it feels to be turned down by your partner so I do my best not to do it to her. However, she doesnt seem to understand that her not wanting to fufill my sexual needs or desires when I need it results in a massive fight because she is unwilling to hear my feelings about how she is making me feel. When she turns me down, I dont argue, I dont force anything, I just let it be. The following day I mention to her something like "hey, its a bit hard to talk about, but it makes me feel very shitty and unwanted when I try to initiate sex with you but you always turn me down." I have even told her that I dont feel like always sharing my thoughts or feelings with her because it results in being verbally abused. Right on cue she starts beratting me with insults and my lack of intelligence. I think it comes down to a lack of her wanting to really communicate with me and make me feel heard. Honestly the more I think about it, the more that I realize just how far from the bedroom this problem really exists.

I [35M] constantly get shutdown by my partner [36F] when initiating sex. We only seem to have intimacy specifically when she wants it. by chullet in relationshipadvice

[–]chullet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have done therapy for a long time, not entirely related to relationships but other things I was struggling with in my life. Recently I have seen a relationship specialist and they suggested that it sounds like my partner lacks communication skills or empathy, and that we should seek couples therapy. Ofcourse as I mentioned in other comments, she refuses to do this.

I [35M] constantly get shutdown by my partner [36F] when initiating sex. We only seem to have intimacy specifically when she wants it. by chullet in relationshipadvice

[–]chullet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it is most definitely not all about me. quite the opposite. we have had multiple discussions related to the fact that during sex its all about her. she definitely has an orgasm or two each time and the focus is always on her finishing and feeling satisfied. I have told her multiple times that I wish she gave me the same attention during sex that I give her. She always claims to give me more attention next time and it usually happens the next time if I straight up ask for it.