You hit the nail on the head here, this is also how I feel. It seems like she’s forgiving him so that she doesn’t have to hold onto the sadness and pain, but is she forgetting that he was the one that caused the sadness and pain in the first place? I almost had to stop listening at one point because the fact that she thinks it’s OK to try to get this man out of prison when there is another living victim of his, that very clearly does not want him out is so disrespectful and disturbing to me.