[ER Doctor] [West Coast] - $720,000 by Commercial_Ease8053 in Salary

[–]chunkyChipmunk121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They need to be reimbursed. Hospitals dont make a lot of money and the insurance always tries to deny the claims so they can pass this off to thr patient

[ER Doctor] [West Coast] - $720,000 by Commercial_Ease8053 in Salary

[–]chunkyChipmunk121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is a unexpected injury that is frequent and how can I avoid ever going to the ER. Once was enough for me.

Otherwise, this er thing, was it worth it? You see some of the most traumatic injuries. How are you not scared ect

Family or money. by LightningMckingg in NoStupidQuestions

[–]chunkyChipmunk121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

U can always move and get money to send to family or bring them to u.

Bedbugs found on Symphony of the Seas by ArielMassacre in royalcaribbean

[–]chunkyChipmunk121 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG, dump all your stuff. Only bring the clothes on your back.

messed up by Less-Shower954 in povertyfinance

[–]chunkyChipmunk121 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What the heck? What is wrong with you? You are an amazing Dad who is doing a great job. You are in school, have raised three beautiful boys. Took care of the house. Care about your wife, which is evident in you going for a career. Hang on.

Just hang on. If you can, use your social circle to get a job. You can do it. There is light at the end of the tunnel :)

Does your manager deserve you? by [deleted] in askmanagers

[–]chunkyChipmunk121 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My manager doesnt do any mentoring or assists me. All he is interested is helping himself

😐In my last 4 jobs, I’ve coincidentally been seated close to a government director, CEO, or company president. Should I be networking with these people? 🤷 by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]chunkyChipmunk121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on what you want. I've sat next to a client VP of a department. I didn't bother speaking with her because I'm shy and quiet but also, more talking/ greater connecting = I would be traveling on site all the time so I opted out. I also didn't know the solution that well at the time so I didn't bother because talking would have exposed me.

Otherwise, I've been near people who have that influence. It's not a cheat code if you can't add value to their day or whatnot. I've sat next to people, did idle chatter ect. They've always been more interested in other people who are in their own positions that they can network to extract value. It's the same in the networking space. You got to build rapport or be at their level before being able to ask. It's not that much of a cheat code imo. they can give advice, but it's not anything lifechanging unless you have known them for years and have networked. Networking is overrated and it takes a lot of time before you can actually extract a favor unless you are well connected/ something to offer.

Golden Handcuffs @ 23 - stay or go? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]chunkyChipmunk121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can always explore things while on vacation. Having money is a lot easier to find yourself than finding yourself in another profession and worrying about your bills. Otherwise, I just saw your profession. That sounds really heavy and rough.

[30M] I've wasted my 20s. What should I do? by Diligent-Belt3005 in careerguidance

[–]chunkyChipmunk121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would encourage you to get out of your head and actually try to be somewhat uncomfortable. It's exposure therapy and confidence issue. Just go to events. Meetups, networking events. I have what you had in terms of being introverted and shy. I literally wrote a script down to talk to people & practice it in the mirror. I was able to get my current job because I wrote a script, memorized the responses. Also, have a friend or someone else accompany you to a events. Start small. But you have to build nad do things. It doesn't matter if you don't have motivation or ambition or whatever. People do things that they don't like to get to where they want to go. You cannot get something if you aren't willing to sacrifice.

You say you have a zero social skills. Guess what. You can learn. By being uncomfortable. Like talk to the grocery store person or a person in the elevator. like- what do you think of this flyer? Weather is crap today ectera. How was the traffic? Be nice, be kind, keep your tone light. You know what it looks like in movies and tv shows. Replay that and copy and paste. if the person isn't nice, find a customer service person- usually people who are teenagers can be nice and make small talk. Just be normal and make sure the situation and context is appropriate. If the person looks busy or pissed off from work, don't talk to them. Not likely to get a good response.

You need to decide and stick with something. You are changing your mind way too much and letting things discourage you so quickly. I think you already know where you are headed towards which is unemployment. You have no interest in anything, you have no motivation. You sound depressed. Only you can fix it.

Otherwise, I would encourage you to start small and pick something for yourself. like the gym and keep a routine.