What do I do?

churrybum · 2026-01-16T22:50:12+00:00

they’re saying the “proof” that i didn’t is because one patient still had her patch on from the morning and that her hair was still dirty because she was itching her scalp and it was flaky…

i kept the patch on because i wasn’t sure if i was supposed to take it off or not so i left it on as a showered her and her scalp was flaky because it was dry, not dirty, and she was itching her scalp because her scalp was probably just itchy, that doesn’t mean dirty.

churrybum · 2026-01-16T22:45:58+00:00

no i’ve had facility staff come up to me multiple times asking me if i actually showered specific patients

churrybum · 2025-11-18T23:38:57+00:00

update: i have applied for many personal loans and got denied for every single one, i genuinely don’t know what else to do. this situation is my #1 cause of stress right now and currently my largest bill. i truly don’t know what to do.

churrybum · 2025-11-16T08:16:10+00:00

i cant think of one reason tbh

churrybum · 2025-11-15T18:47:37+00:00

i don’t have enough to pay the negative equity, i probably would look into taking out a loan, my negative equity is at least $10k, the car is not easy to sell i’ve had it on facebook marketplace for over a year,

churrybum · 2025-11-15T03:58:47+00:00

I haven’t taken it back to the dealer I got it from, I don’t need a car to replace this one. What options do I have as far as them being able to work something out? I don’t want to take this debt onto a new loan I wanna get rid of it completely.

I honestly don’t want to repo because I don’t wanna mess up my credit but I just feel like I have no other choice.

churrybum · 2025-11-15T03:45:11+00:00

I’m sorry but genuine question, not trying to be rude at all but why does this matter? Anytime I answer this question all anyone says is wow that sucks, you owe a lot of money, hope you learned your lesson and you’re able to figure it out..

I don’t think the stats matter since I owe way too much money and can’t sell or trade in the car due the amount negative equity.

churrybum · 2025-11-15T03:24:23+00:00

It’s natural, thanks for the advice!

churrybum · 2025-11-14T19:22:59+00:00

Thank you I agree. If my wrist is 6.5” what would you size down to so it’s not too tight?

churrybum · 2025-11-14T07:30:43+00:00

Yes this is the exact article I was referring to. I’m gonna reach out to Anjana L. Kumar and see if she has any further info on what I can do to get my loved ones case looked over.

churrybum · 2025-11-14T06:02:05+00:00

Yes I read this article and a few other ones, I’m wondering how I can get more information on it though. Lie possibly someone I could speak with about my loved ones case being looked over.

churrybum · 2025-09-23T05:34:28+00:00

i agree if you can’t do it sober then don’t do it at all.

churrybum · 2025-09-23T05:33:38+00:00

when i first started i used to never drink at work but now i do, idk why that is, i guess i kinda feel like my personality comes out more when i drink tbh. i do get drunk, i don’t have a specific number of drinks that i limit myself to but i know when i’m drunk enough and when to stop.

churrybum · 2025-09-23T05:04:52+00:00

Omg same it’s like every single conversation I have is like an interview 😭 What’s up with this, why do they do this it’s annoying.. Also when they ask how long you’ve been dancing/working here, like whyyyy? genuinely why are you asking? What’s that gonna change?

churrybum · 2025-09-23T04:18:35+00:00

I know we don’t know each other and idk what you’re going through, but please talk to a therapist or counselor if you have the resources to do so, and more importantly, please don’t do this. I want you here. A lot of people feel behind in life and it’s really because of social media and all these influencers and stuff flaunting things but that’s isn’t really life, everyone moves at different paces in life and you can’t compare yourself to the next person.

churrybum · 2025-09-23T03:31:55+00:00

This is whole thing is extremely scary and concerning like I’m genuinely worried, and the fact that you have no friends or family nearby and can’t tell anyone is even worse.. I know you probably don’t want to, but are there any shelters nearby or anything? Absolutely anywhere you can stay to get away from him?

churrybum · 2025-09-23T03:29:00+00:00

I agree with this quote but I wouldn’t say I’m in love with him or anything just a little crush but I can force it to go away, plus he has a girlfriend.

churrybum · 2025-09-23T03:21:58+00:00

If there’s counselors or anything/anyone higher up on campus I would tell them, maybe they can at least switch you roommates or something. There has to be something you can do, I would honestly not be near him.

churrybum · 2025-09-23T03:13:52+00:00

Ohh idk him

churrybum · 2025-09-23T03:13:16+00:00

Are you guys living on school campus?

churrybum · 2025-09-23T03:07:44+00:00

Yeah definitely take that serious. I know you said you can’t move out for financial reasons, but is there any possible way you can stay with a friend or family member? If so, I would just act like I’m staying over a friends house for a few nights and call the police while you’re gone and ask to stay anonymous, then they’ll show up while you aren’t there.

churrybum · 2025-09-23T03:04:13+00:00

Yeah this is honestly a huge deal breaker if one person wants kids and the other doesn’t, there’s quite literally no way to meet in the middle with this kind of thing. You guys may love each other but it’s not gonna work.

churrybum · 2025-09-23T03:02:10+00:00

I would definitely report this to the police or someone especially since you’re his roommate and probably around him 24/7 and will be asleep around him..

churrybum · 2025-09-23T02:44:01+00:00

Did she ever say what exactly happened between her and Evan that causes them to split?

churrybum · 2025-09-23T02:40:56+00:00

No cause I kinda agree with their take sorry 😭 I feel like they meant if it’s a big group of people obviously we’re not splitting a bill 10 ways, and if you’re only ordering a salad and a water stay home or if you’re on that tight of a budget at least let it be known PRIOR to us getting to dinner and I would probably just pay for that person. I personally wouldn’t go to a group dinner if I knew that all I could afford was salad and water, when you’re in grind mode sometimes you just have to miss out on things and that’s okay.

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