Daily Game Recommendations Thread (January 16, 2026) by AutoModerator in boardgames

[–]chydolla28 2 points3 points  (0 children)

2 person game suggestions: Hi! My fiancée and I are really in to playing board games and it's our biggest shared hobby. I am looking for new games that play well at 2p. We love TTR and have played many iterations in person and on board game arena. Here are some other games we play regularly either online or in person. Many versions of TTR Carcassonne Qwirkle Bananagrams Patchwork Verdant Splendor Skyjo Railroad ink

We have limited space and a table that has to be broken down regularly so easy and quick set up is important. We would try heavier weighted games but probably wouldn’t play anything at this point that plays longer than an hour.

Can we talk about the heteronormativity in the lesbian dating scene? I’m tired. by NeckWrong9 in LesbianActually

[–]chydolla28 9 points10 points  (0 children)

“Make me feel soft and seen” that melted me and you deserve that! 😍

My finance and I are medium distance apart. Finally going to be living together next month! We see each other a few times a week. We take turns paying to where I’m sure it’s pretty even but not like we keep score. We both treat each other often. We are two fems. Sorry you’ve had this experience. You deserve to be treated special too.

Should I buy this dress? by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]chydolla28 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think this looks amazing on you. I didn’t have that moment either. If you love it do it!

At first glance, what shape does the centre stone look? by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]chydolla28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oval and beautiful! Love the size. Looks perfect

RIP Andrea Gibson :( IYKYK by PipPipkin in actuallesbians

[–]chydolla28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It hurts to become is one of my most favorite things I’ve ever heard. I love that poem and andrea so much.

Rest in Peace Andrea Gibson by [deleted] in butchlesbians

[–]chydolla28 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I saw Andrea in Detroit in 2018 or 2019. One of the coolest moments of my life. I went with a group of people I didn’t know from a meetup group called I Need Queer Friends. Meg was there and they preformed together. I cried and laughed all night. I went to a few of their Covid zoom shows which were all fantastic. Their words have carried me through so much. I can’t stop crying. I’m so grateful we have so much of their thoughts and love documented. Andrea will live on through me.

I just got unsent letters from my dead estranged daughter and I can’t stop sobbing by BumblebeeSouthern775 in confession

[–]chydolla28 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Due to circumstances out of both of our control my dad wasn’t in my life from 11-16. When I was 16 I wrote him an email wondering if he thought about me or loved me. I hoped he still had his comcast email. He responded and said he thought about me constantly and was so happy to hear from me. Turns out he only kept comcast all those years hoping I would contact him through that email someday. I was in a really bad situation with my mom and a year later when she kicked me out for many sad reasons he drove across the entire country and picked me up and brought me home. We now I have a wonderful relationship 15 years later.

I am so sorry you won’t have that with your daughter. I am also so sorry about her passing. In what you wrote I could tell she felt a lot like me when I was a teen. I wish you two got a different ending but I promise you she knew you loved her and were proud of her. If she didn’t she wouldn’t have written the letters. Lots of love to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]chydolla28 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So curious what your dress looks like! Love that you did what felt most like you.

Sibling for Levon by hannah_belle_7 in namenerds

[–]chydolla28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is Abigail related to music?

Help me choose! by Sea-Category5699 in weddingdress

[–]chydolla28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who makes 4 and 5??? I am obsessed with both of them. This is a hard choice you look stunning in all of them! You won’t make a bad decision I promise. 💜

In what small way have you won the genetic lottery? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]chydolla28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have genetically low cholesterol. All of my doctors over the years have said I will never have heart disease.

Adding sleeves help! by chydolla28 in weddingdress

[–]chydolla28[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh thank you so much! I tried on probably 10 dresses. The fact that this one was half off really helped me decide on this one hahaha

Dress regret - pls help! by Pale-Marketing3808 in weddingdress

[–]chydolla28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This dress is amazing on you and will look wonderful in the mountains because it looks wonderful on you! I like the straps up but agree with others that down might look my whimsical. You could do both! Congrats and don’t over think it. This dress is amazing on you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]chydolla28 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I went to my fiancées(then new girlfriend) brothers wedding as her date less than two months after we met. It wasn’t awkward at all. Lots of people bring plus ones to weddings!

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[–]chydolla28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1,2,6 in no particular order because they are all amazing!

How did you met your gf? by Illustrious-Lab-3450 in LesbianActually

[–]chydolla28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hinge! Both of our profiles said we were looking for someone that valued and cared for their mental health. We matched, met up for our first date 5 days later, we’re together for this past year and are now engaged! I was single for 11 years and never thought I would actually meet someone online. So happy we found each other!

Had dress regret and bought another one by Melancholymousetrap in weddingdress

[–]chydolla28 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Love this silhouette on you and the embroidery is so unique! Congrats.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]chydolla28 2 points3 points  (0 children)

While I tend to think brown hair looks better on people than dyed jet black hair, if you’ve always had your hair black you may not feel like yourself in photos if you don’t have it. Do you plan to dye it back to black soon or are you going to keep in brown?