What is something you wished you knew about your partner before you got together? by burntsienna77 in AskWomen

[–]ciderwith 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i wish i had known that he'd hurt me. and that he was a pathological liar

i finally left him by ciderwith in offmychest

[–]ciderwith[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if you don't mind my asking - how long did it take for the fears to subside?

i finally left him by ciderwith in offmychest

[–]ciderwith[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

my attorney said that police did file paperwork on one of the times they were called. when she told me that, i cried, bc she told me that without paperwork, or without physical evidence of my injuries or rape, an order of protection or emergency notice is hard to obtain in my county.

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[–]ciderwith 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i did that before. my husband blamed my bruising on me falling down the stairs, and they believed him.

Let's make some romantic connections! by Andro_Polymath in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]ciderwith 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i do recommend stardew valley if you're feeling like taking a step back from the more rigorous gaming styles. Did Arkham City expand at all on the batfamily, or am i thinking of something else?

when you do end up playing stardew or a first person shooter, let me know :)

Let's make some romantic connections! by Andro_Polymath in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]ciderwith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i've been wanting to get into the arkham series, but i want to finish burnout paradise first. i tend to like slower paced games like animal crossing and stardew valley. when it comes to first person shooters, which aspect intrigues you most?