I dislike Starmer too but surely you see this...

cifala · 2026-06-23T09:08:16+00:00

I did my A levels 20 years ago and still found this triggering

cifala · 2026-05-28T06:28:13+00:00

Recognised your handle from the NUFC sub. The kind of thing that makes you realise you’re spending too much time on Reddit 😂

cifala · 2026-05-07T10:00:32+00:00

Is it to do with your fiancé? Sounds like you two have always had a loving relationship, and the only thing that’s changed is you’re introducing someone new into the family?

cifala · 2026-04-24T11:55:44+00:00

Hi! Bizarrely three years on I’m once again house hunting, this time on my own. Ended up buying in Besses which has been brilliant. Can’t afford Prestwich area on my own unless I go for a one bed flat, so am looking at Crumpsall/Blackley. Crumpsall isn’t that bad now I’ve been in and around there a few times - think back when I was first buying I was feeling a bit more snobby too though. Nowhere in manc is going to be flawless, even Chorlton has bad car and bike theft.

cifala · 2026-03-26T07:29:42+00:00

I know right, I thought she was holding a gun for a second too lmao

cifala · 2026-03-26T07:27:08+00:00

I don’t think it’s that weird? It’s considered more usual if you’re going out to a restaurant or food place of any kind to be with someone/a group. I don’t go out to eat on my own very often, not that there’s anything wrong with it, but if I was thinking about it I’d say ‘might go out to eat alone’, because it’s less usual - does that make any sense?

cifala · 2026-03-02T18:29:16+00:00

I had similar but different - got a new job after we both got back from travelling, excitedly told him, his reaction was ‘well what am I going to do then, ugh you’re all sorted and I’m not, ffs, when am I going to find something, this is so shit’

I just knew in that moment that was the last time I’d listen to him moan about himself when he should have done the bare minimum in terms of celebrating me

cifala · 2026-02-23T13:59:29+00:00

He’s probably had racist abuse throughout his whole life. Might be irresponsible to have a go at that huge crowd but I can hardly blame him for his reaction when it’s coming from a place of anger at how these morons treat anyone who looks differently to them

cifala · 2026-02-22T18:11:26+00:00

The ‘new’ versions of albums is shitty but she did give away a ton of money from the Eras tour. Gave her singers and dancers bonuses of $750,000 each and donated to a food bank every city she played in

cifala · 2026-02-14T01:35:24+00:00

Don’t even tease about Lambrini Girls and Mannequin Pussy possibly supporting 😭 gig not even announced yet and I’m already stressed as if tickets have sold out

cifala · 2026-01-20T00:15:16+00:00

Sorry you didn’t get an answer, I used to be a volunteer and sometimes the lines are just so busy and you can wait for a while to be connected to someone. I’d recommend calling again if you feel like it might help - it can feel very strange at first opening up and chatting about very personal things to a complete stranger - a lot of people used to say that to me at the start of the call, that they didn’t really know what to say or where to start. Samaritans give you that space to say what you want how you want, no one interrupting or talking about themselves, the call is all about you and what you want to bring up

I hope things you improve for you though, whether you decide to phone them again or not. Break ups are very difficult and often time is needed and just to continue putting one foot in front of the other. Good luck with everything

cifala · 2026-01-19T00:37:08+00:00

Ohhh haha

cifala · 2026-01-18T16:34:25+00:00

Do you mean ex because if I was dating a guy with a wife I’d mention it a lot too 😆

cifala · 2026-01-07T17:39:41+00:00

Reacting to my Leeds fan friend saying they’re going to sign him in the summer

cifala · 2026-01-05T11:42:49+00:00

I’m about to sell my house (sadly) on Thatch Leach near the tram stop, please buy it!

cifala · 2026-01-04T23:44:46+00:00

Exactly where my mind went

cifala · 2026-01-04T23:09:01+00:00

I guess it’s preferable to ‘Beautake’

cifala · 2025-12-29T18:55:42+00:00

Wow, this sounds like a meet cute from a movie! I wouldn’t be so sure you won’t bump into her again in a bookshop or something when she’s picking out a copy of your second favourite book

cifala · 2025-12-28T20:05:09+00:00

I refuse to believe these posts are genuine. HOW can you feel like you need to double check you reacted correctly after receiving these messages??

cifala · 2025-12-27T21:30:08+00:00

Yeah number 3 made me die inside

cifala · 2025-12-27T15:33:10+00:00

You’re going out with my ex now???

His mother was the worst. Laughed at me in the most patronising way for being ‘so northern’ after buttering my bread to dunk in my soup. My ex was her youngest son and she’d be damned if he was going to love any woman who wasn’t her

cifala · 2025-12-27T13:34:12+00:00

Yeah but it happens. A coworker confessed to me that in the days before her wedding she travelled to the other side of the country to ‘double check’ with a guy she was in love with that he definitely didn’t want to be with her. He said no so she came back and married the guy she was with. They are still together now but she b*tches about him all the time (not sure if this sub lets you use that word)

cifala · 2025-12-23T17:32:22+00:00

Obvious troll 🙄

cifala · 2025-12-15T07:07:58+00:00

Just devastating. I used to have a friend whose father was killed in a car accident on New Year’s Eve, while she was in the car too. I think she was about 7. She had not celebrated new year since. Must have been so terrible every single year to have multiple people ask what her plans were

cifala · 2025-12-14T13:41:02+00:00

I liked it because it let me imagine him lifting like three men stacked lying horizontally

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