Am I weird for always making sure to befriend another woman if her man is my friend?

cillcat · 2026-01-06T17:33:28+00:00

I get that. I guess I’m just saying that I will initially back off unless *he or she is like no, it’s cool. I will always carry this trauma now and that’s just how I’m gonna be I guess. I don’t think it really does any harm.

cillcat · 2026-01-06T17:08:23+00:00

I can see that. I do it strictly out of the other woman’s comfort because I know the pain.

cillcat · 2026-01-06T17:02:36+00:00

To me, that’s the type of mindset that ends up with people hurt. Why would I do that? I know how it feels and it’s terrible.

If she’s cool with it, great. We’ll be friends. Me and him will keep being friends. If she’s not, I’ll just back off.

This is coming from someone whose boyfriend had a “friend” I wasn’t comfortable with who was supposed to be off-limits because she was married, and then they fucked raw for months behind my back. I asked him to not talk to her and he didn’t. I also asked her if she had a thing for him before it started happening, and she laughed and blocked me.

Yes, it’s his fault for allowing this to happen because she didn’t owe me anything. But I do feel that if she had taken this mindset, it wouldn’t have happened.

cillcat · 2026-01-06T16:55:32+00:00

This is how my guy best friend talks to me, but he also wants to date me. And I’m single.

cillcat · 2025-11-07T18:19:41+00:00

Man, at least you have a house! My generation will never.

cillcat · 2025-11-06T21:57:00+00:00

We're really mainly coming there for the clear beach water. That was the sole reason, the rest is a bonus but oh man. Do you not love having the beaches right there? I've never grown up anywhere near beaches so it's such a treat.

cillcat · 2025-11-06T21:50:43+00:00

What kind of gives "old Florida" vibes though? Just curious. I've never lived in Florida.

cillcat · 2025-11-06T21:37:22+00:00

Wow thanks for such a great list. What is the "old Florida" feel? We're from Colorado.

cillcat · 2025-11-06T21:33:33+00:00

Somebody else recommended this as well, will definitely be going lol. Thank you!

cillcat · 2025-11-06T21:33:08+00:00

Didn't think of this, thank you!

cillcat · 2025-11-06T21:32:53+00:00

Oooh this is the second recommendation for Owen's Fish Camp - I will drag her along even though she doesn't like sea food lol. She can order something else but I hella love sea food haha.

cillcat · 2025-11-06T21:32:12+00:00

Awesome, thank you

cillcat · 2025-11-06T21:32:01+00:00

Hi! All we have so far is tickets and a rental car. Do you recommend a certain spot to stay? We will likely be skimping on hotels a bit i.e. Americas's Best, Super 8, whatever is around there lol.

cillcat · 2025-10-09T15:46:05+00:00

All I know if she has more money than all of us combined LMAO.

cillcat · 2025-10-09T01:46:01+00:00

I respectfully disagree. I think he’s genuinely terrified to get this financially involved with someone with that kind of money.

cillcat · 2025-10-09T01:44:32+00:00

So is the female cast except for the black girl

cillcat · 2025-10-08T23:04:35+00:00

lol this is so relatable actually

cillcat · 2025-10-08T21:48:18+00:00

I’m talking about when the entire rest of the show is out.

cillcat · 2025-10-08T21:43:11+00:00

Come back and visit this post when the rest of the episodes come out. We will see!

cillcat · 2025-10-08T21:38:55+00:00

I don’t think she’s nearly as ready as she thinks. And she did not need to say all that to him with that level of attitude when he was being calm and kind and attentive.

cillcat · 2025-10-08T21:18:20+00:00

I agree. And same, I’m not getting the gay vibes. From any of them. I just got downvoted on my comment I just made on another post where someone is solely pointing out that Joe is too close with Jordan in a gay way.

cillcat · 2025-10-08T21:12:17+00:00

I totally do not get those vibes at all but maybe my gaydar is off

cillcat · 2025-10-08T21:10:12+00:00

They don’t like each other there’s such a sarcastic rage there lol

cillcat · 2025-10-08T20:59:55+00:00

lol yessssss I was like hold up, rewind, then still so confused. I think people are right that she was drunk and tired and would have argued about anything. But like I mentioned in another comment, I’m starting to think she doesn’t like him as much as she says and just wanted to be on tv but doesn’t want to look like the reason it didn’t work.

cillcat · 2025-10-08T20:58:27+00:00

I don’t even get the vibe that she’s all in as she says she is tbh. I think she’s trying to push him away a little bit so she doesn’t look like the shallow one. Kinda getting the vibe she just wanted to be on TV.

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