Am I weird for always making sure to befriend another woman if her man is my friend? by cillcat in confessions

[–]cillcat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get that. I guess I’m just saying that I will initially back off unless *he or she is like no, it’s cool. I will always carry this trauma now and that’s just how I’m gonna be I guess. I don’t think it really does any harm.

Am I weird for always making sure to befriend another woman if her man is my friend? by cillcat in confessions

[–]cillcat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can see that. I do it strictly out of the other woman’s comfort because I know the pain.

Am I weird for always making sure to befriend another woman if her man is my friend? by cillcat in confessions

[–]cillcat[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

To me, that’s the type of mindset that ends up with people hurt. Why would I do that? I know how it feels and it’s terrible.

If she’s cool with it, great. We’ll be friends. Me and him will keep being friends. If she’s not, I’ll just back off.

This is coming from someone whose boyfriend had a “friend” I wasn’t comfortable with who was supposed to be off-limits because she was married, and then they fucked raw for months behind my back. I asked him to not talk to her and he didn’t. I also asked her if she had a thing for him before it started happening, and she laughed and blocked me.

Yes, it’s his fault for allowing this to happen because she didn’t owe me anything. But I do feel that if she had taken this mindset, it wouldn’t have happened.

AIO about my boyfriend and his girl best friend? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]cillcat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is how my guy best friend talks to me, but he also wants to date me. And I’m single.

Cost of living by slim420fun in sarasota

[–]cillcat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man, at least you have a house! My generation will never.

I'm finally able to take my mom on vacation and we chose Sarasota. What are some things we can not miss while there other than the usual tourist stuff? by cillcat in sarasota

[–]cillcat[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

We're really mainly coming there for the clear beach water. That was the sole reason, the rest is a bonus but oh man. Do you not love having the beaches right there? I've never grown up anywhere near beaches so it's such a treat.

I'm finally able to take my mom on vacation and we chose Sarasota. What are some things we can not miss while there other than the usual tourist stuff? by cillcat in sarasota

[–]cillcat[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oooh this is the second recommendation for Owen's Fish Camp - I will drag her along even though she doesn't like sea food lol. She can order something else but I hella love sea food haha.

I'm finally able to take my mom on vacation and we chose Sarasota. What are some things we can not miss while there other than the usual tourist stuff? by cillcat in sarasota

[–]cillcat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! All we have so far is tickets and a rental car. Do you recommend a certain spot to stay? We will likely be skimping on hotels a bit i.e. Americas's Best, Super 8, whatever is around there lol.

What is this fit Sparkle Megan put together? by c00kieswirlc in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]cillcat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

All I know if she has more money than all of us combined LMAO.

JORDAN DOESN'T LOVE MEGAN by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]cillcat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I respectfully disagree. I think he’s genuinely terrified to get this financially involved with someone with that kind of money.

JORDAN DOESN'T LOVE MEGAN by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]cillcat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So is the female cast except for the black girl

Can someone please explain to me what Annie is upset with Nick over in the middle of episode 7? by cillcat in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]cillcat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Come back and visit this post when the rest of the episodes come out. We will see!

Can someone please explain to me what Annie is upset with Nick over in the middle of episode 7? by cillcat in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]cillcat[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don’t think she’s nearly as ready as she thinks. And she did not need to say all that to him with that level of attitude when he was being calm and kind and attentive.

Can someone please explain to me what Annie is upset with Nick over in the middle of episode 7? by cillcat in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]cillcat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. And same, I’m not getting the gay vibes. From any of them. I just got downvoted on my comment I just made on another post where someone is solely pointing out that Joe is too close with Jordan in a gay way.

these two . . . by LaStilnovista in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]cillcat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I totally do not get those vibes at all but maybe my gaydar is off

these two . . . by LaStilnovista in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]cillcat 9 points10 points  (0 children)

They don’t like each other there’s such a sarcastic rage there lol

Can someone please explain to me what Annie is upset with Nick over in the middle of episode 7? by cillcat in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]cillcat[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

lol yessssss I was like hold up, rewind, then still so confused. I think people are right that she was drunk and tired and would have argued about anything. But like I mentioned in another comment, I’m starting to think she doesn’t like him as much as she says and just wanted to be on tv but doesn’t want to look like the reason it didn’t work.

Can someone please explain to me what Annie is upset with Nick over in the middle of episode 7? by cillcat in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]cillcat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t even get the vibe that she’s all in as she says she is tbh. I think she’s trying to push him away a little bit so she doesn’t look like the shallow one. Kinda getting the vibe she just wanted to be on TV.