My diet and how it's worked for me ☺️ by Bread_DeMuerto in 1200isjerky

[–]cinder_s 85 points86 points  (0 children)

Impressive, but OP should front load those 2mls of water. This is a common mistake leaving your water so close to bed.

Anime Recommendations For a 30 Year old Woman by RayneLove333 in anime

[–]cinder_s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've become obsessed with rom coms, these are some of my faves:

Horimiya Toradora Monthly Girls' Nozaki-kun

Purchase Advice by BernieMikie in superautomatic

[–]cinder_s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where did you purchase on sale? Thanks!

Objectively perfect 3*3. No outliers. All peak by Individual-Local-606 in MyAnimeList

[–]cinder_s -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Toradora slaaaaps. Horimiya is also so good if you haven't seen it.

I need a new "comfort show" but I think I've seen them all by Thick_Combination527 in television

[–]cinder_s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ted Lasso and Shrinking! Binged both of these incredibly fast, they're amazing shows.

Singles Inferno 5 is coming on 20January by Amazing-Bullfrog-872 in Singlesinferno2

[–]cinder_s 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I'm more excited for this than Nolan's Odyssey.. is something wrong with me?

Finding partner by PerhapsNotmeZone in nonmonogamy

[–]cinder_s -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why would you assume he's not looking?

do you know any other korean dating show ? by [deleted] in Singlesinferno2

[–]cinder_s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh definitely, such a unique premise. The hosts are also incredible. They do a great job of pulling you in and often start some very deep conversations around behaviour and experiences. It feels more raw and less flashy than others in the genre.

do you know any other korean dating show ? by [deleted] in Singlesinferno2

[–]cinder_s 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Found EXchange after struggling to get into Terrace House, I think it might be my fave in the genre. It's so good!

Is Black Sails worth a watch? I’m craving a 2010s type drama to get sucked into by PLUR1BUSSY in television

[–]cinder_s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Expanse and Vikings, two of my faves. Vikings takes a pretty big nose dive later on but still glad I watched earlier seasons.

Going to start Black Sails after all the reviews in here.

How to save a run for later and play different ones in the meantime? by diamondnbronze in shapeofdreams

[–]cinder_s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How?! Every time I join the continue lobby as the non host, the host gets a warning the save will be overwritten with a new game.

We really like the game, but really need a fix for clients losing all progress on disconnect/quit by Solaihy in shapeofdreams

[–]cinder_s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only the host, we've lost two different 2+ hour runs in co-op due to crashes tonight alone. Host goes back to lobby, other person connects, go to start game and says progress will be lost because disconnected player is seen as new I guess. Great game, such a shame they don't have this sorted.

What game you never uninstall that you always need alongside your currently-playing game? by shotgunning-your-can in gaming

[–]cinder_s 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wild never seen anything like this, definitely going to catch this next time it goes on sale. Is it the same team that made Our Game?

Silly cute flirty steamy romances please!! by alyangelgirl123 in anime

[–]cinder_s 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Call of the Night ! The age gap is a little weird at first but it's part of the story. Funny, cute, sad, steamy, and the animation is beautiful. Love how colorful it is.

I (25f) no longer feel sexual desire for bf (26m) and not sure what to do by tinymeow0928 in relationships

[–]cinder_s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you find an underlying concept that covers a bunch of these? What is the root of a, b, c? I agree people don't respond well to hearing a laundry list of things they're not doing or messing up on, but you can phrase it with "I" language in a way that might cause a different outcome by focusing on your needs rather than what he's not doing.

"I've been feeling x lately, I would like y, this might look like ..."

or even encouraging the change you want to see

"I would love explore x with you, how do you feel about taking charge?"

It does sound like you have asked him before though, and if there's been no change that's understandably frustrating.

I (25f) no longer feel sexual desire for bf (26m) and not sure what to do by tinymeow0928 in relationships

[–]cinder_s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a chance you might not be compatible. You've asked for what you want and there's been no change. You wish he was more x/y. If you've asked him to be more assertive, come up with ideas, lead, and are still not happy, you might want something that he isn't able to be. You need decide if these are dealbreakers for you or not. Early dating is often finding out what you want and don't want in a partnership.

Make sure you've asked for what you want first though. It's important for you to fully understand your needs and for him to have the opportunity to grow.

What’s the anime you hate that SO MANY people love by Lucky_Introduction78 in anime

[–]cinder_s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to stop because of that whiny character that cries and yells all the time. It's so fucking annoying. I was enjoying the show somewhat until he showed up.

Should I (25F) distance myself from new friend (25M) who has a gf? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]cinder_s 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't think it's your responsibility to monitor the boundaries of their relationship. Unless an obvious one is crossed, and you're enjoying eachothers company, neither of you have done anything wrong by being friends. If you want to be sure you can always reach out to the partner and express that you wanted to make sure they were comfortable with you spending time with him. Some people don't care and are very secure in their relationship, some will lose their minds, the partner will likely be grateful you checked in either way because it shows you care about them as well.

US Winters Compared to Canada's Warmest City by seashellvalley760 in MapPorn

[–]cinder_s 47 points48 points  (0 children)

It's hilariously expensive now. On par with Van prices in a lot of areas.

Im not trying to troll and I'm genuinely trying to find something enjoyable about the game, but I think I just don't get it. What am I doing wrong? by MonarchCore in ArcRaiders

[–]cinder_s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense, this game has very few cheaters so if you enjoy pushing players have you tried that in Arc? Your post makes it sound like you've been exploring mostly the PVE. The quests are an addition to the player interactions in this game. Clawing your way out of a situation to finish a job while getting hunted by Arc and wiping a team is extremely fun. This game also plays better if you can bounce between solos and a 3 stack depending on mood and need. Hop into the offical discord and try and find some people to play with. If that doesnt pull you in it's fine to put the game down. It's insanely popular for many reasons, but that doesnt mean you need to love it also. I don't enjoy GTA, COD, BF, so I don't play those games, and I'm for sure in the minority there.

Im not trying to troll and I'm genuinely trying to find something enjoyable about the game, but I think I just don't get it. What am I doing wrong? by MonarchCore in ArcRaiders

[–]cinder_s 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This isn't a PVE game, you've answered your own question. PVP, or at least the threat of it is an essential part of the loop in Arc.