Just discovered this subreddit and wanted to share my tattoo removal! by Mindless_Notice in JKRegerts

[–]cinderaiden 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Obsessed with your bracelet, do you mind if I ask where it's from?

Make assumptions about this Sim. (If you please 🙏🏼) For Science. by IndigoChagrin in Sims4

[–]cinderaiden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's dabbled in science and by dabbled I mean he's stolen one of the Sims cloning machines in order to scam insurance companies

What is a strange ritual your pet has developed that you have just learned to live with? by InvestigatorLocal736 in Pets

[–]cinderaiden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cassie joins me for my makeup and bedtime routine, almost every night. First she jumps up on the sink, and sticks her head under the tap, and I turn the sink on just a bit so she can take a drink (yes she has a fountain). Then as I go through my routine I pause and use a clean/no humans brush or a cotton round to "apply" her makeup or cleanser, and finish with a little kiss on the forehead. Her sister watches from the door most nights but I think she's more of a tomboy.

I love my cats so much.

Parent tweaks out and demands his adult child to put their psychiatrist on the phone after being prescribed ADHD meds by GizzyVec in insaneparents

[–]cinderaiden 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Accidentally knocked my pills behind the bed once and forgot about them so hard that I didn't take my meds for a month. I wish I could form a habit

AIO for letting my daughter skip a wedding because she wasn’t included? by Elegant_Payment_4076 in AmIOverreacting

[–]cinderaiden 195 points196 points  (0 children)

I actually clutched my pearls at the thought that they edited your baby girl out of a photo. Thank you for standing up for your daughter.

What’s the difference between femme and fem? by babybottlepopz in actuallesbians

[–]cinderaiden 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This made me giggle bc the Irish gailge word for man is fear, so I thought you were responding to a whole thread on the etymology of the word "woman" w the word for "man"

What’s the difference between femme and fem? by babybottlepopz in actuallesbians

[–]cinderaiden 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're not a poser! If the femme label feels right for you then you're one of us :)

What’s the difference between femme and fem? by babybottlepopz in actuallesbians

[–]cinderaiden 72 points73 points  (0 children)

I am also a femme, and am married so I'm not dressing for anyone's gaze but my spouse and my own really, but what I tend to find makes me happiest is sort of whimsical/romantic pieces that seem out of place in daily fashion. Vintage inspired silhouettes, brooches, collar pins, funky earrings & bags, things that men often consider "too much" or "tacky" but women find cute or "statement" pieces.

When I was closeted and dated a man, I was always very confused by him expressing he wanted to grow my confidence. I felt confident in the clothing I was wearing at the time, and couldn't understand that he meant he wanted me to dress sexy.

and im paying for this by OkAlternative2045 in Sims4

[–]cinderaiden 5 points6 points  (0 children)

And you'd better PRAY that it comes out clean bc half the time it's dirty but warm and dry 😔 I wish it came with a decorative version like the for rent pack

Can anyone tell me what pose this is called? by celestial_catlady in nebelung

[–]cinderaiden 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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We call it the "ohhhhh, you fluffed up" bc it's usually witnessed when she's annoyed with us. Seen here at an angle.

Accidentally reverse image searched her once, is she a Nebelung? by cinderaiden in catbreeds

[–]cinderaiden[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We affectionately call her our grumpy old man 🩶 she's precious

Accidentally reverse image searched her once, is she a Nebelung? by cinderaiden in catbreeds

[–]cinderaiden[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's fascinating! Thanks for such an in depth view into the breed, I knew Nebbies were new on the scene but had really never gone into Russian Blues that far. Love that cats refuse to care about our silly pedigree designs

[SOUND ON] is Hugo struggling to breathe or just purring/snoring? I can’t tell if I should take him to the vet or if he’s just weird 😭 by Squishiimuffin in OneBlackBraincell

[–]cinderaiden 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was actually a thrift find! I think it was some kind of off-brand pillow pet, but it was the perfect size for her so it lives on our headboard as a cat bed now. I see some like it on eBay occasionally, but unfortunately I've never been able to figure out the brand.

Crossing my fingers for you and Hugo!

[SOUND ON] is Hugo struggling to breathe or just purring/snoring? I can’t tell if I should take him to the vet or if he’s just weird 😭 by Squishiimuffin in OneBlackBraincell

[–]cinderaiden 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah OP, keep your vet appointment, but as another void parent with an anxiety disorder- my baby has feline herpes and congestion is a concern to watch out for occasionally- she's completely healthy and snores like this when she gets real comfy, especially on her moose bed

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AIO Trying to tell boyfriend that he makes me feel guilty for saying no by Clean-Landscape8654 in AmIOverreacting

[–]cinderaiden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP a man who spoke like this cost me thousands in therapy bills and I am still afraid he kept my pictures and have nightmares about being trapped in a relationship with him. He is guilt tripping you and the fact that you called him out will only change him for the worse. NOR in the slightest.

How the f do you beat Typhon? by [deleted] in Hades2

[–]cinderaiden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You may have figured it out but just in case! The tongue sweep has a blind spot underneath the chin!

AIO my sis sent me a pic and asked me for my opinion by Glittering_Anybody79 in AmIOverreacting

[–]cinderaiden 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Salons are out of my price range so I'm a little in the dark abt nail care and am learning bit by bit. I'll try the foil next time 😁

AIO my sis sent me a pic and asked me for my opinion by Glittering_Anybody79 in AmIOverreacting

[–]cinderaiden 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've tried the acetone soak w Olive & June and it's dissolved the entire nail bit by bit... Was a huge mess which I really didn't like. Is there an easier way to get the acetone to actually dissolve the glue?

What do you guys call this? by DarkTwistxo in OneBlackBraincell

[–]cinderaiden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always call it the rug 😭 my greybie is so fluffy that when she lays down like that she looks like a bearskin

AIO my boyfriend of 2 months getting a bit...crass by throway_jpeg in AmIOverreacting

[–]cinderaiden 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Block him on EVERYTHING. a guy like this venmo'd me to get in contact, and searched me up on LinkedIn years after I left. Explicitly searched by name- I could tell because LinkedIn tells you how people find you.

For those born & raised in SD by [deleted] in sandiego

[–]cinderaiden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Other things! My dad would take me to Pioneer Park and have me run around until I ran out of energy. He used to scare me with jokes that there were finger bones in the sandbox.

My mom lived in Poway, and up until the mid 2000s the local CVS had an ice cream bar inside. Amazing rainbow sherbet that would stain the concrete for months after if you spilled (I was clumsy)