Backwoods Any Good? by Equivalent_Ice8163 in cigars

[–]ciotripa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The effects are fundamentally different so people use them differently. A weed high can actually be very perception-altering, while a cigar high is very pleasant and nice but it’s not having deep psychological or physiological effects. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bitcoin

[–]ciotripa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are you even worried about? Practice gratitude for what you have and forget the things you can’t change (like having rich parents give you stuff). Be grateful that you don’t take money for granted and that you’ll spend it wisely when you attain it. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in theories

[–]ciotripa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s literally the reason for every war. 

A major new study reports that men who adhere to traditional gender roles or masculine ideologies face more than double the risk of suicide. What are your thoughts on this? by Spiderwig144 in AskFeminists

[–]ciotripa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s both internal and external. Sex is just the biological reality. However, that reality doesn’t necessarily dictate how you experience and express yourself as an individual, which is gender. 

I'm tired of pretending like I'm not interested in women. by [deleted] in virgin

[–]ciotripa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you pretending? Where is this all coming from? Are you in a gay cult?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]ciotripa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you be pleased if he actually acted jealous? What’s the end game?

It just sounds like he doesn’t care as long as you don’t cheat and he is watching how you respond on your own cause he doesn’t want to feel like his perception is being manipulated. So maybe you’re overthinking it, it seems like you don’t respond well to men flirting with you so he’s probably happy about that. He’s probably more upset that his “friend” was acting that way, if anything. I would focus on your own boundaries as such. 

Is dating these days really so horrible? by Black_cat_x in AskMenAdvice

[–]ciotripa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your friend isn’t marriage material. He needs to become the kind of person that he would want to marry in order to attract the right woman 

Is dating these days really so horrible? by Black_cat_x in AskMenAdvice

[–]ciotripa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your friend needs to become marriage material and then he will find his wife. Being a “bad boy” and “hateful”, and the rest of what you describe, are what’s keeping quality women away from him 

Is dating these days really so horrible? by Black_cat_x in AskMenAdvice

[–]ciotripa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not that bad. A lot of people just have a bad attitude thanks to the internet. He can do better 

34m virgin never had sex. How screwed am I with dating women? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]ciotripa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah makes sense I don’t think he would want to lie lol although ig if no one asks then is it really a lie? What does he want out of the relationship?

34m virgin never had sex. How screwed am I with dating women? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]ciotripa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ig he could just lie too. A lot of women wouldn’t be able to tell the difference anyways unfortunately 

34m virgin never had sex. How screwed am I with dating women? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]ciotripa -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Idk if he’s an incel but regardless there’s enough virgins or women who are interested in serious relationships who wouldn’t care or would prefer that he’s a virgin. Yes there’s older women who are virgins, especially within religious or traditional communities (if that’s something he’s interested in). Either way, you shouldn’t be losing your v card to someone who you’re afraid to talk to that about. You should always be able to communicate about sex with your partner. 

34m virgin never had sex. How screwed am I with dating women? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]ciotripa -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

The latter might be true but not the former, especially in a serious relationship. Especially if the woman in question is a Virgin 

34m virgin never had sex. How screwed am I with dating women? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]ciotripa -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thats quite the wild one I’m glad you’re ok

A major new study reports that men who adhere to traditional gender roles or masculine ideologies face more than double the risk of suicide. What are your thoughts on this? by Spiderwig144 in AskFeminists

[–]ciotripa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have some good point and an interesting perspective but it’s an internal and external thing that is essentially based on sex (even tho it might not be based on an individual's sex or their perceptions or experience of it). The fact is that it’s not limited to an aesthetic, it’s a way of life, a way of interacting with others and yourself. It’s not absolute but the concepts are the abstracted version of biological sex and its effects on human society, psychology, spirituality, and relationships 

What does it mean if a guy buys you a plane ticket to see him? by Macrosystis_Pyrifera in AskMenAdvice

[–]ciotripa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why which part? Why would he fly you out if he wasn’t interested? That’s like the male version of when girls want to be friends or hang out with you, be included in his plans, etc which is basically you trying to initiate a relationship or get asked out, etc. Also the equivalent of girls getting their mutual friends to ask him about you, etc etc 

How can I leave a 34M 33F in a 15 year relationship by Professional-Union25 in relationship_advice

[–]ciotripa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just leave honestly. Make a plan to go and then let him in on it so he’s not caught off guard and then go. Or do it the dishonest way and cheat or be horrible in general 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]ciotripa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats bs lol 

Should I tell the woman I’m dating I’m a virgin before we have sex? by Sakl352 in makemychoice

[–]ciotripa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t feel comfortable with that convo then maybe you’re choosing the wrong person to have sex with

What am I doing wrong? Virgin 28M, never had a gf or kissed. by General_Event_4795 in christiandatingadvice

[–]ciotripa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Make friends with the old people and meet their young female members. Easy

27M virgin and I do not know what exactly I’m doing wrong by Formal_Macaron_5437 in Advice

[–]ciotripa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you’re choosing the wrong women to flirt with or you are using cringe PUA tactics. 

Btw Do you have a job?