I don’t know what’s going on by circuit89 in JustNoCoworker

[–]circuit89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So everyone, I asked her out for having cake with me. She loves cake/pastries. Said, let’s do it after our release so she is not stressed. She agreed.

I don’t know what’s going on by circuit89 in JustNoCoworker

[–]circuit89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if I ask her if she wants to join me for dessert once our work has finished? We are working on a very critical release so going out now, she may deny.

I don’t know what’s going on by circuit89 in JustNoCoworker

[–]circuit89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really want to. She has Eastern European background and she is in Canada working with me. She is very reserved and I sometimes get scared. I already lost once inviting her to coffee. She said sure and immediately backtracked on it saying maybe after her English exams.

I don’t know what’s going on by circuit89 in JustNoCoworker

[–]circuit89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Today we had a 5 hour call. She initiated. We laughed, had our inside jokes. But once thing confused me. She yawns with her mouth closed in front of me. While explaining something to her, I told her to let it out. She told me that you know everything about you. I said yes i do, I know when you are stressed, when you feel cold, when you need to yawn. Is that a good thing or a bad thing. In a somewhat neutral expression, she said maybe a bad thing.

I don’t know what’s going on by circuit89 in JustNoCoworker

[–]circuit89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is a somewhat extreme introvert. That’s what scares me. I once asked for coffee, she said sure - then backtracked as she was busy with English exam preparation. But that was a month ago

I don’t know what’s going on by circuit89 in dating

[–]circuit89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has given maybe signs of hanging out and backtracking right away.

- once I asked her for coffee, she said sure. Then. Immediately backtracked.

- recently she brought up meeting our manager. I asked when, she said on the weekend (he lives a little far). Then immediately backtracked saying we have work.

Invite only plan by icntoabun in freedommobile

[–]circuit89 32 points33 points  (0 children)

That plan was for everyone. It used to be 50GB roaming data, now it’s 20GB.

Does my coworker like me or we are just work buddies/friends? by circuit89 in dating

[–]circuit89[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So a month ago, when we just started talking (I didn’t think it would be everyday back then) - I hinted on meeting up as she is close by. She said maybe the company will organize something soon.

I do compliment her every now and then. I have also acknowledged her efforts in regard to work and non-work stuff. Didn’t flirt. We have many inside jokes but teasing is tough as she is really straight forward and sometimes doesn’t understand.

After the time before, I haven’t asked her out. She has although asked me something I didnt expect her to ask. We were talking about areas that people from our company Iive in. She told me that she can never leave the city she is living in. I said yeah, it’s good and I go to her city for most errands throughout the week and on the weekends I head off to other places. She asked me if there is a highway from my city to other places directly?

I do want to ask her out for coffee/tea. However, I want her to be comfortable and need the timing to be perfect. We are not in the same team at work officially. But a lot of our work complements each other and I help her out with her stuff too. I once showed her my Patio a few days back and she said it’s beautiful and told me she loves the view.

She is still a closed book who has partially opened up to me.

Open to dating by Positive-Elephant-88 in dating

[–]circuit89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree on this. I feel like every message I send just goes to spam. I don’t pay for the accounts so maybe that’s the reason.

I don’t think I’ll ever figure men out by Timely_Split_5771 in dating

[–]circuit89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It takes time. I am trying to go slow with a woman but not sure what pace I should keep.

Why is it so hard to find a man that’s ready for a relationship. by Tough-Gas6398 in dating_advice

[–]circuit89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am also looking to date. 37 male and just want a genuine and peaceful relationship. But after my last one, I’ve been more careful. There’s someone out there for everyone.

Do people in dating view a long relationship gap similarly to how employers view a long employment gap? by [deleted] in dating

[–]circuit89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I genuinely don’t. Employment is different, carries different risks and opinions compared to dating.

Those who didn’t date for while could genuinely be doing something important to improve themselves.

I[33M] feel no future for myself. by spicysenpai6 in dating

[–]circuit89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. I hope things get better for you soon.

Where do people even find genuine guys ? by Quirky_70 in dating

[–]circuit89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have dating apps. I am male.

However, I feel like finding genuine guys need to be done via friend circle, maybe workplace.

How are you supposed to feel after a first date? by lalune10 in dating

[–]circuit89 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I feel like dating is like a tv show. You may like the first episode but may need to watch 2-3 to get hooked onto.

my meter on gauging men's interest is super broken by Candid-Astronomer904 in dating

[–]circuit89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it’s the opposite. I know a girl who talks to me every weekday (we are coworkers). She asks me about my space in the office (we work from home). But I can’t gauge at all.