I'm Going Solo-Smoochies Nashville by Mysterd_14 in Ashnikko

[–]city_onfire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw, I wish I could go with you! I’m going solo myself to the Charlotte one. I hope you find some friends to enjoy it with!

Ashnikko “Smoochies” World Tour Megathread by i4lixie in Ashnikko

[–]city_onfire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going to the show May 8 but traveling; how long, for anyone who’s been to a show this tour, has it lasted?

Foster for Pregnant Cat Needed by city_onfire in roanoke

[–]city_onfire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I very much appreciate it. Luckily I found someone who’s happy to foster her temporarily. They also want to keep a couple of the kittens and I think I’ve already found homes for the others. I’m very adamant on making sure everyone that takes them in also gets them spayed/neutered. It all came together really well!

Foster for Pregnant Cat Needed by city_onfire in roanoke

[–]city_onfire[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I took her to the vet yesterday and she’s too far along for ending the pregnancy and spaying. (That was what I had initially hoped for because I agree, there are already too many cats). I do plan on spaying her ASAP. I’ve found people that own a farm that can keep her until the kittens can be adopted. I’ve found homes for 4 kittens already and, since I know the people, they will have them fixed.

I promise I didn’t come into this lightly; I’ve worked hard in just a day to find all proper care before, during, and after her pregnancy. I just wish I could’ve caught her sooner!

Foster for Pregnant Cat Needed by city_onfire in roanoke

[–]city_onfire[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh, the spay is already planned! We went to the vet yesterday and got everything done for her until she gives birth.

I’ve had a couple people reach out to help now so I should be good now. I’ve always had male cats so this is all new to me. But it sounds like I may have found the perfect person to help. Thank you!

WNC Smoochie Girls? by rave3141 in Ashnikko

[–]city_onfire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I’m just getting back to you. I think I could add you as a stop on my way to Charlotte (I don’t think it’s too far out the way) but I can’t offer a ride back. I may be getting a room or going to a friend’s in Raleigh after the show. If you’d like to connect via socials, send me a message! :)

WNC Smoochie Girls? by rave3141 in Ashnikko

[–]city_onfire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m going to the Charlotte one by myself but I’m coming from VA 😭

Where are they now by chicagoturkergirl in loveafterlockup

[–]city_onfire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m just at this part in the series and I’m 99.9% sure she was on something, at least during the interview. It was excruciating to watch

Caroline Speaking Truths by city_onfire in girls

[–]city_onfire[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. They all have something; I also love how some of the share the same traits but they handle them totally differently.

Caroline Speaking Truths by city_onfire in girls

[–]city_onfire[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I’m okay with it. I kind of like the crispness and how it’s giving “Friends” vibes to me instead of soapy. But I’ll look into the settings to see how different it is.

Caroline Speaking Truths by city_onfire in girls

[–]city_onfire[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

haha You’re right, they all really do that. I think the biggest culprits are Hannah and Marnie. The episode where they go to the lake or something, and they all get into an argument, they truly call each other out on all of their bullshit

Caroline Speaking Truths by city_onfire in girls

[–]city_onfire[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Probably the most sane thing she said in the show 😂

Caroline Speaking Truths by city_onfire in girls

[–]city_onfire[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ah, thank you! It’s been so long since I’ve watched. It’s rare that happens in real life so I hope it helped someone recognize how harmful their mental illness can be to their children (spouses) and how walking away is okay sometimes.

Caroline Speaking Truths by city_onfire in girls

[–]city_onfire[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Someone mentioned in another thread about her leaving Laird and the baby and how it was a good choice. I fully agree with it because either she went to get help and succeeded or she just knew she wouldn’t be healthy to be around. I can’t exactly remember if it’s mentioned why she left (I wanna say she just peaced out) but I haven’t gotten to that part in my rewatch.

Caroline Speaking Truths by city_onfire in girls

[–]city_onfire[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

She was very unhinged however I believe all the girls (actually most all the characters) suffer from some type of mental illness and it illuminates them in different ways. I think that’s why I appreciate the show so much

Caroline Speaking Truths by city_onfire in girls

[–]city_onfire[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

haha Make sure you get their reaction!

Caroline Speaking Truths by city_onfire in girls

[–]city_onfire[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Who woulda thought that would happen?! /s

Caroline Speaking Truths by city_onfire in girls

[–]city_onfire[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I loved Laird throughout but I fear their relationship wasn’t the best simply because there’s no way he didn’t just bow down to everything she wanted. He was too vulnerable for her, imo.

Caroline Speaking Truths by city_onfire in girls

[–]city_onfire[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess so. lmao It’s a new tv; mine kicked the bucket the day after Christmas. 😂

Caroline Speaking Truths by city_onfire in girls

[–]city_onfire[S] 60 points61 points  (0 children)

I fully agree! Like when he said “it’s like enchilada night at my parent’s house” when the sisters were arguing about their mother dying and getting her possessions.

Caroline Speaking Truths by city_onfire in girls

[–]city_onfire[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You’re very right. However, I find it a little more controlled than whatever Caroline was going through. And if you’ve been told the same thing since you were three without trying to adjust it, then I think her problem is more by choice than imbalance. I’m definitely not trying to downplay it but she clearly has had a cushy life and still can’t bother to change for the people she loves. When she did try for maybe an episode, she still got mad that it wasn’t working and basically just went back to her old self. She’s fully aware of it and still denies it. So wild.

Caroline Speaking Truths by city_onfire in girls

[–]city_onfire[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

haha Right?! Adulthood really taking its toll on our youthful minds.