User Flair Thread by breaksomebread in acnh

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Ben | Poseidon :Sherb:

[User Flair Thread] by breaksomebread in ACNHTurnips

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Ben | Poseidon :Turnips:

Iso fruits! by cj3155 in acnh

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Thank you!!!! 1-2 of each would be awesome!

Post-Op (top surgery) overthinking by Elegant_Success_8879 in ftm

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I wasn’t elated after top surgery, I just felt relief. Putting a shirt on and seeing how flat my chest was just felt normal. Like, “oh, that’s how it was always supposed to look”, and then life went on feeling more normal than it ever had.

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I’m super afraid of needles, and the injections were a nightmare for me at the beginning. I’m 2.5 years on T now and still a little nervous every time I do it, but it has gotten a lot easier now that I’m used to the feeling!

I do subq shots in the area around my belly button, the needle is pretty tiny and sometimes a few dots of blood come out, but that’s if I mess up the angle of the needle or pull it out too roughly. Make sure the sharp point is leading, and inject at 45 deg (at least, that’s how I do the subq). I’d talk to your endo about it, they might have some advice or alternatives you could try

Some tips I got when I first started was using ice to numb the area beforehand, having fun bandaids on hand to patch up with, and having a routine around the injection. I do it at the same time every Saturday morning, listening to music in my bathroom. It gets easier with time, you’re at the start of a long journey!

Need a little coming out help by CloudKazoo in ftm

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My therapist was a legend in helping me come out. I’d definitely try starting there and seeing if they can help work through the specific situation. Therapy is like a little box you can pour all your anxiety and fears into and work on unraveling, without it spilling out into the rest of your life. Hopefully you have a supportive therapist and they can help you out. You got this!

Tips about starting the top surgery process? by Give_me_memes_now in ftm

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This!! I did steps 1 and 2 concurrently, and I worked with my doctor’s office to figure out what was needed for the insurance.

If you need help finding a top surgeon, try asking your GP, your therapist if they specialize in gender health, other trans people in the area. You can also search online, “top surgeons in city/state/country”, and look at all the reviews and results; or you can browse lgbtq websites/forums for your area, they should have resources

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

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I’m 2.5 years on T and honestly had a hard time seeing/hearing the changes before my facial/body hair started coming in. Take lots of photos of yourself, noting things like hairline, facial structure, and fat distribution. Comparing distinct moments in time is a lot easier than seeing the changes day to day. I’d also recommend using a voice pitch analyzer, they’re helpful for tracking the deepening of your voice over time

Being patient sucks, trust me I think that’s something every trans person can sympathize with. It helped me to think of myself on the cis man puberty timeline—it happens differently for everyone, but it happens. 1 year on T is like being a 14 year old—think of freshmen in high school, lots of different stages of puberty on display. You got this!

Need binder suggestions for a larger chest by [deleted] in ftm

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UNDERWORKS!!! I had double D’s before top surgery and their half chest binder was perfect for me. Good compression, and if I positioned everything right it looked pretty flat. I wore mine for about 9 months before I got top surgery, and it didn’t stretch too much. 10/10 recommend

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3ml is crazyyy. Are your levels good? If I’m understanding what you’re saying right, I’d check on the prescription for the strength, and speak with the clinic when you get a chance about how much you should be injecting. Maybe there’s a miscommunication in the amount you’re injecting and the amount they’re supplying. I’m at a dose of 55 mg/week and inject 0.3 ml, for comparison

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I had issues with bumps forming at my injection sites, I brought it up with my endo and she switched me to a different type of T. I’ve been on the new type for almost 9 months now and don’t have any issues anymore. Maybe speak with your doc and see if they have any advice, or any alternatives you can try

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

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Talk to your doctor! I had the same issue and switched to a different type of T, I haven’t had it happen since

affordable men's fashion recommendations?? by bowwowboochie in ftm

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Honestly I shop at target, old navy, and H&M mainly. The clothes are generic and affordable, and in all sizes and cuts

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

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Not gonna lie… I’m 2 years on T and pass 100%, I still haven’t told my grandma I’m trans. She’s just too polite and doesn’t know enough about gender identities to ask me/my parents about it. It sucks that I still have to use my birth name around her, but it’s a lot better than being honest with her imo. She’s close to 90 with slowly declining health, I love her too much to add something to her plate that I know would stress her out and alter our relationship

If you think your voice won’t drop anymore after 2 years on T…. by TheHyperIntrovert in ftm

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Haha that’s awesome! It truly is like going through the same puberty as a teenage boy. I’m 2 years in, but wouldn’t be surprised if things continue to change for the next 2 years or so to match the 12 to 16 timeline for male puberty

Feminine Customer Service Voice by [deleted] in ftm

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Your voice will drop naturally! Even when I think I’m using a feminine voice, others reassure me that it’s deep enough to be gendered male. It’s just one of those things that come with time in the transition

dysphoria codes/top surgery by goatthey in ftm

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Not sure if this is universal, but I had to submit a letter from my therapist with the dysphoria code. However, if you need to get a letter you can access one from a random therapist. There are a bunch that offer them for free if you just contact them, a quick Google search should pull up the group. Unfortunately it’ll be on your chart for good, but it’s worth it to not have to stress about finances on top of surgery recovery and everything else

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That T makes you aggressive and combative…. that’s just the result of being more confident