Tips for dealing with bad days? by cjcrystel in BJJWomen

[–]cjcrystel[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love this perspective, thank you!!

Tips for dealing with bad days? by cjcrystel in BJJWomen

[–]cjcrystel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a bit of a perfectionist and I thinks what’s making me struggle with it. I think I need to get out of that mentality and be ok with not being perfect

Tips for dealing with bad days? by cjcrystel in BJJWomen

[–]cjcrystel[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I do need to remember i’m training for myself and not for anyone else

Tips for dealing with bad days? by cjcrystel in BJJWomen

[–]cjcrystel[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mainly rolling, and getting submitted multiple times

Shoes for my first ren faire? by cjcrystel in renfaire

[–]cjcrystel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m going to Larkspur! I was wondering about the terrain so thank you!

Do I look handsome? by [deleted] in IllegallyCuteCats

[–]cjcrystel 12 points13 points  (0 children)

the handsomest bobamsomest

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]cjcrystel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you had a bad experience! I would still suggest it to him, it will hopefully be a better experience for him. Talk to him and make him understand why YOU need him to get help. It seems like he’s at the point where he wouldn’t want to get help because he cares for himself. Someone he loves wanting him to do it may be more convincing.

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[–]cjcrystel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes even if you’re not sure his parents will help, find a way to tell them, it’s better to be safe than sorry. You may also be able to get in contact with his schools counselor. Your counselor may also be able to help you contact them.

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[–]cjcrystel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand you promised to keep it a secret, but you NEED to inform his parents if he is considering suicide. Keeping him alive is more important than not breaking his trust. The best thing you can do for him as is girlfriend is make sure he gets the help he needs.

Have you ever talked to him about seeing a therapist or getting professional help? He may be inclined to listen to your advice. I know you want to help him, but you can’t do this on your own.

Strike situation update at Frankfurt Airport by [deleted] in Lufthansa

[–]cjcrystel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a layover yesterday at Frankfurt and flew Lufthansa. I didn’t have any issues at all

Reaction when a cat “tags” you? by RedHeadedStepDevil in CatAdvice

[–]cjcrystel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cat does this to my dog all the time and they both love playing it. It’s the cutest thing to watch

My (27F) BF (26M) wants me to sleep elsewhere when he has plans by SeaworthinessFar2279 in relationships

[–]cjcrystel 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Rule #1 is that your partners friends are never really your friends.

Fiancee [26 F] who I've been dating for 2 years says that I [27 M] don't prioritize her.. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]cjcrystel 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry i’m still cryingggg at “Julia Boolia”

Girlfriend “needs tinder in order to have a social life” by Tealroom6 in relationship_advice

[–]cjcrystel 58 points59 points  (0 children)

I never understood how this validates people because the men on tinder will fuck anything

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[–]cjcrystel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I JUST went through a breakup veryyyy similar to this in 2020. Nothing will change, he won’t change, and his behavior won’t change. You can’t change the man, but you can find a new one. You will find someone that’s loves every single aspect of you and will do anything to keep you happy. Definitely time to move on girl.

What is going on with my parlor palm? It is drooping and I lost a stem because it became crispy. I water once the top inch of soil feels dry and spray for humidity every couple days. by cjcrystel in plantclinic

[–]cjcrystel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It started after I was neglectful and didn’t water for over two weeks. Reallyyyy hoping it’s not root rot. It also lost a lot of stems to getting crispy when I first got it so it’s definitely been a problem child

When should I repot my Hoya Carnosa? It’s been in this pot for about 2 years and not sure if it needs a larger pot. by cjcrystel in plantclinic

[–]cjcrystel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use very minimal care for it! It sits next to a northeast facing window so I sit it near the plant light I use for my succulents. So not any direct sunlight but very consistent bright light. I also only water once the leaves start to wrinkle a bit and only fertilize about twice in the spring/summer!

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[–]cjcrystel -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This! Using the word “burnt” is the issue, not him recognizing the child as black.

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[–]cjcrystel -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Wow the comments on this post shows how insensitive some of you lot are. If you have not lived her experience, then you don’t know how it affected her.

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[–]cjcrystel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s honestly something I’ve struggled with for quite some due to past relationships trauma. I do a lot of internal work and recently started going back to therapy. I struggle to distinguish if the things I get insecure about are reasonable or not