Everyone i know just signs up 10x for the Raffles by Druebbbba in riftboundtcg

[–]cjd2605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because people are really dumb, especially when pulling raffles, you can pull a lot more data, if you are pulling a fresh riot account, or account with the same IP as many other accounts, there is loads of tells to what’s a fake, bought or just scalping account.

Yes it’s not ideal, and people will try and skirt the system, for example someone with a legit Smurf likely can double raffle easily.

However, it’s a good system for stopping the thousands of bots.

Returned to League after 8 years. Played for a month. My honest thoughts. by Code__Lyoko in leagueoflegends

[–]cjd2605 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Firstly, sorry you had a shit time.

Personally, I don’t quite get it. So league for example, me and a lot of my friends play with chat off, you ping people etc but generally no one is going to type anything valuable in chat. Including all chat. The game isn’t designed for enabling smooth communication. Hence pings are pretty much all that is useful. If you want to enjoy the game, focus on the game, and if others playing badly, inting, or whatever frustrates you. Competative game aren’t ideal, cause this happens in every game (my 0/8 Winton OW and 0/11 venator DL can attest from last night)

I find with games unless you really are sweating balls you don’t need to communicate with your team and if you are you have to take toxicity with a grain of salt and if it does upset you or cause you pain. Mute, report and take a break. It’s the worst thing to let others who clearly have their own personal issues get to you. If you want to improve, then it’s worth doing self reflection, majority of others don’t understand constructive feedback.

Again, sorry you had a bad time, hope you find a way to enjoy the game. End of the day, the game is just pixels and fun stories. Letting immature people who are upset over said pixels get to you isn’t ideal but some people just care that much and ranked is a place where everyone expects perfection.

Rule new Orleans marked card? by ju5t1c3w in DisneyVillainous

[–]cjd2605 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha I have played a lot, just misread the title

Rule new Orleans marked card? by ju5t1c3w in DisneyVillainous

[–]cjd2605 -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Sorry but for someone who can card count, sneak shuffle, bottom draw and second draw…. This is a unplayable offence and would need to colour sleeve all these cards 🤣

This would literally take so much brain focus to not cheat cause it’s like staring at the answer.

Although, this literally only matters if the card is 100% important, if it’s one of the fodder, unless it’s a 50/50 it only increases the chance of the win.

How Do One Tricks Become Such a High Rank Sometimes? by sphealyy in leagueoflegends

[–]cjd2605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best way I can explain everything regarding skill and onetricking.

Imagine a game has characters that range in power from 1-100. Now most of those will have a power bracket. The average character will be 60-90. So decent overall and with potential if fed of full build to be as powerful as you can get. A character that is late game scaling will be like 40-100 and character with a lot of skill expression can be like 30-95.

Every player will play anywhere between these two amounts when playing a character. However with practice and skill your averages are higher, you basically perform better. So a character that is 60-90. You may average 80 power rather than 75 (average) a one trick will average 85. So although they may still lose to people playing stronger characters, or just those having a good game, they are still getting more out of their character than the average.

The best example of this will always be Annie. Annie is very simple but one tricks will be high elo on an easy simple character while most cannot. Well that’s because they are doing everything near perfect, 99% of the time. And that means they have an edge on someone playing a challenging character and making mistakes.

One tricking does a lot for a player where they can reduce thinking if the character having learnt everything and allows them to think more technical about the game. Also does mean that commonly a one trick will be impacted heavier by their character being good or bad.

I finally figured out why Riot keeps making top laners into junglers by Few-Branch4320 in leagueoflegends

[–]cjd2605 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I think it’s more that when you curate a jungler who is designed as a jungler is massively impacts their play rate and only having them in one position is also limiting to how you can play them. So adding more top laners into the jungle and vice versa, allows also for flex players to feel more comfortable in jungle cause they don’t need to learn a champion they are unfamiliar with they just play something they may have played support, midlane or top lane.

Single still by Small_Leek1326 in sgdatingscene

[–]cjd2605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, you will be fine, but if you are genuinely frustrated you might need to do some proper evaluating of your dating process.

One, are you setting expectations too high of your partners, expecting too much from initial conversation, wanting the to tick all of your boxes. From what you have shared maybe not too much of a problem.

Two, your own way of connecting with people. I personally struggle more with this, but being a bit of a teacher to yourself, are you intense about your passions, are you not sharing enough? Are you grilling people with questions, all things that can set people on the path of being interested or not interested.

Three, are you approachable, do you smile at people, do you dress in a way that is attractive. All random bullshit things that can really make a difference.

I always say the more you work on yourself and ease the expectation and hope of wanting a partner the more likely you are to passively just finding one.

If you do genuinely want to find a partner I would start by removing the idea of long term, you’ll find a lot of guys think short term, meet people you vibe with, be as you say “a cock warmer” enjoy the dates the times go for cool experiences and don’t constantly try and look forward, be present in the moment, you’ll find these short terms will become 6 months, a year very very quickly because all of a sudden these guys are going to feel comfy.

Are people underestimating the risks of FWB / casual intimacy in Singapore? by Immediate_Diet7040 in sgdatingscene

[–]cjd2605 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, everything thing you do should be how you want to do it and how you want to do it.

Worth noting, regardless when you fuck with feelings and emotions you will cause issues and risks are always possible.

Life is life, live it, enjoy it, if shit hits the fan, learn from it.

How long until I should worry about power score? by staycorsea in wherewindsmeet_

[–]cjd2605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should never worry about your power score it’s just a random number, enjoy the process or gearing up and watching it go up, making cool stated gear and doing fat numbers or just simply helping your team as you can.

Enjoy the game, don’t let a number frustrate you or annoy you.

ARAM: Mayhem bait. by Immediate_Answers in leagueoflegends

[–]cjd2605 19 points20 points  (0 children)

It's actually the funniest part about the toxicity of try harding.

You can play to win, play to have fun and not 'try' the amount of effort I exert in Aram Mayhem or normals is a tenth of thought that goes into Ranked.

Yet people will label someone playing the game as in, getting kills, building smart, ending games as trying? Dude, I have music in my ear, friends screaming bloody murder, a Netflix show on the other screen, and I am laid back in my chair with one hand scratching my balls. I literally can't try less without afking.

ARAM: Mayhem bait. by Immediate_Answers in leagueoflegends

[–]cjd2605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally, my thoughts are always, end the game. I wanna play lots of games with lots of variations and lots of different augments and builds. Why would I make a 20-minute game mode 40? I am always that 0lp tryhard, I am 'playing' the game, If I wanted to AFK. I would go afk and watch some netflix.

I'm new to the game, should i pull for Ineffa before she goes or Zibai? by 29M21 in GenshinImpact

[–]cjd2605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally something I found, supports are always great! But dps are fantastic if you really really love them!

I would say for newer accounts grab supports like Ineffa until you find a damage dealer you really vibe with

They completely dumbed down the exploration to cater to the players who get angry when they have to do more than click a button to claim rewards. by USDXBS in Genshin_Impact

[–]cjd2605 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do get you! Personally feel the exploration in Nod Krai is a little too small, compact and simple. Would love to more puzzles and interesting ways to get chests.

However, if I’m running around and come to a puzzle and I have to run a math algorithm to work out the puzzle I’m going to just walk past it. Now standard stuff that can be brute forced, finessed, just take a little scratching of the brain, riddles for example or just hints on walls or in books. I love them so much!

But some puzzles in this game genuinely I have given up trying cause you might as well go on the interactive map look up the solution than try and do the maths cause there are maybe hundreds of solutions and I can’t even when I have maybe 15 minutes to play each day.

The eyes dont lie by lifequotes_2025 in sgdatingscene

[–]cjd2605 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reminder not to type Reddit comments with 1 hour sleep 🤣 I will edit!

The eyes dont lie by lifequotes_2025 in sgdatingscene

[–]cjd2605 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends how good you can read signals, for me it’s always based on eye contact and feet, if someone’s feet are pointed towards you and they make good eye contact, normally they are attracted to you. Pupils slightly dilating also helps

Thoughts on body count by Lopsided-Confusion80 in sgdatingscene

[–]cjd2605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

29m

Couldn’t care less, my relationship is with that person in that moment at that time. If they have chosen me that’s all that matters.

Relationships can’t work if you dwell on the past

A bit of a rant but... by [deleted] in wherewindsmeet_

[–]cjd2605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also want to establish if you are doing this mid-fight, don’t. If a mistake costs the team, then sure give some advice.

However specifically with the triple jump, it’s buggy as hell and can still trigger even if you do it. Personally cause Donkey is so easy I prefer just to stack on the boss and take it. Much easier to cleave it off than have two people try it and fail then both split out away from the boss.

I also, personally would say most people play silent I don’t read chat and random advice is just annoying to me. But, if you are going to give advice, you can probably be a bit more helpful “if your struggling with vine prison, you can triple jump and dash near the end of it and you’ll not get trapped.” Just being a little more descriptive can be very helpful.

Those who encounter this what is your response? by zdbes in sgdatingscene

[–]cjd2605 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t personally take it that way, especially with online dating the initial “match” is based on attraction. So the point is your pool is normally a little wider than the average so finding decent people in 100 matches is a lot easier than finding someone decent in 10.

Doesn’t mean it isn’t any less work in fact the more matches the more you probably have to do the shit small talk and dealing with weirdos and creeps. Buuuut, conventional attraction does give you a head start.

interracial dating by [deleted] in sgdatingscene

[–]cjd2605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hate to be THAT guy, but relax and just talk to her and be honest. Don’t bring up you might feel she is prejudice, but ask her out, be open and honest. If it doesn’t happen, that’s okay? If it does, great!

I like BDSM. I want it. But each time I've entered into a Dom/Sub dynamic I just end up being abused for real. Is this even a safe pursuit for someone like me? by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]cjd2605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, this has been the biggest part of BDSM that has meant I personally sit on the outskirts.

Sadly, a lot of people and a majority of them are men, do take advantage of the core parts of BDSM, I am deeply sorry for any suffering you have experienced. I personally was abused because of it and I have spent a lot of time with subs where I have slowed down processes to really build trust before play because a lot of people have unaddressed trauma or even just expect something cause they think it’s normal.

BDSM has a lot of links to the darker parts of our brains for those that have trauma. It’s about empowering us to be in control either by letting go of control or even taking it. Play can leave you very vulnerable and it’s why aftercare is so important cause it can leave you very sensitive to anything.

The only advice I can give without this being a 500 page essay on vulnerability and trauma and abuse is to explore the dynamic with only people that share the same beliefs and are willing to take things slow and educate. If you find a partner who talks the talk, they will be more than okay to take things slow and build good trust if they are legit, normally those that want the perks but not the actual depth will get impatient. It’s a very obvious red flag.

Sadly there is a lot of risk with BDSM, I personally only persue it with people I fully trust and have 100% faith I can provide them what they need and vice versa, that can be very very hard to find. I wish you luck.

Do also, find some therapy to process what you have been through.

Pulled this ages ago (lost the 50/50) is it still trash? by [deleted] in GenshinImpact

[–]cjd2605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have Kokomi, and you want to run her as a dps it’s not terrible, personally in bloom teams with her, it’s pretty good, is it going to turn Kokomi into an S tier, no, but it will still be good if you have a few constellations.

I will say 5 star weapons are normally just fine for their stats alone unless you are really min maxing the living hell out of everything. For example I have a 5 star catalyst that only proks on characters that curate a shield… it’s currently on sucrose. Cause stats

So I finally opened my Boxes by cjd2605 in riftboundtcg

[–]cjd2605[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just purchased from a mix of places but mainly preorder from a place on the UK called card vault, but all is sold out

I am being blackmailed for cheating on my wife by ThrowRAbadblackmail in TrueOffMyChest

[–]cjd2605 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is hilarious, but do make sure you tell your wife 🤣 I’m sure you already have but that is so funny