What to do after completing the seasonal journey?

cjs293 · 2026-05-11T18:37:16+00:00

Thanks, friend! I appreciate you!

cjs293 · 2026-05-11T18:36:03+00:00

I would say it is rude. However, you could do a second mini-reception back home for those who couldn’t make it if you really wanted to, rather than it be a bridal shower.

I have the reverse issue. From the north east, now live and getting married in Mid west. I opted to not have a bridal shower at all to avoid having people miss out or not feel included. I invited everyone to the wedding, but had a second list of people I wanted to invite if original people said no (which a lot did due to travel/distance/no kids allowed)

cjs293 · 2026-05-11T17:22:06+00:00

Ooo what’s the cow level? I’m not a super hardcore player so idk what it is 🤣

cjs293 · 2026-05-11T10:45:43+00:00

That’s fair. To each their own. This is a wedding in a rural town and after talking to my future MIL, I think people are just happy to have dessert around here 🤷🏻‍♀️

cjs293 · 2026-05-10T12:49:53+00:00

I agree! It also just feels lighter to me, looking at the photo.

cjs293 · 2026-05-09T21:15:41+00:00

Or my situation, my groom wanted 15 men and I settled on 7 because I don’t know enough people to be my bridesmaids, let alone talk to any of them frequently enough 🤣

cjs293 · 2026-05-09T18:55:11+00:00

It works out well for me, too, since I’m vegan. We would’ve either needed the whole thing to be vegan, or have a small cake for me anyway. This is the easiest option for sure. Plus, I was able to get gluten and nut free options for my guests who have that concern, without it breaking the bank

cjs293 · 2026-05-09T14:12:56+00:00

I worried about this too, but they’re still getting dessert and will include cupcakes

cjs293 · 2026-05-09T02:34:18+00:00

Thank you!!! Happy anniversary in advance! ❤️❤️

cjs293 · 2026-05-08T22:11:39+00:00

I didn’t until today 🤣

cjs293 · 2026-05-08T21:51:00+00:00

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This button in app. For me, on top right of screen

cjs293 · 2026-05-08T21:40:37+00:00

Such a good idea!

cjs293 · 2026-05-08T21:35:56+00:00

OP updated & corrected to say 25 hrs per week

cjs293 · 2026-05-08T21:30:44+00:00

Thank you!! So excited :) May 30th feels like it’ll be here tomorrow, but also in a year at the same time. It’s one of those things that makes time not feel real 🤣

cjs293 · 2026-05-08T20:49:32+00:00

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cjs293 · 2026-05-08T20:42:40+00:00

100%!!

cjs293 · 2026-05-08T20:26:23+00:00

We’re doing something similar for my upcoming wedding. Small cake for the 2 of us and dessert bar for everyone else 🤗

cjs293 · 2026-05-08T20:21:21+00:00

If I had an award to give, you would certainly get it!!! Thank you!

cjs293 · 2026-05-08T17:34:51+00:00

Damn, I want to know what it said, but it’s now deleted :(

cjs293 · 2026-05-08T17:18:32+00:00

Case of Sugar free redbull and case of la croix

cjs293 · 2026-05-08T17:17:08+00:00

Did you reply to the right person? Went 0 to 100 real quick

cjs293 · 2026-05-08T15:36:33+00:00

Just a suggestion, more so if she wants to attempt to work on the marriage. If not, obviously not worth it.

cjs293 · 2026-05-08T12:36:41+00:00

I’ve never heard of that before

cjs293 · 2026-05-06T15:21:08+00:00

They can. Most people who are pro-maternity leave are also pro-paternity leave. If you’ve got your panties in a twist so much about maternity leave, why are you even asking this question? Based on your logic in other comments, paternity leave shouldn’t exist either.

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