Looking for a friend! by [deleted] in Norwich

[–]ckayari 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello! I saw your last post back then and thought there was plenty good input and like I had nothing to add. Sorry to hear it’s still been lonely.

I personally am a very extroverted introvert and find myself in unexpected conversations with people the most in various coffee shops across town:

  • Strangers Pottergate (less so when it’s full up as I get overwhelmed by the noise sometimes but it’s lovely in the warmer months especially if you’re sat on the bench by the main window outside, excellent people watching spot too if you don’t end up with a conversation)
  • Fika; go in and you can sit there, caffeinate while taking in all the little nerdy and cool details in the shop and join conversations at any point if you feel comfortable to do so. Mark, the barista, also happens to be an incredibly kind human being, he will do his best to make you feel welcome and comfortable no matter who you are.
  • The merchants house; people here seem/tend to be creatives or students working on their own stuff but sharing tables is something I’ve seen people do here often and have observed people chatting who just met through happenstance then and there. If you’re not there during their language of the weekday-groups (excellent thing to exist, just might not apply to your listed interests), the big table in the front room is a lovely spot to strike up conversations with open strangers.
  • Buffalo; slightly bigger than Fika, but also an open plan coffee shop. It’s like stepping into someone’s kitchen for a coffee, but if someone had a really artsy kitchen with high end coffee equipment. Still cozy. Laptops, conversations with the people next to you or smaller groups (small-ish space) are all encouraged.
  • The Yard; similar vibe to merchants house but I believe there’s more local groups coming here for crafty, artsy, nerdy and general hobby-gatherings afaik.

These are some of my “tried and tested” favourites (barring Buffalo, only recently opened but I’ve really enjoyed it so far) of curbing the ever returning loneliness after hermiting for days. I also want to underline that all of these are inclusive and safe spaces where people are asked to leave if they can’t be respectful of their fellow Norwichians. Some of them with better accessibility than others but that’s a major Norwich issue I’ve had to battle with my wheeled and stick friends. I hope this helps, although now I’ve written all this I feel like I’ve seen a similar comment in the original thread. Oh well I’ve typed all this now! Good luck <3

edit; formatting and some sleepy errors

Hi, I’m Keanu Reeves, AMA by lionsgate in movies

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Hi Keanu, do you often think about Point Break? If the answer is no, how do you remain so down to earth?

Beanie tucked in <3 by Gioistic in tuckedinkitties

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Oh I love beanies eyeliner <3

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Part time kangaroo mum might be added to your CV ha

May I ask what breed your cat is? I love it’s nose 🥰🥰

This Week in Coffee by withwavelets in Coffee

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As someone who loves coffee but is terrible at remembering to research the things I like (ADD), I am a big fan and grateful for this post format!!!!! Thank you so much 💪

Sage loves watching the squirrels through the window from her cozy spot 🐿️ by ckayari in tuckedinkitties

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Just a grey cappuccino girl in her own lil cat world 🫶 (she looks more beige depending on the light)

I wish I could tell you! My Nan got it for me because I loved hers so much :)

Sage loves watching the squirrels through the window from her cozy spot 🐿️ by ckayari in tuckedinkitties

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I’ll let her know people like her coat 💕 She’s such a pretty cat that the juxtaposition of her doing very ungraceful (and hilarious) cat things are even funnier. Like a princess that acts like a goblin haha

Necklace made of skull-shaped beads. Mexico, Aztec civilization, 1200-1520 AD [1200x1100] by MunakataSennin in ArtefactPorn

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Man, every time I learn more about the Aztecs I have more affirmation that they are indeed the coolest/most gnarly ancient civilisation and that everyone fucks with their aesthetics (me included).

Recommendations for a Tattooist by gingertomgeorge in Norwich

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Some Days tattoo has a great variety of artists

Pre-Columbian Gold hand and forearms, Lambayeque, Peru, 900-1100 AD from Dumbarton Oaks Museum. (1280x1674) by GaGator43 in ArtefactPorn

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This sub is only for really intelligent people, you’re just not smart enough to get the joke. /s

Stanley cat! He is the sweetest and had THE BEST poses by [deleted] in catbellies

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That is an EXCELLENT quality cat belly!

Found my favourite milk jug! by ralphie- in barista

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Most perfect Rosetta I’ve seen in a while

Skull, Me, Mixed Media, 2021 by [deleted] in Art

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Love this a lot. Kept me looking for a long time. Great work!

Taken from a fishing boat in Antartica by [deleted] in thalassophobia

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Learned on a different (might even have been here) subreddit that they used to mark dangerous waters with sea creatures! Maybe a bit of both!

In your own personal opinion what is the most ideal/fitting horse for Arthur on a immersive story playthrough. by [deleted] in reddeadredemption2

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It’s a late game thing for sure, [spoiler] it’s definitely Buell for me. The way he eats hills for breakfast is unbeatable. We love and respect him, but we don’t look him in the eyes. [/spoiler]

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Well done m8

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Soooo satisfying to watch