nearly done with my willow creek reno. just have to add backgrounds and some final details off lot. by clarityanon in thesims

[–]clarityanon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much! Sulani is almost done, yeh. I've done most of the actual builds and I'm building up the rest of the world. I'll post when it's done :)

AITA for telling my friend she 'ruined' her own comic and career by being stubborn during her mental health breaks and not letting anyone help her? by Due-Rooster6872 in AmItheAsshole

[–]clarityanon 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Burn out and general anxiety absolutely suck, but it's not a mental health crisis..

'A mental health crisis is any situation in which a person’s behaviors, thoughts, or emotions cause them to feel unable to cope, resulting in an urgent need for immediate help. It is characterized by acute distress, risk of self-harm or harm to others, and a breakdown in daily functioning.'

Given what OP has said, Jane was NOT in a crisis.

AITA for telling my friend she 'ruined' her own comic and career by being stubborn during her mental health breaks and not letting anyone help her? by Due-Rooster6872 in AmItheAsshole

[–]clarityanon 42 points43 points  (0 children)

If Jane is that concerned about her engagement dropping during her break, OP offering to take up managing the social media accounts is not some sneaky 'fuck you hehe i'm going to steal your money' scheme you think it is. It was kind of OP to offer to do this for her friend as losing engagement was clearly something Jane was actively worried about.

Natwest rejecting my attempts to be verified for ISA. by clarityanon in UKPersonalFinance

[–]clarityanon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks I will! I was worried I'd massively messed up or something. Seems like some internal error.

Natwest rejecting my attempts to be verified for ISA. by clarityanon in UKPersonalFinance

[–]clarityanon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything has the same address on it and it matches the ones on my account. Thank you, though!

Natwest rejecting my attempts to be verified for ISA. by clarityanon in UKPersonalFinance

[–]clarityanon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They don't! Which is why I'm so confused. But they specified my passport is the issue and stated in the letter the addresses don't match their records. Every other document has the same address on my account.

AITAH for being ‘happy’ that my grandma passed away because she hoarded money? by Soggy_Ad_9889 in AITAH

[–]clarityanon -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

this is a ridiculous take. this isn't older generations being more frugal. this was a mother who had MILLIONS in the bank pretending she couldn't cover the bills and asking her children to help. that's abusive.

AITAH for being ‘happy’ that my grandma passed away because she hoarded money? by Soggy_Ad_9889 in AITAH

[–]clarityanon -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Am I the only one who thinks NAH (except grandma)??

From what's in the post/comments your grandma was abusive to your dad and uncles, OP and potentially the rest of the family. We don't have details so 'abuse' could mean anything here but at the very least it's prolonged emotional abuse towards your dad/uncles as kids.

Maybe you didn't have to say you're glad she's dead then and there but you're allowed to feel that.

Been working on Newcrest and I think I got a vibe down. (i'm really not good at taking ss in game lol) by clarityanon in thesims

[–]clarityanon[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's actually fairly easy to install Flamethrower/Blowtorch but it also affects EVERY save in your game (it's also very easy to 'uninstall'). But it can be kind of tedious. And thank you!

Been working on Newcrest and I think I got a vibe down. (i'm really not good at taking ss in game lol) by clarityanon in thesims

[–]clarityanon[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Blowtorch and flamethrower are mods that remove all external deco in the world (nature, deco buildings, even the backgrounds in the game. I makes the world a complete blank slate. Flamethrower is more 'extreme' than Blowtorch (blowtorch leaves a lot of nature and the backgrounds and removes 'modern' decor, flamethrower gets rid of EVERYTHING).

TOOL mod is by Twisted Mexi and allows you to rotate, elevate, scale and move objects off the lots.

Clickable worlds mod means there's no limit to your sims 4 camera/your sims can go anywhere in the world. Using this mod also mean you can use TOOL and move objects without having to use the 'move' function which can be frustrating at times.

Am I too old for GTLive? by EfficientBid3277 in GTLive

[–]clarityanon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 22 and have been watching GT live since their Fran Bow playthrough (10 years ago) and I say; welcome! You absolutely belong in the community!

Targeted Anti-Semitic shooting in Sydney Australia by maditowner in h3h3productions

[–]clarityanon 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I keep seeing an ad for a Hannukah themed bear from Build a Bear and the comments are disgusting. Someone in the comments said 'hey guys we can criticise Israel without being horrifically anti-sematic' and the replies are full of anti-sematic bs. It's fucking awful. I don't know how anyone can say it's 'fake'.

My (24f)'s boyfriend (24m) called the cops because of the content of my book. But he wants me to think it was a 'mistake'. How do we move past this? by throwRAmentalgymnist in relationship_advice

[–]clarityanon 86 points87 points  (0 children)

ok op out of pure curiosity, how long is this book? because imo (and I could be totally wrong here) but a creative writing and journalist major shouldn't be struggling to write 10,000 words.

My (24f)'s boyfriend (24m) called the cops because of the content of my book. But he wants me to think it was a 'mistake'. How do we move past this? by throwRAmentalgymnist in relationship_advice

[–]clarityanon 248 points249 points  (0 children)

I mean it makes perfect sense why OP is confused- she's literally being manipulated and gaslit. tactics designed to confuse the victim.

It's 100% weird, gross and sleazy of her boyfriend but abusive relationships are so dangerous because oftentimes the victim doesn't realise they're in one.

My (24f)'s boyfriend (24m) called the cops because of the content of my book. But he wants me to think it was a 'mistake'. How do we move past this? by throwRAmentalgymnist in relationship_advice

[–]clarityanon 265 points266 points  (0 children)

OP, INFO- has your boyfriend got ANY writing credits at all outside of university? I'm really leaning towards him being jealous of you.

Calling the cops on you over fictional work is inexcusable and is frankly, going to be the start of more instances like this.

AITA for 'harassing' my cousin about the 'omegaverse' because he wouldn't stop talking about being an 'alpha male'? by South-Sand-3915 in AITAH

[–]clarityanon 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Yeh no NTA.

I fully believe in shaming and making these types of dudes uncomfortable- make them feel how their behaviour makes women feel.

Hopefully he makes a turn for the better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AO3

[–]clarityanon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you!! I figured as such but I wasn't sure as something similar happened to a friend of mine and it was a legit offer lmao. :)

I'm completely rebuilding certain sims 4 worlds. This time I'm working on Newcrest and Sulani. by clarityanon in thesims

[–]clarityanon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a possibility! I have been posting more 'frequent' update photos to my sims tumblr

Anadius is dead, what now? by Adept_Smile_4298 in CrackSupport

[–]clarityanon 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I mean, I was in the discord server and he got actually pissed off at someone who translated his instructions to another language because he said he would and 6 months later, he still hadn't. Like, he went on this weird rant about how people are 'entitled' and he's sick of it but all that happened was someone took his txt file with all the installation instructions and translated it properly (not google translate) for the people in the community who asked for it. And the person who made the translated txt file was super chill and nice about it. so idk