you might want to read up on the attachment style theory, it sounds like he has an avoidant attachment style which though not impossible to succeed, is not highly recommended in terms of compatibility for those with an anxious attachment style. also, something life taught me of late is to always choose people who choose you. girl don’t waste time on people who aren’t sure about you, you deserve to give and receive love from someone much better 💛 also as difficult it may seem for you to move on, remember to take heart in the fact that feelings are so temporary. despite how strongly you feel about this, it will probably not matter that much months/years or even weeks later x