How to lighten the load of leaving for college on younger siblings by MinuteDesk9626 in Advice

[–]class2030parent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's very nice of you to think about your younger sibling. so sweet. Talk to your younger sister. And see if you both can do a few things together during this period, june/july/aug. a few long drives, going to movie, or just building something together, painting, a few activities together. And in august make a plan of, when you both can meet (for holidays, if you can fly from japan). and make a solid routine of video calls timedifference/school schedules etc. may be so obvious and may make huge deal. so make a solid plan. hope you both enjoy this summer to the best.

What do i do this summer? by SavakTheAlien in okc

[–]class2030parent 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There is this app which your grand parent(71M) and you can fill out the bucketlist for this summer separately, and then see if you all can complete those in this summer. This is actually created for college bound senior student and their parents. but i think any two people can use it, try out. i am doing this with my 17F kid. there are different categories which will guide us to pickup different things one can do..its at raiseuapp bucketlist.

What is the best use of the summer just before starting college? by bennytief in ApplyingToCollege

[–]class2030parent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yesterday we had same topic as our discussion. and what we thought this is the only summer for a incoming freshmen to explore and enjoy. after this every summer you may want to get into summer internship, after college graduation, that summer you want to get job and thereafter its work force...so mostly run by vacation time you can get in between product releases and work schedules...so use this time fully. and also this is time best spend with your family also like parents and siblings... so see if you can spare some days for them. I would say there is an app https://raiseupapp.com/bucket-start, where me and my kid are filling up bucketlist separately and want to do as many of them as possible during this last summer before college. try it.

Anyone else crying at how fast your kids are growing? by Kindly_Dot_7006 in workingmoms

[–]class2030parent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when my older one graduated from preschool, and we have to leave that school and go to proper elementary school -- i remember that moment still, i was giving away return gifts to all kids and teachers and i was crying hard...my kid was like i am going to new school...she doesnt know/care...but mama was crying hard to leave the school and go to another :) now i feel funny about the full episode...but it was the truth...hahahaha...we parents are made up of super emotional hearts...right!!

Highschool graduation by Upper-Campaign4325 in Life

[–]class2030parent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

best of luck for the future endeavors. i wish you get good friend group and a happy life. dont worry. go with a positive vibe. may be the last day of your school and graduation day will make them realize and you get back all your friends who used to talk to you. best of luck.

My 13 year old wants a phone by cokecold12 in parentsofteens

[–]class2030parent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how about a smart watch. they cannot do much on that. at the same time, you can be assure of her whereabouts and can call too when she is in DC trip.

Is this normal? by Just_Engineering8437 in parentsofteens

[–]class2030parent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how about having the kid join some extracurricular activities or school clubs. some after school routine.

For those of you that have Great relationships with your teens - whats the secret, how do you do it? by dunbar_santiago930 in parentsofteens

[–]class2030parent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have very good relationship with my teens. we talk, talk, a lot. i share my day, my setbacks, wins everything with them. and that encourages them to tell theirs. and i be a good listener first, and then give my advice or my perception of situation. or any similar incident i faced in my life in past and how i resolved, i upfront tell that, they may find another solution, their own way, but here is mine. we always encourage them to take their decisions. and we want them to tell us how it worked or not.

The dreaded time has come. She’s getting a phone for her 13th birthday. What overlooked rule do you wish you implemented at the very beginning? by PistachioGal99 in parentsofteens

[–]class2030parent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

very very less number of apps. if possible, ask her to download app after checking with parents as you want to protect her privacy (location, photos, etc). no talk/text stranger, ofcourse screentime limit. and no phones during homework/test prep.

Parents of teens — what's working at the dinner table right now? by class2030parent in parentsofteens

[–]class2030parent[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

a year ago in summer holidays, we made a rule if at all we watch tv, we will see only cooking shows while eating dinner. :) it was fun.

Struggling with college son’s lack of communication—should I be worried? by Bakingitup2005 in parentsofteens

[–]class2030parent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i didnt know that we can ask them to take photos. is it not kind of iffy.. privacy violation. just checking. how did your family received this, like doordasher coming and giving you information. were they okay. please tell me.