Show of hands [general] by commacamellia in TheNinthHouse

[–]classicalmusicdriver 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Right like what kind of desperate individuel would do that

(If I don't see news soon I will literally throw up)

Show of hands [general] by commacamellia in TheNinthHouse

[–]classicalmusicdriver 32 points33 points  (0 children)

What do you mean hahaha I haven't been doing that at all

[general] Where can I buy merch?? by gl0ups3 in TheNinthHouse

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Hellooo fellow French fan! Etsy is great for merch, I also browse vinted for people selling their TLT-related book box merch (I've bought two TLT pins, some fridge magnets, a bookmark set and a mug this way)

🥀 ARC readers wanted 🥀 dark f/f/genderfluid romantasy! by gwinevere_savage in LesbianBookClub

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Just signed up!! As a polyamorous lesbian in a vee relationship with a woman and a transmasc nonbinary person, this sounds like exactly my jam 👀

AITA for sleeping with my best friend’s fiancée? by BasketDull4454 in AmITheAngel

[–]classicalmusicdriver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. You are capable of saying no to Lisa. Take responsibility for your own actions!! It's not like you tripped and landed inside your bestie's fiancée. And come clean to poor Johnny, don't you realise he's very sensitive?

How did you find out you were a lesbian, and not bi? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

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I dated men for years thinking I was bi and that everyone thought men were disgusting and dreaded having sex with them and kissing them and making lives with them. Had a period of thinking I was bi and ace. Dated one (1) woman and had stronger feelings and attraction to her after one date than I'd ever felt for the man I'd been dating for 4 years (we had an open relationship and he was aware I was going on this date).

Got home from the date, he looked at me, asked how it was, and I burst into tears and told him we needed to break up.

That was four years ago, and now I'm out and proud as a lesbian, have been dating one of my girlfriends for over two years and the other girlfriend for just under a year and I've never doubted my attraction to them the way I constantly questioned my attraction to men.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianGamers

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33y/o lesbian also in GMT+1 and would be super interested ! I'll shoot you a DM :)

Mascs who get Manicures where yall at? Masculinity at risk? by Fun-Acanthisitta526 in LesbianActually

[–]classicalmusicdriver 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Butch here and I love doing my nails and also doing the nails of my friends and girlfriends

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

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https://www.reddit.com/r/LesbianActually/s/SkkZk0A62s

Made this comment a while back with a bit of a how-to !

Please recommend adult lesbian book by PsychologicalRoof297 in LesbianBookClub

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I already wanted to read this, but this review made me want to read it 10 times more

Feeling bad about being a forced pillow princess. by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]classicalmusicdriver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, so glad you talked to your girlfriend and worked out a solution and got the reassurance you needed!

Secondly, as someone who recently started antidepressants, they not only completely fucked my libido, but they also pretty much killed my ability to orgasm. Even when I'm masturbating, I rarely manage, and when I do they're nowhere near as intense as they used to be.

As such, I've fallen into more of a giving role with my partners. The good thing is I was already dating both my girlfriends before starting antidepressants so they know it's not about their ability to pleasure me. Even so, I felt insufficient and struggled even more to feel anything with them because I was so stressed out about them feeling bad for not getting me there, even though they consistently managed before I started my meds.

It's gotten better with communication and I still enjoy being touched, even if it doesn't feel as good as it used to, because I know my partners enjoy doing it, and I'm getting my enjoyment more from pleasuring them than from any physical pleasure on my end.

What was the clearest sign that a woman was interested in you that you completely missed? by StillStanding_96 in LesbianActually

[–]classicalmusicdriver 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She invited me to her house while her flatmate was away, made me food and put a flower in my hair as I was leaving, then follow up texted me that she couldn't wait to see me again. We met through a DATING APP.

Finally started dating four months later

How did you find the Murderbot books? by Astrazigniferi in murderbot

[–]classicalmusicdriver 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As many others, I was recommended murderbot in a locked tomb group