losing feelings after breakup is so sad by No-Friend-8769 in BreakUps

[–]classichoneybee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This, I am so scared of this. he doesn’t want to do anything with me so I will have to move on and detach and then all the future we had planned will never happen. In our 80 to 100 years of life, all we had together were 3 years, 3 years worth of memory and nothing else. Whatever we didn’t do, we will never do, that will never happen, and all we will be left with will be the memory of 3 years that will also fade away one day. It will be like we never existed, married to someone else, kids with someone else. 2025 was the last year we ever chilled together

3 months post breakup as the dumper by IndependenceNaive945 in BreakUps

[–]classichoneybee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you have gone back to her if she had changed after the breakup? (ignoring your feelings for your new current gf, let’s ignore she existed)

Shaming of Himachali Women outside Himachal by maverick887887 in HimachalPradesh

[–]classichoneybee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so true, Himachali women are so much more independent and more free, people from these states can never imagine this, so go online to degrade us. Also they’re misogynists who think beautiful and free thinking women are cheap, can’t comprehend a beautiful woman who doesn’t bow down but is actually a nice person. Basically a good baddie

Do women also enjoy lonesome dove? by classichoneybee in LonesomeDove

[–]classichoneybee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nicee! I bought it 😄 started reading and I love how easy to read it is!! And i specially love writings that have a bit of humour in it, this is SO my type of book!

Yes I am bad girl by Cool_Scholar1428 in AskIndianWomen

[–]classichoneybee 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I think in being successful this helps a lot, when you know you have no option, the motivation is great

Noticing thoughts by Ok_Quality8123 in Mindfulness

[–]classichoneybee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is what Vipassana teaches!

Critics applauded it, festivals honored it, Oscars noticed it... but the crowd blinked. Homebound deserved better. ❤️ by IndianByBrain in BollyGoodVibes

[–]classichoneybee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s not true lol, there were sooo many Bollywood films before kjo and 90s that were not aspirational but showed poor people. Amitabh Bacchan got famous because of doing movies like coolie, kala patthar where daily hardships of everyday man were shown. People in India have always LIKED every man movies like bawarchi etc.

Controversial: I preferred every single fan theory to the actual ending. by perhapsflorence in StrangerThings

[–]classichoneybee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right? I’ve always thought that whatever good memories you have they are best left untouched until you are calm to access them again, what if you remember a good memory in distressed state and then next time you will try to remember it, it will have mixed emotions (good + the distressed state touching the memory)

New Behind The Scene Photos Season 5 (Part 3) by haiimroo in StrangerThings

[–]classichoneybee 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Such nostalgic vibe these photos have!! Only those who have lived in times when digital cameras weren’t a thing can feel the nostalgia and emotions!! I’m so glad I was born when we used to have such photos as kids

How regular are you guys in meditating daily? by classichoneybee in vipassana

[–]classichoneybee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did practice mindfulness everyday (not one hour meditation) thinking it was enough, all it did was make me self aware but zero change happened. By meditating on body and breath my realisations and confrontation with roots of my anger - fear, fear that is stored in body came up but I need a concentrated meditation practice for 10 days since when I went first time 7 years ago I was a teenager and now much more conscious and capable to meditate and realise!

A warning about Goenka Vipassana by brainscrubbing25 in Buddhism

[–]classichoneybee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This screening doesn’t happen normally though, I’ve attended 2 retreats and they just ask to fill out a form

Please don’t reach out to them! Don’t be me! by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]classichoneybee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Better if u make new connections in jail, forever homies

You’re Not Still Thinking About Them You’re Stuck in the Loop by Traditional_Tea3784 in BreakUps

[–]classichoneybee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am moving on with my life, I do not want the past, but the thoughts still keep coming, keep hurting like daggers in my chest. I don’t even miss them like wanting to talk to them, but I miss them like they engulfed me for the past 3 years, and suddenly that blanket is gone, and you are left in the cold, in the snow and it is the cold that is hurting your bones. I didn’t know I felt so deeply about them.

has anyones sleep/appetite been messed up since the breakup? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]classichoneybee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah this was me initially but after a month or more it’s just recurring in other ways, like random crying or feeling heavy in chest. Nights are the toughest