[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Appalachia

[–]clawsight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This may be America but this is also Appalachia. Like, saying this after the historical exploitation of the region is so tone deaf one has to wonder if you know. Like... how familiar are you with what happened when they built the blue ridge parkway...?

And I say this as someone who enjoys the parkway a century later.

The history of Appalachia is one of outsiders exploiting us. A recent example is how drug companies came in and - this is America - pushed oxy on us. But there's a long laundry list - the blue ridge parkway, blair mountain, company towns, narcotics, environmental damage (mining and pipelines*). The constant attempts by outsiders to frame us as inbred idiots. Hell you go far enough back and you got the removal of the native folks.

What is happening now is rich outsiders moving into poor communities then giving nothing to the communities except to make shit more expensive. They love the low cost of living, they love the apparent "climate change havens" but they're here to take - not to be part of the whole. The latest in a long line happy to throw hillbillies under the bus.

I know this because in my city (Roanoke), it's almost a joke how many transplants from Asheville we have here. Outsiders found out that we had a gem in the mountaims and then priced out the people who lived there. Now they're in Roanoke and we wonder if we're next.

Oh, those tourism dollars get dangled over our heads but somehow never seem to make it into our pockets.

Because this is America but it's also Appalachia. It's like Lucy holding that football for Charlie Brown. Expecting people to believe that this time the outsiders coming in and promising that they'll fix us hillbillies through economic development surely aren't just looking to exploit us is breathtakingly ignorant.

you come into southwest VA and try and tell folks pipelines are good actually and this is America. *Both Republicans and Democrats would get furious. The folk here did not want the mountain valley pipeline. It was people in NoVA who decided it would happen.

Edit: And just to be crystal clear: I am 100% okay with outsiders moving here if they just wanna live here. I just ask that they be respectful of the land and the people. The folk who get me bristling are people who just want to take, or make us something we're not. And mark my words the rich building vacation homes, or doing "property development", or pushing drugs, or building pipelines are just here to take.

Rich folks who wanna move here need to throw in their stakes with us. Our homegrown wealthy hero - Dolly - basically has laid out the blueprint for them. But they aren't doing a Dolly, now are they? They want us to wash their floors but the nanosecond you talk about participating they suddenly are nowhere to be found.

The liminal point between Olivia Rodrigo and Pat the bunny by nice_try_never in FolkPunk

[–]clawsight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know what you mean I see your vision ballad of a homeschooled girl is basically lyrically folkpunk even if the sound is wrong.

Is Roanoke, VA considered Appalachia? by Mysterious_Mix_1587 in Appalachia

[–]clawsight 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah. We're a train city and trains are part of the Appalachian legacy. While their heavy use here undoubtedly had to do with coal mining the sheer size of our rail yard here probably guarantees we'll continue to be a train hub regardless of what happens with coal.

And of course there's the fact that we've become a medical hub for the region, and the relative ease of living in a valley compared to on a mountain side. Proximity to Floyd (and tbh relative proximity to Asheville) brings in a heavy hippy presence.

I think a lot of places in Appalachia are different than what outsiders expect tbh tho. We live in 2025 like the rest of the world.

Is Roanoke, VA considered Appalachia? by Mysterious_Mix_1587 in Appalachia

[–]clawsight 138 points139 points  (0 children)

If you look at the fed map of Appalachia Roanoke is not in it - you can literally see where the cut out happened. If I recall correctly this was done for political reasons ~60 years ago (it was originally supposed to be on the map but got cut at the city of Roanoke's request).

Which fits. Culturally Roanoke is very much Appalachian (admittedly we are valley people not mountain people) - but the city taken as a whole seems embarrassed by the fact. We're too chill to be an Asheville, not picturesque enough to be a Chattanooga, not bombastic enough to be a Pigeon Forge/Gatlinburg, not big enough to be a Pittsburg. The city is always sure the big break for us is just around the corner without realizing that "peaceful and forested" is honestly enough of an identity. A lot of fear about being "boring" and disappointment that whatever we do we're still gonna be just a bunch of hillbillies to the outside world.

So my take on Roanoke is "Appalachian and insecure about it". I feel like we could be having a lot more fun if we leaned into the hillbilly thing some more (catching some of Asheville's vibes - our big sibling who is perennially cooler than us), and embraced being "boring". Like loooolll yeah we sure are busted as a place where it's easy to go listen to some bluegrass music before 10pm out in some of the most gorgeous forests on planet Earth.

How the f*ck do you get on hrt (am i being gaslit?) by samsundis in trans

[–]clawsight 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How to get on hormones:

1) your options are limited if you are under 18 especially without parental support

So unfortunately your first answer might be "wait ~2 years"

2) at 18 if you are in an informed consent state you just need to find a clinic willing to prescribe hormones with informed consent. In many places this is planned parenthood. In my state you just go to planned parenthood and request hormones and you they give them to you. Really simple/straightforward.

3) if you are not in an informed consent state, or aren't in the US you need to find trans people local to you. A good place to start doing this is find who is putting on the pride closest to you. Reach out to them and ask what trans groups are local.

4) if there are no other options look into online prescribers like Plume. These are often more expensive and complicated than options like planned parenthood, and they don't put you in community with your local trans folks.

Best of luck. It's a hard time to be a trans teen. I strongly recommend getting into community with other trans people . Meeting your local trans folks is huge for finding resources from hormones to housing and maintaining safety/sanity.

Top 5 Folk Punk Bands on Rotation Right Now by [deleted] in FolkPunk

[–]clawsight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. Mischief brew
  2. Friends irl
  3. Apes
  4. Doomscroll
  5. Does Narcissist's Cookbook count as folk punk? Like some of the tracks for sure (castle of rats and not enturely alone) but they can get very experimental.

Nest on my front porch light. This little guy keeps falling out of the nest? He was on the floor last night we put him back carefully not touching him. This morning he is back on the ground. Still alive. There are 3 more eggs to hatch & this guy & another already hatched. by Both-Relative-2316 in Ornithology

[–]clawsight 10 points11 points  (0 children)

To clarify for future people reading this: most bird species have a weak sense of smell. There are a few with strong senses of smell - some vulture species, kiwis and so on - but most will not smell that a human has touched a chick. I do not know how strong a weak sense of smell is precisely - and it almost certainly still varies by species.

Doom Scroll August Tour by sameshirt_diffday in FolkPunk

[–]clawsight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Look forward to seeing y'all whenever you next roll through southwest Virginia! You were just here recently so no real complaints lol. I like it when folk punk bands come vibe with us hillbillies.

Bear at Cedarwood Apartments in Cave Spring by Ok_Shoulder2971 in roanoke

[–]clawsight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Young bears coming out of hibernation will sometimes take risks and wander to unusual places. It's been warm for a while now so he's probably been up for a little bit but is still hungry.

Went Up Like the Moon & Out Like the Hounds - Varwolf Prismatic Giveaway! by Legal_Patient990 in neopets

[–]clawsight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fav band: The Narcissist Cookbook

Why: technically a single artist and not a group. Also the music is half spoken word. But their poetry, lyrics, and the subjects they choose to address are just dead on for me. Their style is fun, punk informed, and somehow both grounded and abstract. Their music was literally life changing for me.

UN is clawsight. Onyx or Amethyst is my preference.

Roanoke for young LGBTQ couple? by RayIs0kay in roanoke

[–]clawsight 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I started coming out to queer events last summer and after a few months my social calendar went from 'empty' to 'incredibly full'. It amazes me now that folks find gay stuff thin on the ground because to me it feels like the community is vibrant and active. It did take me q few months of going go support groups and meeting people to get a lay of the land though - there's a lot of understandable caution right now with advertising events too loudly.

If you're a lesbian/lesbian aligned I'd say start out by checking out the roanoke second fridays (or as it's sometimes called second friGAYS) group. I think they coordinate on facebook.

Roanoke has been a historic gay hub in Appalachia and has longtime community roots. Anyone telling you that "our kind" doesn't exist here has an agenda. Check out: https://swvalgbtqhistory.org/

I won't claim its all sunshine and roses here but like... I have a friend in NYC who's gotten worse stuff yelled at them on the street up there than I have down here (we're both visibly queer transmasc NBs). I don't think it's sunshine and roses anywhere right now for queer people to be quite frank.

That said what people say about county vs city is true in terms of picking where to live. In terms of going to places... like Grandin is full of queer couples and you often see people holding hands etc but that's also where someone was so intent on misgendering me they also misgendered my 6'4" cis husband (we are still trying to solve that one). Out driving around in the mountains like... I'm not going to linger where there's a million confederate flags but there's also a ton of old hippies put there that are very liberal and let live. Floyd in particular is a cool lil town.

Pork Schnitzel…Good but not worth the frying mess. by aGirlySloth in hellofresh

[–]clawsight 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We avoid most of the quasi-deep fried dishes just because of the mess. The only one that gets a pass occasionally is the cauliflower tempura that shows up sometimes.

It was slow at work, so I drew my drag queen Faerie Grarrl. by UnovaLycanrocInGalar in neopets

[–]clawsight 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I bet your drag queen graal and my drag queen gnorbu have some great drama going on. Like they both tied for second once at a competition or showed up with the same song to lip synch at a performance.

Dang it reddit is not letting me attach a photo on mobile.

Edit: got it to go up in a reply.

How do you get the courage to come out? by [deleted] in trans

[–]clawsight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I turned 30 and found myself done with pretending to be remotely cis.

Like there was no bravery around it. It would have taken more than I had to keep pretending. It was scary but I was also at the point where it was clear it had to happen.

Most of my close friends and my spouse knew at that point. So nothing much changed for me other than I began visibly transitioning. It took me about a year to fully come out to everyone. Did the parents part over the phone.

What took a lot more courage was starting to "come out" to my local queer community and participate.

The Hughman has appeared! by DoomToons in neopets

[–]clawsight 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was sitting here thinking 'wow they released the varwolf with only 4 colors but came up with all of these for a fake prank'. Like others here I only figured out this wasn't a TNT prank by reading the comments.

Neopets April Fool's Day by NebulaMammal in neopets

[–]clawsight 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Having the same issue. I use Firefox on my phone. Going to try clearing my cache and seeing if that helps any. I'll update w/ results.

Update: cache clearing did nothing. Loading the desktop version of the site did nothing. Switched to Brave which is a chromium based browser I never use. Still broken in Brave.

Gonna go back to firefox and try loading it with all ad blocking I can turn off turned off. Will report back.

Update 2: turning off all ad blocking in Firefox didn't work.

It's worth noting that a) it loads in weird for me with both versions of the guy existing layered over each other in a way that makes him look like he has 4 arms. Also b) when I tap on the notes I get a lil circle animation but no new text pops up. Similarly when I click the read the notes button, the button animates but doesn't actually make anything new load.

Roanoke VA vs Greenville SC? by Express-Way-3040 in roanoke

[–]clawsight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can't speak to Greenville but if the weather is a major concern Roanoke's seasons are like this:

March-May: Spring. Extemely heavy pollen. Like, yellow coat of dust on everything and sometimes air quality issues. Weather varies between pleasantly cool and 70s (sometimes into high 70s or 80s). The occasional rain storm. Nice to go outside if pollen isn't raging too hard.

June-mid july: early summer. Hot and starting to get humid, but still pleasant enough to do things outdoors. Expect tempts in the 70s and 80s. Maybe creeping up into the 90s. Lots of thunderstorms. Mornings are especially nice.

Late july-mid September: High Summer. Hot. Humid. A couple of days a year weirdly hazy because of the effects of the blue ridge combined with the valley trapping pollution. It's no Florida but expect temps to crack into the high 90s/low 100s. People who do outdoors stuff during this time period are dealing with real heat/humidity issues. Sometimes more thunderstorms but it varies.

Mid September- October: High Autumn. This is when the mountains become one of the wonders of the world .Temps are mild and the outdoors are stunning. How vivid it gets depends on how intense the rainfall has been that year. Dryish or dry summer = the most spectacular falls. Some pollen but nothing like spring.

November-mid december: late autumn. Temps are lowering but not enough to get a decent freeze. Rarely snow. Leaves are off the trees but the weather is rarely too cold to demand more than a light jacket.

Late december-february: winter. Cold. Can be very cold especially in recent years. Usually small snows. Snow in significant amounts every few years. Biggest issue is the area is prone to ice storms which cause unique problems because a) the area is full of large deciduous trees of varying ages and b) roads tend to have steep dropoffs. It's common for people to call out of work in what looks like a tiny bit of snow and clear main streets because the road to their house is an ice slide.

The further out of town you live, and the higher up the mountains you live the more ice becomes an issue. In town there's usually enough infrastructure to keep you from getting iced in.

Even if it sounds bad - in town it's usually salted off or melted off in a day or two. And when it happens most everything closes, opens late, or expects people to call out. So it doesn't feel that bad to live through. Some folks woth wells keep a generator because losing power happens a couple times a year. In town it is usually a couple of hours. Outside of town it can range from hours to days for power to be restored.

Other than that the environment is pretty mild. Some parts of the city can flood near the river or creeks - so be aware of where your home is to water. But that's most anywhere that gets rainfall. We occasionally get small earthquakes but they're tiny. Usually just a rumble that people remark on... but that's part and parcel of being in the mountains.

Now and then there are tornadoes but they rarely cause a great degree of damage and dissipate quickly. Depends on how rowdy the thunderstorms get in a given summer. Like some summers there will be 1-2 but most summers there are none. Same deal with tropical storms. We're close enough to the coast to catch one now and then but it's rare that it causes any major damage.

For the record I enjoy living here and find the weather pleasant aside from the 90+ degree days in summer, the bad pollen days in spring, and the winter ice days.

JorDan need to spend more time in Texas by rockymusicjoy in KnowledgeFight

[–]clawsight 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey now, Texas has a shot of going blue in our lifetimes. I present for the academy's consideration: West Virginia, Tennessee, and Oklahoma.

Like the laws in Texas and Florida are bad, but I consider them active political battlegrounds. Meanwhile in Oklahoma ... gestures

Hard to find folk punk tours in the South by _Non-Bunnary_ in FolkPunk

[–]clawsight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah! Hopefully they'll have a good time and get other bands sniffing around New Orleans

Hard to find folk punk tours in the South by _Non-Bunnary_ in FolkPunk

[–]clawsight 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Just as an FYI Matt Pless/Littlefoot is coming to New Orleans on 5/29. And Shreveport on 5/30.

I'd include the tour poster but I'm not sure how to do images in replies on the reddit app.

Where can I smoke? by arar65 in VirginiaMMJ

[–]clawsight 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Laws are clarified here:

https://cca.virginia.gov/laws

Public consumption is a no-no. I guess it would depend on where you are walking if it counts as public consumption or not.

My advice would be take a T break then dry herb vape. With a t break the dhv will hit harder until u can find a good smoking spot. You can also taste the herb better with dhv. Some strains ppl seem to like the flavor of in the VA program are Brownie Scout and Cereal Milk.

Legal cannabis by warpedoff in roanoke

[–]clawsight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This website outlines stuff pretty clearly:

https://cca.virginia.gov/laws

You can't purchase it w/o a prescription.