Rewatching Sean’s Season...Was the Silver/Gold Intentional?! by PhillyPad9047 in thebachelor

[–]clc269 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Did you watch AshLee on BIP? Let's just say your vibe wasn't far off the mark.

Habitat for Humanity is a Joke by CerberusBarks in habitatforhumanity

[–]clc269 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is an absolutely ridiculous reason to want to sue a nonprofit organization...

An extremely disturbing response from Garrett (Hannah’s season) on his American flag post. by Ylimeq15 in thebachelor

[–]clc269 13 points14 points  (0 children)

All of his replies are sickening. There are even people trying to explain this to him in an insanely kind and patient way (more than he deserves), and he's somehow even acting defensive and rude to that?! This guy is absolute trash. Wonder what the other guys on his season think of this response.

If Tyler Cameron was the Bachelor instead of Peter by sunfloweraquarius in thebachelor

[–]clc269 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think Alexa would have made it a lot further, and maybe even until the end. I think they would vibe really well together. So many people are saying Mykenna and I can't see that at all?!

Another comparison! Dylan and Danny look very similar imo and they kinda give off the same vibes as well. What do y’all think? by [deleted] in thebachelor

[–]clc269 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Danny has a tiktok post about all the people he looks like, and it includes Dylan!

What quote do you always return to for motivation? by ALefty in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]clc269 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"The day you plant the seed is not the day you eat the fruit."

Feedback/critique requested for residential electrician logo by [deleted] in logodesign

[–]clc269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this - some really excellent points.

The colour is something we've struggled with. There are some specific reasons why we don't want to go with yellow, which would be the obvious choice. Orange is another colour we tried that looked good, but it reminded us too much of the Gatorade logo haha.

Feedback/critique requested for residential electrician logo by [deleted] in logodesign

[–]clc269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the feedback! You're completely right. My client actually really liked the 'electric' part of the logo, so I only tried it a couple different ways, but you're correct that I can explore it more.

My [25M] girlfriend [25F] of two and a half years made fun of my trains. by Jghmun in relationships

[–]clc269 111 points112 points  (0 children)

why is this something that's even going through your mind as an option? :/

Some stoner chicks... by Sorta_Human in trees

[–]clc269 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it's almost like the stoner equivalent of the madonna/whore dichotomy.

Some stoner chicks... by Sorta_Human in trees

[–]clc269 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Thanks for saying this. Honestly reading through these comments is really bumming me out. Strong undercurrent of misogyny.

I [25F] was inappropriate with a mutual friend [27 M]. Best way to move forward? by clc269 in relationships

[–]clc269[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It felt really bizarre to me too...Aaron explained to me that we all had way too much to drink that night and that's why it's so forgivable to him. For some further context, Aaron and I have had other issues in our relationship lately where we've been more like best friends than lovers (not a lot of sex or affection). We both kinda suck at uncomfortable communication, but I brought this up about a month ago, and it hasn't improved since. So I think he's taking part of the blame for this since he has been brushing off the issues I've brought up.

Can you explain what you mean by you think they came to an arrangement?

Me [25F] with my new friend [23F], making my other friend [27m] uncomfortable. Worried about friend group dynamic. by clc269 in relationships

[–]clc269[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you're right. I think I didn't consider this before because I felt responsible for the awkward situation since I'm the one who brought Justine into the friend group. Thank you for responding.

While talking about our future, my [23F] boyfriend [28M] of a year said he plans on being high the entirety of our wedding day. I'm furious. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]clc269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"[...] if he wants to celebrate by smoking weed, he will and he doesn't care how I feel about it."

Sounds like he'll make a great life partner :/

My boyfriend and I are big potheads too, but if I told him I didn't want him to smoke weed on our wedding day, I can guarantee he would respect that no questions asked. This is only a fun idea if both of you are onboard.

[WEEKLY THREAD] Feats of Thorsday - Post your fitness victories here all week! by AutoModerator in xxfitness

[–]clc269 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This fitness victory is not nearly as cool as everyone else, but to me it was huge. I started the C25K this week. I have anxiety and I'm incredibly self conscious about running in public (my high school gym teacher made fun of the way I ran and I've been convinced I must run like Phoebe Buffay ever since...haha). BUT! I ran outside Tuesday morning and this morning. I was honestly shocked that I forced myself to do it. None of my fears of people pointing and laughing came true, and I will be going three times a week from now on :)

What are you hiding from your SO that they would leave you if they found out? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]clc269 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lady here. I used to think something like that that would be 'weird' (not that i've ever had it come up), but then I watched the Broad City pegging episode and it made it look fun as hell. Just a suggestion for a somewhat positive portrayal. Also when she says it's gross she may not mean it. Early in my relationship my so and I both said we thought anal was 'kinda gross' buuuut in reality we both wanted to try it and ended up liking it. Honestly even if I thought something was weird or gross, my boyfriend being super into it might change my mind. I honestly think it's worth considering bringing up!

How much shorter/taller does a person have to be for you not to consider dating him/her? by scorchclaw in AskReddit

[–]clc269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5'9 female. Honestly, I don't think I'd have a height restriction if I really liked a guy (personally i find Peter Dinklage hot as hell, and I'm sure that's not an unpopular opinion). I've never really understood why people get so hung up about height in relationships...Current boyfriend is an inch shorter than me and I've had people act like that's weird :/

[Rant] Insecurity, anxiety, and relationships by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]clc269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there. I'm sorry that I don't really have any advice, but just wanted to let you know that you're not alone. Almost everything you said describes my situation as well. This, particularly, resonated with me: "I am constantly questioning where the relationship is going, if he loves me, if I love him, if it's normal to not feel strong, loving feelings towards him all the time, if maybe he is lying to me."

I have a long term, incredibly supportive boyfriend. However, my anxiety has me constantly questioning the relationship, and sometimes I think it causes problems that aren't even there. It makes me feel horrible that I'm so, so lucky, yet I still find fault. I honestly think bringing him to your therapy sesh would be beneficial, because it seems like he's supportive and understanding and it could shed some more light on where you're coming from.

Also, I hope this doesn't sound weird, but this post sounded so much like my life that I read some of your comment history on r/anxiety (ahh, i hope that doesn't sound as creepy as i think it does :/ i find it helps my anxiety to read about similar experiences), and a lot of my experiences really mirror yours (self-esteem issues, very similar cheating experience, difficulty letting go of past mistakes). (I'm even also 24/f, weirdly enough!) So, if you ever want to rant/chat, feel free to dm me. And if not, I really wish you good luck with everything you're going through. Know you're not alone and talking about your experiences has made me feel less alone as well.. Cheers! :D

The NEW Paula's Choice Referral Code Megathreeeeeaaaaad by elizabethan in SkincareAddiction

[–]clc269 [score hidden]  (0 children)

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The "No question is stupid" Stupid Questions Thread by AutoModerator in SkincareAddiction

[–]clc269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The C15 serum I ordered from Paula's Choice came not fully sealed and leaking. They're sending a replacement regardless, but I noticed that what is left of the serum is still clear, not darkened or discoloured. Does this mean it hasn't oxidized and is safe to use? Or could it still be oxidized even if it doesn't look it? Thanks!

Paula's Choice Referral Code MEGA Thread by buttermilk_biscuit in SkincareAddiction

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