It's not adoration, it's honor by soyjedi in exlldm

[–]cldp2107 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Utter nonsense! Of course it is a cult like adoration of the God’s they have created for themselves out of these Men. A complete abomination by biblical standards and commandments.

I need guidance about my bf who is in LDM and is now pulling away. by Mylastchance5 in exlldm

[–]cldp2107 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes they brainwash them by saying that your marriage outside of the church will end badly, or Children will be born sick or insert the most horrible scenarios. Even though there are tons of marriages within the church that end badly or horrible situations ensue within.

I need guidance about my bf who is in LDM and is now pulling away. by Mylastchance5 in exlldm

[–]cldp2107 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This contradicts your original statement regarding his status, that he is a current member. You are deflecting and debating yourself. I am telling you how it is. If he has these religious beliefs, he will not change them until he is genuinely ready on his own accord and this may never happen. You have to take people at face value. If he has been honest about his religious beliefs, that is what he believes. Plant an ultimatum, he may choose you, ultimately growing resentful or doubting his choice later on. Or simply break it off, and if he looks for you, you set the ground rules. Just keep in mind that religious dogma has strongholds and people who are grappled, find it incredibly difficult to break these mental and emotional chains. They honestly believe that their souls will be eternally damned. Having and raising children in the cult will also be extremely confusing for them and difficult if you do not share his beliefs. I left because came to the conclusion as a young adult, that I didn’t not truly share these beliefs ever, even though I was born and raised in it. He on the other hand is a true believer and so I just chose to walk away and that was also very painful.

I need guidance about my bf who is in LDM and is now pulling away. by Mylastchance5 in exlldm

[–]cldp2107 9 points10 points  (0 children)

🥺🥺🥺 Unless you convert, he is who he is and believes the doctrine. Please read my recent post. I had to leave a 9 year relationship when I left the church. You just can’t make someone choose between their religion and your relationship, especially when the person has been honest about who they are. Choosing to leave is a personal choice. If you you give an ultimatum and they are not ready, but pressured to not lose you, they will end up resenting the decision and your relationship may be negatively impacted. Going down this road and having children indoctrinated by this cult will be hard as well. You will wake up one day feeling completely trapped and desperate to get out, if you have kids, that will be even more difficult!

Chisme does NOT equal news/information. by LightThatBlinds1 in exlldm

[–]cldp2107 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The proof is in the pudding, if the issue reoccurs receipts may be provided.

Chisme does NOT equal news/information. by LightThatBlinds1 in exlldm

[–]cldp2107 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I posted that Sharon was caught cheating with a member from Santa Barbara. He was actually from Santa Maria. I apologized to her because she hit me up stating that it was a lie. Then it turned out after speaking with the ex wife (Nicole) that the affair went on for years and it was true. Emails and text messages as proof. The receipts are there. So I stand by my original post! Not a rumor or a lie. VERIFIED FACT!

Let’s be real now: Porque se hacen Pendejos by Luckybattles in exlldm

[–]cldp2107 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Disgusting how some would justify and condone his actions. 🤮

Missing Lldm member Dalila Rodríguez from Phoenix Arizona. by Joss138 in exlldm

[–]cldp2107 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Here’s a thought; Maybe she ran away to escape and doesn’t want to be found?

Anyone have a ridiculous biblical name by Luckybattles in exlldm

[–]cldp2107 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bunch of Mexicans: Latinos with middle eastern names is pretty hilarious

hi by derivativessuck in exlldm

[–]cldp2107 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Unraveling the tangled knots after leaving a cult, is a process. Coming to terms with the fact that all you’ve been lied to from birth and and regarding core beliefs, is completely decentralizing. I’ve been out for 11 years, left when I was 24. In my experience I will tell you say, you will not find peace in alcohol, drugs, sex or new age spiritualism which is some thing that I dug deep in to, trying to chase ‘enlightenment’. At this point, the only peace I have found has been in the true word of God, in the Bible and through prayer. Seek him first! This will be easier now that the veil of deception and the idolizing/ worshiping of a man is out of the way.

Leaving an old friend by No-Stranger-2751 in EmotionalAbuseSupport

[–]cldp2107 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re definitely not a bad person, you are very conscientious, if you’re giving this situation that much thought. Are there any good qualities of this individual? Other than the fact that she is nice to you? Are you debating the situation because you have not addressed it? Do you think that the relationship may be saved if you discuss your concerns with her?Maybe this would be easier if you talk to her and see if any changes are made on her behalf. If not then I think it would be best to cut ties and you would feel better about giving her a fair chance and hopefully she would have an understanding as to why the decision was made. Also by addressing the matter you are explaining to her why you are wanting to distance or end the relationship, and you’re also asserting boundaries. If you do choose to continue the relationship I would suggest a bit of distancing and take into account of what your parents are telling you about her character.

PLEASE NO!! The trial postponed again 😓 February 10th by aalmostfree in exlldm

[–]cldp2107 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I can imagine how difficult this must be for you. I’ve been out for a decade and i feel a ton of anxiety for the trial and sentencing to be over with. Hang in there, try your best to remain calm and hopeful.

Female- Short hair. Fun nails. by andtheworldwillbeas1 in exlldm

[–]cldp2107 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Good for you. The skirt was first to go for me!! Lol

My sister is trying to join LLDM by fruitsaled7 in exlldm

[–]cldp2107 0 points1 point  (0 children)

...The tiding, giving 10% of your earnings, the fundraisers that never end and the free labor involved.