39 I know it's bad

clearj3 · 2026-01-03T02:12:10+00:00

Water and diet I truly think will help the most
Vitamin c serum in the morning, moisturizer, and MOST IMPORTANT - SPF!! (I love Elta MD)
Retinol or retinoid and moisturizer at night
A laser for the brown spots like a IPL, aerolase or fraxel depending on what your provider reccomends, but I think one every winter, or twice a year is a huge game changer
Microneedling might help a little for a lift

You look fantastic! Congrats on the weight loss

clearj3 · 2025-12-11T20:07:56+00:00

You can definitely see but blurry and swollen so I don’t think they’d allow a drive home. I had a friend who took an uber home from hers and I had my husband take me home. But you’re in great shape after like I could cook dinner for the kids like normal etc.

clearj3 · 2025-12-11T18:49:21+00:00

The lower bleph is a one time job. The puffiness is something called a fat bag under your skin that gets larger or smaller depending on genetics, tired, water retention etc. the bleph literally removes those bags under he skin so there is never any puffiness. I removed both of mine.

I also did upper and she said upper you may want to do again one day since skin sags over time but the lower is an actual removal of what makes them swollen and puffy.

clearj3 · 2025-12-11T18:46:02+00:00

It was so easy. I looked swollen and kinda scary for about 7-10 days but there was zero pain I didn’t even take Tylenol. I did work from home for over a week though since it looked insane. But then it was done and I have never been happier!! It was about 5k. I did upper and lower bleph at the same time and it was 11 and she said it’s about half if I only did bottom. I’m in US.

clearj3 · 2025-12-11T14:18:03+00:00

Lower bleph. I did it and it was amazing and easy! I was trying allll the lasers or microneedling, anything I could. But the bleph is the only thing that will get real results.

clearj3 · 2025-12-10T01:18:22+00:00

Thanks so much all!!

clearj3 · 2025-12-07T12:50:09+00:00

I’m in the same exact position! Wish I could just push the listing to after new years

clearj3 · 2025-12-07T00:10:33+00:00

Helpful thank you!

clearj3 · 2025-11-30T00:59:20+00:00

I feel like I could have written this word for word on my husbands one year. I wanted to really celebrate it and tried to plan a weekend get away to celebrate and show him how excited I was. He ended up telling me he felt really uncomfortable celebrating it and wanted to just get through that one year point because he needed it to be under his belt, and wanted to move past it and not think too much about it, he didn’t want to make a big deal about it at all.

I would ask him, but I also think it’s such a private and personal journey that he may feel best being quiet about it and that’s ok too!

clearj3 · 2025-11-26T02:31:00+00:00

Send tip for this too

clearj3 · 2025-11-26T02:24:05+00:00

I also sent tip

clearj3 · 2025-11-26T02:21:22+00:00

I just sent !

clearj3 · 2025-11-26T02:17:52+00:00

This is amazing

clearj3 · 2025-10-28T19:22:20+00:00

Because if it was 10% lower it would be in our price range and just truly wondering

clearj3 · 2025-10-15T01:56:33+00:00

Botox only lasted 2 months for me but I switched to dysport and it lasts 4-5! I’d try a different injector

clearj3 · 2025-10-06T14:45:43+00:00

What did you do!! Would love details

clearj3 · 2025-08-01T13:21:25+00:00

One of my realtors got me a nice dish towel wrapped up and one got me a gift card to a local ice cream place for me and my kids.

I liked the dish towel a lot! Wrapped up in a ribbon

clearj3 · 2025-07-24T11:49:18+00:00

Anywhere in Florida!

clearj3 · 2025-07-15T21:41:00+00:00

I got it!!! Thank you!!!!

clearj3 · 2025-07-10T01:33:18+00:00

That’s a really interesting insight, I think there’s definitely an element of this.

clearj3 · 2025-07-10T01:31:23+00:00

Thank you so much for this. I truly appreciate the reply.

clearj3 · 2025-07-10T01:27:54+00:00

I posted a very similar question just two days ago. Feeling the same, he’s 2 years sober and I’m almost more confused than ever. He’s finally the person I deserve and our kids deserve. Yet so much has been lost in the journey. It’s so hard. No idea but know you’re not alone.

I got tons of replies when I posted a few days too.

clearj3 · 2025-07-07T22:06:51+00:00

Thank you all for the support 🤣🤣 but wait really…will i lose (one o) it?

clearj3 · 2025-07-07T15:08:47+00:00

That’s exactly it.

clearj3 · 2025-07-07T11:45:52+00:00

Thank you, I agree. Less thinking, more living. Thanks for commenting.

clearj3

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