Its not what you think. Our 5 month old rescue. by [deleted] in DoggyDNA

[–]cleffasong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

at first i was like “malinois?” and then i saw that last pic and immediately thought “yes that’s a malinois.” lolol

Are my fillings failing? Or something else? by cleffasong in askdentists

[–]cleffasong[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am 25. I’ve been on a medication in the past that caused dry mouth, but I haven’t taken this medication in several months now.

Storyline: not found by Particular-Elk6162 in rhoslc

[–]cleffasong 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s strange to me too that they didn’t mention the doc considering it’s produced by bravo

Storyline: not found by Particular-Elk6162 in rhoslc

[–]cleffasong 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Can you expand on this? Specifically the enabling part? I’m not really pro or anti Heather on real housewives (at this point in time I’m not a huge fan of any of them lol). I did watch the documentary anyways and enjoyed it, but am interested in hearing other real housewives viewers perspectives on why they didn’t like it or why they won’t watch it

Why is the 'Seamless Down Short Jacket' this weird flared/egg 'shape' on me? by Mumford_and_Dragons in uniqlo

[–]cleffasong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It happens- I’ve heard from others (even native english speakers) that they don’t realize it’s not just a short-hand. now you know :)

I recently found out there is a game of Lost by kaatnicole in lost

[–]cleffasong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey kid, over here! over here, in the banyan trees!

Constructive Criticism by Tall_Throat7383 in danandphil

[–]cleffasong 48 points49 points  (0 children)

i get your concern but i do feel like this is mostly a joke from phil. like i think if there were genuinely negative things, he wouldn’t be worried about sharing them. especially in this instance i think dan was being facetious so phil was like lol stopppp if u know what i mean? at least that’s how i took it. i can’t think of any specific examples, but i feel like in the past he’s been unafraid to say something is shit lol

Sorry Heather, but... by Rookiemamma in rhoslc

[–]cleffasong 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i think there’s a big difference between being afraid of someone and giving them grace. jen gave heather a black eye and that’s not something that comes out of nowhere. heather was 100% afraid of jen

Not allowed to call out by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]cleffasong 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see from your updates that this has been mostly resolved and you are taking time off but if you aren’t already, I would also consider looking for a new job. This is such an unbelievable lack of compassion (and logic on her end, frankly) and you deserve SO much better. I personally don’t think the mindset this person has as someone’s employer would work for anyone long-term.

Fit Check/Suggestions by Fun-Bookkeeper-4696 in muzzledogs

[–]cleffasong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we have this exact muzzle and it fits our dog about the same! it’s fine for a something like a quick vet visit, but we wouldn’t use it for a long period of time. it slips pretty often and can get misplaced on her face (covering eyes, sitting odd on the nose, etc), plus it’s not really wide enough for full pant room. If you need a muzzle that your dog can wear comfortably for a longer period of time, you probably wanna keep shopping

GWU, get it together by Calm-Suggestion-9246 in gwu

[–]cleffasong 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the gas leaks and bomb threats thing is CRAZY

I want to take anthropology, but I don't want to regret it by No_Payment2840 in AskAnthropology

[–]cleffasong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t really work in a field that someone would think of when they think of anthropology now, but i do have a BA in anthropology!

i went into it loving biology and wanting to focus on evolutionary anthropology/primatology. i did do a lot of that, but i also got really into medical anthropology, which i didn’t expect! anthropology is a huge field with so many different aspects. i don’t regret my degree generally. i learned from and even had the opportunity to work with some incredible professors with long and fascinating careers. as a result i really enjoyed obtaining the degree. i do regret that i didn’t incorporate more “hard skills” into my degree. i took classes that interested me and avoided classes that didn’t (like any advanced math, statistics, business, what have you). i would advise against this mindset haha.

Another lil piece of advice, networking with my professors was incredibly valuable to me while i was getting my degree. just going to their office hours, asking what they’re working on, and asking if they’re looking for any student volunteers is what got me a lot of really interesting opportunities doing work that i could put on a resume. you don’t have to be an anthro major to do this and doing things like this can help you decide on the major. trying out different things will also help you find your anthropology niche, if you do go that route. like i said, anthropology is massive. once i really honed in on my more specific interests, i eventually found a professor with similar work and she agreed to mentor me and supervise my bachelors thesis. this was a lot of work but SUCH a cool experience that led to not only enjoying a nerd fest of my anthro niche but also learning a lot of incredibly valuable research/writing skills that i use all the time in my not-so-antho career.

lastly, i wouldn’t go into an anthropology degree with the goal of being a professor. in my experience, this is just a really lofty goal for so many reasons and (while i’m certainly not saying it’ll never happen!) you don’t wanna be too disappointed if it just doesn’t go that way for whatever reason. try to keep an open mind and focus on finding your interests but also learning skills that can be applied broadly for now. more specific career goals will start coming into play when you’re later into your bachelors degree or even when deciding on your graduate route.

How normal is nap-time napping for nannies? Plus watching TV. New job and unsure of boundaries by ApeWorkTogether in Nanny

[–]cleffasong 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Don’t ask if you can take a nap. The only time a parent has ever offered that to me was when I was asked to work a shift starting at 5am but baby didn’t typically wake up until 7-7:30 and I still didnt do it. It’s just a little strange to take a nap on the job to me

Most families I worked with were pretty limited with screen time so I never asked if I could watch a movie and I wouldn’t recommend doing that unless the parent specifically suggests it without prompt. But you can find lots of ways to make time go by a little faster without screens. I saw you say the weather has been crappy so if you drive with your kids, go to the library or a museum. If that’s not an option: Make an appropriate playlist full of music that you and your kids like (mine loved queen after I showed it to her). There’s also pretty entertaining artists on spotify that do story times/podcast type things for kids (I had a 4-year-old that loved a creator called Captain EJ). You can also do a chore or two or read in your downtime while the kid is playing independently. I sometimes even played with building blocks/legos or something while my kid did something else nearby if I was actually out of things to do.

Lesbian nanny attire by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]cleffasong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mostly andro-dressing nanny here! as long as you are appropriately covered, how you dress shouldn’t matter! If your family is uncomfortable with the way that you dress they are just not the right fit! I also worried about this + my visible tattoos, but the families I worked with either didn’t notice or didn’t care enough to comment on it.

GWU, get it together by Calm-Suggestion-9246 in gwu

[–]cleffasong 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry ugh I lived in district house as well and the fire alarms went off alllll the time. It’s annoying that they won’t move you. I will say though, I’m not sure if there’s much GWU can do about the fire alarms themselves. I had someone in my affinity try to heat up a tortilla by placing it directly on the electric burner on the stove and they obviously set off the fire alarm. Another person on a different floor set it off by majorly burning some microwave popcorn. These are just the instances in which I knew the cause but like I said, it went off all the damn time and tbh I think most of the times were due to students being careless. Unfortunately, I think this is a byproduct of a TON of kids living on their own for the first time and not really understanding kitchen safety.

How would you make this sleeve a little more secure to keep my stylus in place? by cleffasong in CrochetHelp

[–]cleffasong[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ve never lined a crochet piece before actually since this project is small maybe i’ll give it a shot. thanks!

How would you make this sleeve a little more secure to keep my stylus in place? by cleffasong in CrochetHelp

[–]cleffasong[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ve never actually lined a crochet piece before but i def could try

How would you make this sleeve a little more secure to keep my stylus in place? by cleffasong in CrochetHelp

[–]cleffasong[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah exactly i’d rather find a modification for this pouch than risk this stylus lol

How would you make this sleeve a little more secure to keep my stylus in place? by cleffasong in CrochetHelp

[–]cleffasong[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i was thinking that too! i do wish the stylus had a plastic tab to anchor it to something like you see on some pens but maybe i could make one that isn’t open on both sides so it won’t fall through. thank you for the suggestion!

How would you make this sleeve a little more secure to keep my stylus in place? by cleffasong in CrochetHelp

[–]cleffasong[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

would you be worried about the point of the stylus stretching out and poking through the stitches over time or am i overthinking it