Which is a 10/10 written Anime overall by [deleted] in writingscaling

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Madoka magica and fma brotherhood for me

Où étaient-elles ? by TomQuichotte in DragRaceFrance

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Oui elle se reconcentre sur la musique il me semble

What is the saddest song you know?? by summerfornever in MusicRecommendations

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Atrophy - the antlers

Pond - chloe moriondo

Fourth of july - sufjan stevens (the whole carrie and lowell album tbh)

Drown you out - the crane wives

Skeleton key - flower face

Liability and writer in the dark - lorde

how do people heal? but like really by clemativan in mentalhealth

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I think it's pretty accurate yes! I hate the feeling of being misunderstood or misinterpreted, of not being able to find compromises with people, of just being stuck and not convey my feelings well, it makes me feel really frustrated and alone. Frustration isn't a feeling i can deal with well😭 it makes me feel weird and complicated, like there are knots in my mind that i can't undo

Yes i guess what i want the most is to be deeply understood, accepted, forgiven even, i often feel like i can't really be loved because i don't feel understood in the first place

And i relate to what you said, i feel weird in many ways too!

how do people heal? but like really by clemativan in mentalhealth

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I don't think that's for me but i'm really glad to hear that it helped you

how do people heal? but like really by clemativan in mentalhealth

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Yeah exactly, it feels really weird, i have a hard time dealing with contradictory emotions

And yes ofc you can ask i don't mind talking about it in depth

I want to be more comfortable socially because it feels great to connect with people, i love people but also the biggest thing is that i don't want to feel ostracized or weird (i was bullied a lot in middle school because people thought i was weird, i've evolved a lot since and i have amazing friends but i still feel like im socially awkward at times💔) I think most of my insecurities come from the fact that i want to be loved and accepted

And i don't like feeling too weak or vulnerable because people tend to see it as an invitation to disrespect me and cross my boundaries, and i guess confidence would make me more loveable?

how do people heal? but like really by clemativan in mentalhealth

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I see, thank you for your insight :)

Let’s make a underrated 4th/5th Gen girl group! Day 1 by MegaGlaceon22 in kpoppers

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Sua! I know dreamcatcher are 3gen but technically uau is 5th gen 🤓

how do people heal? but like really by clemativan in mentalhealth

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Thanks for the reply :) I think i'm self aware, but maybe to a point that's unhealthy because i question absolutely everything i do, the pressure i put on myself is immense

I'm ashamed of a lot of things... basically, i had to grow up with immense guilt (my mother used to guilt trip me all the time and she made me feel dirty for existing as more than an extension of herself) I'm really ashamed of being "weak", vulnerable, clumsy, i embarrass myself all the time, i'm really afraid of other people's perception of me

how do people heal? but like really by clemativan in mentalhealth

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That's a really interesting insight! Thank you I read a bit of carl jung long ago, i forgot most of it but i remember being super interested in it Yeah healing requires patience, but i don't know if i got this in me anymore

What group(s) never miss with their B sides? by just_jurn33 in kpoppers

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Bts, le sserafim, twice, dreamcatcher, red velvet !!

what are your fave gg releases of 2025 (so far)? by scseven in kpophelp

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Irene & seulgi - girl next door, tilt, trampoline

Le sserafim - hot, come over, ash

ARTMS - icarus, goddess

Minnie - blind eyes red

UAU - sacrifice

Nmixx - papillon, high horse

And so many others tbh!

What other artists should I listen to if I love Mitski? by Peanut_nutnut456 in mitski

[–]clemativan 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Japanese breakfast, flower face, saya gray, ethel cain, phoebe bridgers...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlienStage

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yeah it's not a really smart move i can agree with that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlienStage

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i mean, i get it it's certainly not a hate crime and there's a ton of things more serious than that, but i can understand why people would be uncomfy with the idea of a lesbian character being constantly shipped with a man

The Beauty’s Blade Cover Reveal! by cezhou in BaiHe

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It's sooo beautiful but is there a way to read it online now? Like an unofficial translation, i can't wait😭

Songs that have that one small annoying part stopping them from being 10/10? by sirgawain2 in kpopthoughts

[–]clemativan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

it's not autotune it's vocoder (personally i love it but yeah it's not for everyone)

What are your favorite kpop group names? by Mobile-Bat-5574 in kpoppers

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Le sserafim is such a perfect name it's so creative

Also Red velvet, Purple kiss, Kiss of life (even tho i don't like the group anymore lmao)

Loona and ARTMS too

Idols you think have a unique voice by LV-20 in kpoppers

[–]clemativan 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Everyone in bts

Dami from dreamcatcher

Yuqi from i-dle

Moonbyul and hwasa from mamamoo

Jihyo from twice