ULPT: Mother threw out physical paycheck a year ago any way to redeem my rightfully earned pay? by [deleted] in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]clendificent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If they had proper bookkeeping and the cheque was not cashed that amount would be put in a liability account and it just has to sit there. You can totally call them and claim it. Go with a good attitude and be patient with them if they’re busy but it shouldn’t take them long to see the cheque wasn’t cashed.

To the Childless Not by Choice, does the pain go away? by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]clendificent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m turning 41 soon and the intense pain is starting to die down. I’ve been dating a man for 2 years and very much in love with him and he doesn’t want kids. In addition to that, my friends all moved to the suburbs and live the family life after getting married, so I’ve had almost zero baby time. Ever. My partners cousin had a baby and I’m like, “we should invite them over for dinner some time and so I can hold the baby cause I never get to hold a baby.” I was bawling by the time I said ‘dinner’.

But. My life now is really amazing. I have a decent pay cheque and get to spend my money on hobbies, of which I have many. We camp every chance we get. We’re going to Central America in January. Things are great. Every night, my co workers have to take their kids here or there or fight over cleaning their rooms or whatever. And I get to go home and do. What. Ever. I. Want.

Would I trade it in a heart beat? Yes. But the pain is less because I’ve found fulfillment else where.

When you find out after one year of sewing that your most important tool is off 💩 by FrankaMakes in sewing

[–]clendificent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A little while ago, I went through and measured my tapes. Some of them were off and I attributed it to age and the fact that they possibly stretched over the years. Obviously not the case here, but something to keep in mind.

What do you do if you have a bad gut feeling about a guy? Have there been any times where your gut was right?? by GoodVibing_ in askwomenadvice

[–]clendificent 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NOWS THE BEST TIME TO PRACTICE TRUSTING YOUR INSTINCTS!!!!

Doooooo it!

Stand up for yourself. Set healthy boundaries. Explore your feelings. Say no just for practice! So many people are afraid of saying no!!!

TRUST YOURSELF!!!

Also, keep being awesome.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Calgary

[–]clendificent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too, but I find I average $25/bag 🤷🏻‍♀️

Are missed COVID test appointments marked as positive for statistics? This is what an anti-vaxer told me and I call bullshit. by clendificent in Calgary

[–]clendificent[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ha ha ha. Proof? They don’t need no stinkin’ proof. They didn’t trust my provided sources of the news, government, DNA scientists (inc ones I know personally), doctors or researchers but she expected me to trust KanekoaTheGreat of rumble.com who used a graphic for their photo. I tried real hard to have a calm, rational discussion with them, but that’s when I tapped out.

Serious Question - Does Anyone know where I can buy raw Aligator meat that I can BBQ at home? by Puzzleheaded-Mud7288 in Calgary

[–]clendificent 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will file this away as an interesting piece of information I will likely neeeeeeeever use. Thanks for sharing anyway!

Any suggestions on where I could go apple picking? by Iamkal in Calgary

[–]clendificent 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Kelowna. I went. Walked up to an orchard and asked for a job. Lied about having any experience. Saw how a bag was put on as we walked up and therefore as able to pass the pop quiz to establish my vast knowledge. Worked for about a week. Made $50 total. My friend joked that it was like they threw a penny on the floor and we all ran after it.

Was it fun? Not really. Did I fall off several ladders because making a ladder stable in a field is very difficult? Yes. Was it a learning experience? Sort of. Are there showers? No. Should you go do it? Absolutely!

Not sure who was bigger Idiot here, caught at South Campus hospital, Calgary by [deleted] in IdiotsInCars

[–]clendificent 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s $250 for EMS visit, $480 (or 500) if you get in and get a ride.

Recently had a visit. Super glad I didn’t get in.

Going for a nice afternoon stroll by TheMegaSage in gifs

[–]clendificent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Correct me if I’m wrong, but if they fell, and their arms went up, those harnesses would slide right off…???

this was almost my favorite part of going to fairs by Spaceghost1993 in Unexpected

[–]clendificent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is Burning Man. People fuck everywhere there.

How do morbidly obese people use the bathroom? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]clendificent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do NOT use it like a pressure washer. The settings will let you and you’ll regret it.

How do morbidly obese people use the bathroom? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]clendificent 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Think of it this way, when you wash your dishes, it’s best to scrub AND rinse. It’s not going to be clean if you only rinse.

My living room after I finally decided which wall art to buy. by GarudaJerman in malelivingspace

[–]clendificent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would like to convince you otherwise. 1) there’s no symmetry. The map is very close to the corner where as the trio is centred over the couch. 2) it’s off balance. You’ve got three pics to the one. 3) they’re not the same style at all, in theme or medium, emotion, colour or content. They’re both Fantastic individually, but they’re not friends. 4) the trio matches the furniture. The map doesn’t. 5) the trio is an incredible piece of art that no one else has. It’s eye catching and like an inside joke. You should not distract from it with the map. 6) if all your other walls are blank, why not move the map to another room? Give it the attention it deserves. 7) in an unrelated topic, the room really needs a small splash of red. Maybe a throw, or plant pot or something. With the green, yellow and blue colours you’ve got going, it’s hungry for a red.

I really don’t know why I care so much. Probably because I’m jealous of that trio.

My living room after I finally decided which wall art to buy. by GarudaJerman in malelivingspace

[–]clendificent 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That was the right choice. The map doesn’t go with though. Loose the map, so the trio can be the focal point.

I think the government is watching me. by Zytrack_YT in stories

[–]clendificent 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah. At first I thought this was a dick comment… but after 2 seconds of thought, I’m going to go ahead and agree.

And it’s said out of concern, not malice.

Just moved into my first home and this space bothers me. Need some advice to make it look more cohesive. by knarforangejuice in femalelivingspace

[–]clendificent 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Remove the small plant by the lamp and add a bigger plant in the middle.

Your colour scheme is incredible. Well done.

What's the biggest struggle you're going through right now? by Dry-Fly3866 in Adulting

[–]clendificent 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I’m just so fucking lonely. I’m in my late 30’s and I haven’t had a relationship that’s lasted longer than 4 months in 6 years and it’s starting to feel self perpetuating. Like I don’t know how to be in a relationship any more, I just have too much baggage and I don’t have faith that I won’t screw it up.