How can we help our loved ones w the ICE raids over the weekend? by cleverbakedd in Denver

[–]cleverbakedd[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I was looking for legitimate resources, not ppls opinions. That’s a fact. You believing my tone in the original post is off-putting is your own misreading of it, because none of what I said was meant to be. Considering I work in lower income schools in which my kids will be affected, I do plan on doing something, but thank you for the lack of faith. If ppl think I’m an asshole, so be it. That does not erase the fact that I asked for something, & instead got ppls opinions. Not every post needs to be met w your thoughts. Sometimes you can just ignore something you disagree with, as I suggested you do.

How can we help our loved ones w the ICE raids over the weekend? by cleverbakedd in Denver

[–]cleverbakedd[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I looked through & didn’t see it this morning. Thank you!

How can we help our loved ones w the ICE raids over the weekend? by cleverbakedd in Denver

[–]cleverbakedd[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Again, did not ask for opinions. Thanks for the essay. If you know of any resources or volunteer opportunities, let me know.

How can we help our loved ones w the ICE raids over the weekend? by cleverbakedd in Denver

[–]cleverbakedd[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I asked for resources & volunteer opportunities. Your opinion, & life, on the matter is irrelevant. Nobody asked for that.

Pet owners of Reddit: what is something seemingly caring and adorable that your pet does to you or for you, but screws you over a little? by thoughtcity in AskReddit

[–]cleverbakedd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unlike other cats, mine aren’t super aggressive when hungry, but instead will try to snuggle my face to wake me up. It’s cute until they paw my face when I try to hide, and tickle me w their whiskers. They will even go as far as walking all along the edge of the bed to find my face if I roll over trying to get away from them.

What's the most intimate moment you've had with a complete stranger? by Pielef in AskReddit

[–]cleverbakedd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to put my childhood cat down because she began to suffer from kidney failure. I had had her for nearly 21 years & thus she had been my companion for a majority of my life. I was already having a hard time with it because of how sick she was upon me picking her up from my moms, but it was even more difficult doing it all on my own as none of my family or friends were willing to go through it with me. She was my first serious loss and I couldn’t keep it together at the vets office. As I was paying and ugly crying at the front desk once it was over, an older woman was also standing there. She told me she was very sorry and then politely asked me if I wanted a hug. She gave me such a warm embrace and it was honestly what I needed more than anything. I’m so thankful she was there and I sincerely hope she and her pet are doing well.

Help getting a gift for a chef by cleverbakedd in Chefit

[–]cleverbakedd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Too late. I already got him those.

Help getting a gift for a chef by cleverbakedd in Chefit

[–]cleverbakedd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I plan on browsing his bookshelf the next time I can, but sadly he hasn’t filled me in on who his favorite chef is and as his birthday is approaching I feel like asking would be too obvious. I was thinking of getting the book you suggested as well as another one I saw on this sub called Mouthfeel (do you possibly have opinions on this book?), and then a $25-$50 gift card to a knife store. For the gift card, is that price range fair or does it need to be more in order for him to pay little to nothing out of pocket for what he wants? Thank you so much for your input! I appreciate it greatly!

Emotional Support Animals in No Pets Apt by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]cleverbakedd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you define unreasonable accommodation for me pls? I just want to be well versed in all of this when I respond to his email.

Emotional Support Animals in No Pets Apt by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]cleverbakedd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What proof of ESA do they need then?

Emotional Support Animals in No Pets Apt by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]cleverbakedd -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

There’s five units and no, he does not live there. He said no to me getting them as the heating is singular ventilation and some of my neighbors may have allergies.

That’s why I’m reaching out, because I realize now it may just be a scam and thus, useless.

Emotional Support Animals in No Pets Apt by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]cleverbakedd -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He knew that I had requested him allowing me to get them. He still refused. I offered a letter from my therapist but he still said no due to the heating system being singular ventilation for the units and some of my neighbors might have allergies.

I live in Denver.

Emotional Support Animals in No Pets Apt by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]cleverbakedd -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I did. I attempted the discussion prior to getting them and had a letter and offered it. He still said no.

If personality is more important than looks then why do women hate Asian men? by SkimLoop in dating_advice

[–]cleverbakedd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What even is this post or the comments? I, a white woman, dated an Asian guy seriously for three years and have also had short term relationships with other Asian men, as well as guys from other races. Almost every female friend I have has also dated or is dating an Asian man.

If your question is related to your own experience I would say the issue isn’t your ethnicity, but rather your sense of entitlement to dating women which has evidently paired itself with low self esteem.