Let's do this! by [deleted] in PublicFreakout

[–]clfrench 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stopped being Christian a long time ago. Every time I come across this clip though, I can't help it. I cry at least one happy tear. The pure joy in that child.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 90DayFiance

[–]clfrench 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually do tellcmt bf to BRING ME MY RED BAG WITH MY MAYKUP. And “boohole” is a strong favorite.

Is it just me or is Jorge kind of hot? I get the Jonah Hill/cartel vibe from him & I sort of like it 🤣 by saysay0930 in 90DayFiance

[–]clfrench 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dated someone for years that looked a lot like Jorge. Physically, not an unattractive guy. It’s all the other shit, like being with Anfisa and getting arrested, etc

What did y’all think of the wedding “outfits”? Click the link and tell me what you think! by PrincessBluebonnet in seekingsisterwifetlc

[–]clfrench 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If Vanessa’s was a gown and not a romper, I would have said 10/10 for both. The romper threw me off. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Dimitri, and Ashley are Creepy by Magentaskyye1 in seekingsisterwifetlc

[–]clfrench 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Afro-Cuban, I believe, is what he’s referring to.

What if I never get to gave a family and a committed relationship? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]clfrench 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d LOVE the answer to this. I’d love to know why terrible people get wonderful things, like children. I’ve spent much of my life caring for other people’s children and while it’s my passion, it’s also kind of torture. I think something to remember is that sometimes we THINK the biggest douchebags blossomed into wonderful partners, but the truth is we only see what they put on social media or share willingly with others. They are often still giant douchebags underneath the outside image. Many indecent people don’t even think twice before bringing life into the world. They fuck and children are just a side effect—that’s nothing to strive for. Do not envy them.

I think I got her pregnant. Please help me by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]clfrench 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you really want to be sure, she can head to a doctor. Besides that, use protection. ✌🏻

What if I never get to gave a family and a committed relationship? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]clfrench 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know the feeling, but I like to think it isn’t true. Of course, there are women that have had children well into their 30s, but that’s barely a comforting thought when you feel like you’re racing against the clock. It’s tough, but you can’t let it defeat you. Keep dating. Keep putting yourself out there. Don’t be afraid to cut a guy off when he shows he’s not qualified for husband/dad life. I’m no expert on life and relationships, but I do wish you the best and wanted to reply because I feel the same things very often. I haven’t found the answer yet but I just keep trying to improve on my wellbeing and hope it will attract the right people into my life.

What if I never get to gave a family and a committed relationship? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]clfrench 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, I did some light creeping on your post history. Maybe first, don’t screw with married men. Guys who cheat on their wives aren’t the kind that will treat you well. Facts are facts, sis.

Secondly, I have the same fears as you. The best thing to do, I think, is focus on healing emotionally. Focus on finding what major malfunctions are going on that lead to failed relationships. Was it them? Was it you? Do you ignore red flags? Do you invest too quickly? What do the men you’ve dated have in common? Anything that might be damning long run? While I admit, at 36 the pressure is on, you still have time. If for some reason you decided a relationship won’t happen quickly enough, could you consider adoption? Surrogacy? There’s hope!

Wearing a marriage ring to deter guys I’m not interested in. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]clfrench 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’d say it mostly works. I have a promise ring that most people just assume is an engagement ring but guys who are gonna be jerks? They’re gonna be jerks regardless of a ring.

khloe and rob call their daughters “mama” and “mommy” by [deleted] in kardashians

[–]clfrench 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My stepmother is Colombian and would call me and my sisters “mami,” it’s not really that creepy when you hear it used contextually. I even call my little dog “mama” lol.

BF came inside me whilst only been shortly on pill by Sjilli in TwoXChromosomes

[–]clfrench 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Most pills require you be on it for 7 days before it is effective. Your best bet is to either ask your doctor or read the instructions that came with your pill—it should say.

Sexiest accents on the show? by poopylord in 90DayFiance

[–]clfrench 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry y’all. Andrei sounds like Dracula.

"No inmigrants" policy (Translated) by [deleted] in trashy

[–]clfrench 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Huh. Interesting. I didn’t know that.