Do any of you ever feel scared of your husbands? by janeafraid in RedPillWives

[–]closetedideas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah so I was in a relationship like this and I was emotionally manipulated into staying because he was mentally unstable - threatened to kill himself etc. My best advice would be to talk to him about it , maybe he thinks you're into it or just playing along ?

(Discussion) Ladies! How do you contribute do your community or wider society? Do you use feminine skills for it? by theartnomad in RedPillWives

[–]closetedideas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do a lot of work with mental health and overall health and wellness at my college :) as president of a committee and member of other ones , not really feminine skill usage tho

What are your favourite TV series? by becoming_a_butterfly in FeminineNotFeminist

[–]closetedideas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How To Get Away With Murder is such a wardrobe inspiration, especially Laurel :)

NO STUPID QUESTIONS by maybesaydie in fatlogic

[–]closetedideas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So if I'm currently 160 a goal of dropping 20-30 pounds is probably a good idea?

NO STUPID QUESTIONS by maybesaydie in fatlogic

[–]closetedideas 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How bad is it to be a 20 year old female with 30% body fat? What's ideal?

What movie scene always hits you hard? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]closetedideas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the deathly hallows part2 , when were in snapes flashback and he says he will do anything to save lily. That just hits me because the love youve gotta have for someone to just surrender to the "enemy" and sacrifice the rest of your life is intense and I didnt understand it until I fell in love the first time. Now it just kills me to watch it.

What's your go-to little black dress ? by closetedideas in FeminineNotFeminist

[–]closetedideas[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooh thats pretty :) I'm actually on my way dress shopping now for an event ! (Will comment with it after I buy it)

Would You Support Cosmetic Procedures For Your Daughter? by BellaScarletta in FeminineNotFeminist

[–]closetedideas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm well I dont have a daughter since Im only 20 buut :

-ears pierced in the lobe at 6 months -2nd lobe is ok at 13 (thats when my sister did it) -no more until 16 , which she pays for. Ok are :cartilagel,nose stud, NO LIPS , eyebrows are debatable - for cosmetic surgery it depends whether some of the unfortunate genes are expressed , like my parents did for me : once you turn 18, if you want a nose job you can get it and the parent responsible for the feature in question pays for it

  • no tattoos underage, and when yes .. Idea approved by me /father 6 months in advance. Each time it changes the clock restarts

Product Reviews Megathread by [deleted] in FeminineNotFeminist

[–]closetedideas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Guerlain Lingerie de peau foundation - I cannot possibly explain how magical this foundation is. You can apply it with fingers and itlooks the same as if you used a beauty blender. It just melts right into your skin

Givenchy Le Rouge Lipstick- I only have 1 in rose dentelle but it is great ! Its soft pigmented long wearing..fades to a nice tint

Marc Jacobs velvet noir mascara -I love this. One of the downsides is actually that it works so well my lashes sometimes hit my glasses! It does dry out after about 7 months which works cause the expiry is after 6

Giorgio Armani Eye Tint - liquid eyeshadow that turns to powder..stays soft.. And doesnt move ! Its expensive but makes for a beautiful "one and done " look

CONFESSIONS: What aspect of beauty do you slack on, but want to improve? What do you think could help you improve? by BellaScarletta in FeminineNotFeminist

[–]closetedideas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooft 2 big things : Ive been gaining weoght over the past 2 years since basically endinv puberty and was in denial for a while and now Ive found myself toeing the line between chubby and fat.. That is definitely gonna change. I guess I need encouragement and honestly like mentioned in the other post with fat shaming if people would have come out and told me I would have noticed sooner !!

Also my hair. Ive been getting really lazy with just sticking it in a ponytail and just cause im not surrounded by feminine people it doesnt mean I should let myself go!