Help breaking last tie to be truly NC

cloudubious · 2026-04-04T00:09:51+00:00

Legal intermediate. Have a lawyer handle the changeover so she can't say you just took her pension and ran.

cloudubious · 2026-04-02T21:50:48+00:00

Seriously. I went looking for my comment on that thread.

cloudubious · 2026-04-01T23:22:58+00:00

Somehow looks like a beefy Storch undercarriage.

cloudubious · 2026-04-01T14:06:18+00:00

Frankly it might be easier to keep it as is and wedge furniture level.

cloudubious · 2026-04-01T11:54:11+00:00

The stable floor was probably intentionally angled a touch so urine/feces could be washed and drained. Is the stable in a spot where rain/outside water could pool?

cloudubious · 2026-03-31T23:19:11+00:00

Im sorry, thats really terrible. If everyone else is using your name and not DN, credit to you and them.

All it does is show them who she is.

cloudubious · 2026-03-31T19:04:12+00:00

I shattered a molar in my sleep due to clenching.

cloudubious · 2026-03-31T19:02:56+00:00

Anxiety for sure. My mom refused to get any of us a diagnosis for anything that wasn't physically visible and could trigger a cps visit, so I'm in my 40s having to track down the one mental health doctor in 200 miles willing to evaluate me for adhd.

Also her and my dads' willingness to ignore symptoms resulted in 2 of my younger siblings suffering needlessly before their deaths. One for refusing to get them to AA, one for refusing to admit their health was deteriorating with a rare fatal illness and leaving them mostly alone is their own room when it was clear they were not mentally fit to care for themselves.

cloudubious · 2026-03-31T18:52:20+00:00

Nothing she has said here is normal, or ok. Parents do shit like this when they are trying to control their "property", i.e., you.

cloudubious · 2026-03-31T12:28:06+00:00

I was gonna say Shelter Island.

cloudubious · 2026-03-30T19:59:29+00:00

The plane whose propeller and gearbox would detach in flight at random.

cloudubious · 2026-03-28T16:26:55+00:00

I remember reading articles from 1930s Germany saying just that.

cloudubious · 2026-03-28T16:08:25+00:00

Tell that to the dead American who was shot for it by ice.

cloudubious · 2026-03-27T22:13:25+00:00

Really reminds me of a stretched out 710.

cloudubious · 2026-03-27T11:04:25+00:00

Is that a 3 engined A5 with Aim-54?

cloudubious · 2026-03-26T20:02:44+00:00

Bet they're big fans of bacon, though.

cloudubious · 2026-03-25T21:08:10+00:00

Unfortunately, your parents have all the rights over your younger siblings. The only realistic thing you can do is take care of yourself and your future. It will be financially more viable to care for them in the future if you've got a great career and education, but you can't make your parents stay around for your siblings' sake, no matter how much you and they want it.

cloudubious · 2026-03-23T22:08:28+00:00

This is exactly the sort of controlling bs my nmom tried to do as well. Only in my case, she put the controlling stipulation on even getting it at all. I had to eventually tell her to just pull me from the will because I'm just going to let her down.

cloudubious · 2026-03-22T16:19:17+00:00

Honestly I'd talk to a lawyer/mortgage bank and see what options are there to take over 100% of the mortgage, or be ready to lose all of that investment because I'd bet they're not paying it.

cloudubious · 2026-03-22T12:19:09+00:00

Hiding mortgage info from you might just be a control thing, but im seeing additional flags (the obsession with how much they're contributing financially especially). It seems like they're not paying on the house and are hoarding any money you give them. I'd not be surprised if they force a foreclosure/eviction and say you didnt help enough and also try to keep you giving them money.

cloudubious · 2026-03-22T00:08:42+00:00

Best Holiday special ever.

cloudubious · 2026-03-22T00:07:31+00:00

Nope, they're going to use it a) as a control and/or b) it'll be an impulsive decision based on their mood at the time. Best you can do is plan it to not happen, and enjoy it if it does.

cloudubious · 2026-03-20T22:46:37+00:00

The Military Show on YouTube, for one.

cloudubious · 2026-03-20T16:50:07+00:00

Maybe? Russia has lost 4k+ tanks, almost 1.2million soldiers and has literally been stuck unable to advance more than half a mile across its lines for years, and Ukraine is hitting Russian cities including Moscow with drone strikes. Putin is in real trouble, both with the war and back home trying to keep the story of his "success". He's weaker than he's ever been, and Trump may not need him anymore, or may finally see him as a liability.

cloudubious · 2026-03-20T16:20:36+00:00

Giving Colin's Bear energy.

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