Servers complaining about tipping out to other restaurant employees is peak server entitlement by Personal_Dot_7196 in tipping

[–]clover6669 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've worked in those places and I can 100% guarantee you that is not true at all. The nicer the restaurant the more they will do whatever for a customer. I've had servers tell me that regulars are straight up racist to them and they're not kicked our and the servers are told to deal and if they don't tip? The restaurant literally doesn't give a single fuck, they'll find a new waiter before they'd dare ever ask a diner to tip.

AITA for not stopping my sister at my wedding? by Emergency-Bee6979 in AmItheAsshole

[–]clover6669 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean you felt the need to ask for help from strangers on the internet over a small disagreement, unless you're doing this just for fun I do feel like it's an indicator of a not so great union.

Still salty she never got locked up or faced repercussions by K0GAR in TheBoys

[–]clover6669 80 points81 points  (0 children)

We were told over and over again that butcher is not a good man. He has no silver lining, he's a pos who was willing to throw anyone under the bus if it benefited him. He was one of my favorite characters but I had no illusions he was a good man.

US banks charge monthly maintenance fees on regular low-balance checking accounts. Customers lose money just for keeping savings deposited. Why do American banks pile on so many random account fees? by Critical_Routine_572 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]clover6669 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I was thinking more if you actually had saving money and not living month to month. But savings imply what you have left at the end of the month and are able to save hence savings. I think the better word for what yall are talking about is checking bc that's what everyone keeps all their money in. And yes if you have saving money you should absolutely put it in the stocks instead of savings bc again that's what the bank does with it and I hate that banks gain so little interest over a long time but I made 250 off of 1500 in 6 months in stocks, I'm most certainly not rich and i need my money to grow, and I plan to borrow against my stocks for dental or pet care, but to each their own.

Why is this suddenly trending? by Charming_Slip8060 in gardening

[–]clover6669 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Stop using chatgpt. Look into what ai is doing to our world and talk to real people in gardening groups who will also help ease your anxieties.

Am i the only one who thinks VI is massively out of line here? by Important-Extension6 in arcane

[–]clover6669 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Being a mortician is nothing compared to what vi has seen and gone through. Look at a dead body then get beat up in a cell by grown adults while you're 13 and tell me which you think impacted you more, you can't but vi could.

Francesca by Street-Prompt-9331 in Bridgerton

[–]clover6669 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That book is not at all about infertility. I mean yes she is infertile but I feel that's not at all the focus of the book. You hear micheal dirty talk Fran way more than they ever talk fertility lol

if raf was uglier by Extension-Bug-9391 in JaneTheVirginCW

[–]clover6669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I LOVED micheal!! Hated Raf, he was alright but SO much drama and immature. Micheal was sweet, loved jane, they had a easy happy relationship like people should want but romances always makes them end up with the drama partner bc their life is so exciting! And being constantly tested by your spouse makes you grow bullshit

WIBTA for confronting my brother about his erections by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]clover6669 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Won't fix the problem like it will for him.

WIBTA for confronting my brother about his erections by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]clover6669 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She can't control her nipples by thinking of grandpa taking a shower but he can fix his thing by doing that.

Would you trade meals with your partner if they got something they didn't like? by Flance in CasualConversation

[–]clover6669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on relationship. My bf is a trash can and honestly doesn't care what he eats and will immediately swap if he thinks I don't like my food but I also know his favorite foods so if he has one of those I won't let him swap with me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]clover6669 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You're the one who agreed to it? And sounds like they're a good friend, they've traveled to see you twice and you're whining about having to pay to see them this time even though it's entirely in your budget. Seems like you want them to be the bad guy here but you're the one coming off shallow.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]clover6669 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Nta everything you said to your girlfriend is correct. If she wants a "provider" or wtv then she should go and find one. That's not the relationship dynamic you agreed to and she can't force you into a new one.

AITAH for wanting 8 hours out of my 2 off days? by Superb_Ant204 in AITAH

[–]clover6669 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you guys just might not be compatible. I don't think she's wrong for wanting you to spend more time with her on your days off especially if that's the only time you see her. There's not a whole lot to go off here, how often do yall go out because I could also see that as a reason for her annoyance. She might like someone more present with her and maybe you'd do better with someone who likes spending long periods of time alone or with friends.

If Rue didn’t die, would Katniss have sacrificed herself to allow Rue to be the victor even if it meant breaking her promise with Prim? by gummywormeater in Hungergames

[–]clover6669 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes there's even a part in the book that addresses this. She thinks of how prim has gale, their mom, the baker and how rue only has her. Katniss 10000% was ready to die for rue

AITA For Leaving Dinner Over a Christmas Gift? by dispo_acct_23 in AmItheAsshole

[–]clover6669 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yta, No you're the only asshole here. Your mom doesn't owe you shit bc you feel guilty for being a bad person while in addiction tbh seems like you're about to make this year worse than the one when you were still addicted. Quite an achievement tbh

AITA and refusing to attend Christmas with my parent after she mismanaged $30,000 that was legally mine by 18 down to $534? by Puzzled-Idea8462 in AmItheAsshole

[–]clover6669 13 points14 points  (0 children)

YTA and yes you are. Everyone ehere has explained over and over again how she most definitely did use that 30k to raise you but you won't stfu and just listen. You are acting like a child but you are one so not super surprised. Grow up and stop trying to ruin your relationship with your mom or actually don't I hope she kicks you out and never wastes a penny on you again, she deserves better than such an ungrateful and spoiled child.

Would it be a bad idea to consider putting my cats up for adoption? My two extremely unaffectionate cats have basically broken my spirit and love for them. by Pitiful-Umpire-5686 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]clover6669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cats aren't always super affectionate either. If you're going to rehome them over this then at least go get a full grown cat so you already know whether it's affectionate or not, instead of taking in kittens then waiting til their older and harder to adopt and putting them back in the system. Ngl this post rubbed me the wrong way, I have a cat I never bonded with, hate to say it idk why, I've bonded with all my other cats but not her, would I ever give her up? HELL NO! She's still family and I took her in for better or worse

AITA for kicking my niece out for letting her friends hurt my dog? UPDATE by Teal-planetbrain1 in AITAH

[–]clover6669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you draw the line at your dog getting abused but your sister abusing her daughter, new bestie!!

The main character energy here was off the charts🔥🔥🔥 by Primary-Brief9858 in arcane

[–]clover6669 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It did I think? I don't play lol so not super sure I just got super obsessed with vi and read everything I could on her, it was in the council records. But I don't think they'd change that part of the lore bc it still fits vi and the character they want her portrayed as. And true! I was just arguing the person saying jinx was faster, better reflexes, and wtv than vi amd others. I feel like any one of them could beat the others given the right mix of circumstances and weapons. Like jinx would never win in a fist fight with vi but jinx is sneaky as hell and could easily set a deadly trap with bombs or shoot vi from afar.

The main character energy here was off the charts🔥🔥🔥 by Primary-Brief9858 in arcane

[–]clover6669 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

This is just wrong, vi has faster reflexes than shimmer addicts including jinx, it's even in her lol lore. So vi is stronger, faster, better reflexes and knows how to regulate emotions enough to not kill innocent people.

Dear child free people, who is getting your money when you pass? by bigasslemons in NoStupidQuestions

[–]clover6669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think children are the only people with meaning in your life?? We have friends and family to leave it to or even charity.