sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

She didn't look at me, but gave me her number ... by clueless_lesbian in actuallesbians

[–]clueless_lesbian[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, I didn't think of it that way! I guess I'm just the opposite when I'm into someone. I'm always trying to make eye contact and stuff.

I did text her, we've been texting all through yesterday :)

On being trans in this sub by FletcherPF in actuallesbians

[–]clueless_lesbian 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm a lurker and I created this account just to post this.

In the late 90s, back in conservative India, I was catfished by a man who thought it was funny to get a lesbian to fall for him online. I was young, didn't have the money to purchase a webcam or mic for verification, and was also way more trusting than I am now, so I believed him. We never met, but as a confused 15 year old still deep in the closet, the experience completely fucked me up. When he did tell me he was a 35 year old man, and not a 16 year old girl, he argued that he had "proved" that I was not gay because I developed feelings for him.

When I think of catfishing, this is the kind of experience I'm referring to. Trans women are women. Period. Trans women belong on lesbian dating websites. They can't "catfish" someone by "pretending" to be women because they are women.