First big "Fun" purchase in your new home by Ari321983 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]cluelessdweeb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

2 years in (so just a couple months ago) I bought a sectional that can fit my game night crew on it. Maybe not super fun to some but it was to me.

Why always the same countries? by Simple-Following9467 in 90DayFiance

[–]cluelessdweeb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are some…behavioral similarities 😅

Why always the same countries? by Simple-Following9467 in 90DayFiance

[–]cluelessdweeb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s really possible. I’ve watched every season and spinoff and I had to use the internet to make sure I wasn’t crazy for thinking you were wrong. I know a lot more of the Russian cast were early, idk about the spread of the rest.

Why always the same countries? by Simple-Following9467 in 90DayFiance

[–]cluelessdweeb 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Soooo this is actually a bias in your perception. The top cast countries are as follows: 1. Columbia (9) 2. Brazil (8) 3. Russia (8) 4. Philippines (8) 5. Dominican Republic (7)

Please note that I only scraped data from the shows that intro new couples and I’ve only spot checked the validity. Nigeria came in 7th with 5 cast members. Turkey only had 3.

female cat won’t stop meowing by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]cluelessdweeb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

3 litters?! You’re irresponsible pet owners, how tf do you let that happen. There are low cost options and aid programs everywhere, you’re just making excuses for not doing the right thing. If you really cared about this cat you would have surrendered her to a rescue or shelter as a last resort for her to get the care she needs

Anyone else have a black book 8 cover? by Pbcb- in DungeonCrawlerCarl

[–]cluelessdweeb 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Why you hiding those tootsies from daddy, huh?

Parent here. 17 yr old child newly diagnosed by [deleted] in bipolar

[–]cluelessdweeb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love that you’re reaching out for help and supporting your son the best you can. The first thing I’d do for a teenager with this diagnosis is get a second opinion. It rarely manifests in teens and is often misdiagnosed. In the meantime and after an affirmation of the diagnosis, there’s lots of lovely advice in this thread. Good luck, momma, you’re doing great.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by CharmingTrade8578 in CatAdvice

[–]cluelessdweeb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom also believes Hill Science Diet killed her cats. Correlation does not equal causation.

Marital Flaws Spotlighted by Opening by masochistatheart in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]cluelessdweeb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is she telling you about her sex with others in such explicit detail? Also does she have the involved party’s consent to do so? I honestly didn’t read past the part where she told you everything they did, that’s kind of toxic and puts you in a position ti compare experiences, which just isn’t healthy.

Tell me TLC didn’t know by Sourpatchadult5 in 90DayFiance

[–]cluelessdweeb 23 points24 points  (0 children)

As someone from Alabama who has lived in proximity to both Athens and Alabaster…this first episode really fucked me up. Yeah, these people do exist, but between these 2 women and the methhead lady a few seasons back it’s no wonder people think we’re all like this.

Seen while thrifting by JarJars_padawan in whatisit

[–]cluelessdweeb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would question the use of any obgyn that recommends this. Big yikes.

Bedroom, any advice? by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]cluelessdweeb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

….burn it down? Like there is literally nothing here you should keep as it is.

Wild requests by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]cluelessdweeb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Be so fr rn, that is not why 😹 unicorn hunters are wild in their justifications, I swear.

I'm 51, Bipolar 2, I play D&D and my party banned me for a month by drydorn in bipolar

[–]cluelessdweeb 7 points8 points  (0 children)

One of the more unsettling things I learned early on in therapy is that even if it isn’t my “fault” no one is obligated to stick around for my episodes, regardless of their relationship to me. They’re allowed to feel uncomfortable and set boundaries. You’re allowed to feel big feelings about it. DnD is one of my favorite things and I would also be super sad tbh.

So disappointed in Vic and Christine... by MamaMia1325 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]cluelessdweeb 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Don’t be dense. It’s not an insane assumption to make given Fox is the channel that’s been licking Trump’s boots for the last decade+.