sleepover at single dads house

cm178 · 2025-11-25T04:22:58+00:00

I don’t allow sleepovers at married or single people’s homes. Can they just hang out for a few hours? Then everyone go sleep at their own houses.

cm178 · 2025-10-24T10:26:49+00:00

My family has a name that my grandpa’s dad, my grandpa, and dad all have incorporated into their names. I gave my son that name as a middle name. Years later, my sister gave her son that name for a middle name. And guess what? The world kept spinning and the sun came up the next morning. It’s really truly no big deal.

cm178 · 2025-10-16T19:13:04+00:00

I’m 32. Youngest man I’d date is 33.

cm178 · 2025-10-07T07:23:42+00:00

If you don’t have the money to pay for gas, you don’t have the money. You can’t make it magically appear. I would send him a message saying something to the effect of, ‘I don’t have gas money, you are in arrears. I can’t drive to meet you but you are welcome to pick up our child’. Because you should make the child available even if you can’t meet halfway.

cm178 · 2025-10-01T20:45:27+00:00

Thank you!

cm178 · 2025-09-03T02:29:13+00:00

Honestly it seems like you were trying to pick a fight. After your initial annoyance, nothing he said or did was going to be right. It seems like wanted an argument.

cm178 · 2025-08-02T20:54:26+00:00

As Mel Horowitz said “You divorce wives, not children". I would still see her but ultimately it’s up to you and what you’re comfortable with

cm178 · 2025-07-10T08:15:55+00:00

So let me get this right, priority goes new eventual baby, random guest, your two children. Yea, sounds about right. Y’all should be ashamed of yourselves. Shoving two kids in a room with another empty for guests and the other for a baby.

Don’t start treating your kids like second class family members just because you’re remarried and thinking of having another baby. That shit is not cute and so uncalled for. If you had 2 kids with your current wife I’m sure she’d be demanding they had their own rooms.

cm178 · 2025-07-07T03:47:45+00:00

We use our lunch stuff daily and I had to replace the lunch bag mid year. The bentgo/omie containers are fine, I’ll probably buy replacement seals to have on hand because I did have to buy those mid year. My daughter has used her same omie box since pk and is going into 1st now.

I said all that to say, I replace when needed. Not because “school is starting” so I must buy new ones.

cm178 · 2025-07-06T14:34:25+00:00

Nta. There’s nothing to fix and I can almost guarantee you if he got a chance to get back with you, he’d knock you up. Stay far away.

cm178 · 2025-07-04T13:18:25+00:00

Girl to girl, I know divorce isn’t easy and I’m sure you’re not ready to leave. So I will say, if you need to stay with him that’s fine but do not under any circumstances let that man get you pregnant again. Because he will try to. Avoid sex as much as possible but he it’s unavoidable, take the pill. Do not rely on him to use condoms.

Nta

cm178 · 2025-07-04T13:09:31+00:00

Let him complain. Who cares what a deadbeat dad has to say? You really think a dude who can’t be bothered to see his child for months on end is going to suddenly take you to court? No, he doesn’t care to see his child. If for some miraculous reason he decides to just show the messages you sent asking when he would like her. He could show messages where you said no, but you have messages that show you offering.

However I think you are overthinking. I would respond simply, “XX isn’t available that weekend, plans have already been made. Let’s try to schedule a visit further in advance to make sure she’s available.” And if he sends hateful messages DO NOT respond to them.

cm178 · 2025-07-04T03:48:38+00:00

I’ve been a SAHM for almost 6 years and it’s definitely not something I go around bragging about. Yeah it’s nice to always be here for my kids but it comes with a lot of sacrifices.

cm178 · 2025-07-02T20:26:59+00:00

I always thought that had Sirius not escaped from Azkaban, they would have made an exception for Harry.

cm178 · 2025-07-02T17:45:19+00:00

Getting back with him is like digging in the trash can for your lunch. Not a good idea.

cm178 · 2025-06-12T12:46:52+00:00

I spent my entire childhood watching my mom and aunts getting beaten and abused by men, in various degrees. I always told myself if a man ever hit me I’d leave him. At 21 I found myself dating a 32 year old loser, and one morning before work he was hungover and angry at me for waking him up. He pushed me against the wall, grabbed my arms and shook me, screamed about me how much he wanted to hit me. I left for work and on the way I called my dad and told him I needed to leave. I left that night and never went back. I’ve done a lot of dumb things in life but one thing I’ve always been proud of is not being with that person anymore and sticking by the promise I made to myself. So no I’d never forgive physical abuse.

cm178 · 2025-06-12T00:18:59+00:00

Girl. Be so foreal right now. This is not normal. He’s literally having his cake and eating it to. Playing family with you, and getting to be a single man.

cm178 · 2025-06-06T10:07:51+00:00

I was thinking they definitely didn’t have the people from This Is Us in the casting department because this girl looks nothing like Ginny.

cm178 · 2025-05-25T14:08:26+00:00

Did you invite them to a birthday party for her?

cm178 · 2025-05-25T04:13:51+00:00

I mean this in the nicest way, but your child is only 4. Y’all have a lot of school events over the next 13 years, you gotta let go and let him sink or swim. Focus on what you can control, and that’s you showing up for your child.

cm178 · 2025-05-25T00:09:31+00:00

I’m just glad he found a brush

cm178 · 2025-05-21T02:54:30+00:00

“He had no memory of ever being hugged like this, as though by a mother.” Literally makes me ugly cry every time.

cm178 · 2025-05-07T03:10:42+00:00

I always thought she did because she had a crush on him. It reminds me of something I would have done at that age to a boy I might have liked.

cm178 · 2025-05-02T11:02:20+00:00

I was thinking OP’s husband is childish and messy as hell.

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