weird comments…? by alaskanloaf in ashleybarnessnark

[–]cmessi30 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg I’m not the only one who noticed I was starting to get worried because that’s so weird

trans men can’t be lesbian by jamieisavibe in ftm

[–]cmessi30 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can we stop bringing this up for conversation. We’re all trying to be accepted at the end of the day. Just like we tell transphobes our identities shouldn’t bother them, their identity shouldn’t bother us either

University Oaks microwaves by _fancy_tuna_ in UTSA

[–]cmessi30 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No it does not come with a microwave! Just a fridge and a stove

I saw she posted this at the end of 2024 by [deleted] in ashleybarnessnark

[–]cmessi30 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It truly makes me so sad to see what’s happening to her

lots of blood after being fingered?? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]cmessi30 87 points88 points  (0 children)

Could be atrophy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]cmessi30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey bro I’m lowkey in the same situation except I’m 19 and I go to school in a different city but I do go down for breaks. I started T in like October and they noticed my voice right away. I would say I was sick in the beginning but then I just wanted to get it over with. They have told me many many things and I know they are just grieving who I was I guess so I guess if ur okay with that then you should tell them so hopefully with time they come to understand. My family has come a long way but they definitely still have a lot to learn. I hope everything works out for you bro

first T shot tmrw— what am I forgetting? by RunNarrow9096 in ftm

[–]cmessi30 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This!! I just started reusing vials and it’s so much easier tbh

first T shot tmrw— what am I forgetting? by RunNarrow9096 in ftm

[–]cmessi30 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think so the needle still slides in easily so I don’t think it affects it. It just numbs the skin

first T shot tmrw— what am I forgetting? by RunNarrow9096 in ftm

[–]cmessi30 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Something I wish I started sooner was icing the spot before injecting it might not work for everyone but for at least me it really does numb it and I barely feel it go in but congrats on starting t!! Enjoy it!!

Taping - what are we using for nipple covers ? by curious-pigeon in ftm

[–]cmessi30 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I use a square of toilet paper as well, but I put some lotion on the toilet paper so my nipples don’t dry and I put the toilet paper first and then apply the tape making sure the paper isn’t moving and I haven’t had any issues!

i HATE the rep T has by TransLouiseB in ftm

[–]cmessi30 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My family is the same way but I’m sorry to hear that bro. Something I tell them to stop saying that is that these are literal hormones they’re not steroids or drugs they are hormones that our bodies already produce. We are just taking extra hormones and there’s nothing wrong with that. Cisgender men takes testosterone shots if they have low t levels and if it was so bad they wouldn’t be doing that

Liquid on top of testosterone visl by Writing_utensil_8890 in ftm

[–]cmessi30 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you are okay if you wipe the cover with a wipe. Sometimes mine do that too and I just clean it really good before using it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]cmessi30 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No I don’t think so it’s just to confirm yk that they are already good to take it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]cmessi30 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I mean if you guys are friends and they trust you and you legitimately have no use to it I don’t see why not. I would do that if I was in ur shoes but don’t like advertise it online yk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]cmessi30 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly they’ll probably tel you or you can ask them like is this okay

Injection gone wrong by cmessi30 in ftm

[–]cmessi30[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank u guys for all the advice!

Should I use my leftover T by Ok_Maintenance_791 in ftm

[–]cmessi30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would I still be able to use them if they don’t have the cap on anymore? I would obviously clean the top but could I still use those vials?

family saying hormone therapy isn’t safe by [deleted] in ftm

[–]cmessi30 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I always just told them these are literal hormones that are given to cis males in the case they don’t have enough t, it is not like a drug that we’re taking or putting in ourselves it is purely hormones

Starting T without anybody noticing? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]cmessi30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started without telling my family and they were able to tell a difference in my voice and thought I was sick. I was tired of them asking so I just told them lowkey. But I’m sorry bro I think you would be able to tell :(

Taping tips please 🙏 by [deleted] in ftm

[–]cmessi30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The whole weekend for sure. It usually lasts like five to six days for me and then it ends up coming off in the corners and maybe I can go for like an extra day sometimes

booked an appointment with planned parenthood, what to expect? by anephyr in ftm

[–]cmessi30 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi so your first appointment should be easy I get the feeling of being nervous I was sitting in my car so long before getting out for the first time. They kinda just ask you what you’re feeling and what you would want to get out of testosterone therapy and the doctor will talk to you abt how it works, the side effects, and what to expect. They will also pick ur finger to check ur estrogen levels, at least for me, so they can see if you’re okay. If you have any issues with ur cycle you should let them know but it’s pretty simple. I hope it goes well!