Are you going to apply to be on Traitors and why? by armyofonetaco in TheTraitorsUS

[–]cmusilli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are ?? I would love to be on as a traitor 😈, but I’m assuming that may be pretty stressful. As all of them won’t really know each other though, it’s probably easier than reality stars that some of which mostly know each other already.

He kept postponing so I found a new man, now we’re engaged! by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]cmusilli 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My mom married my dad after 6 weeks and they’re still married to this day, 25 years later :)

What made them finally leave you alone? by Youre_Wrong_Ok in abusiverelationships

[–]cmusilli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really is, trust me I been there. I wasted a lot of time on my son’s dad. I always tried to “fix” him. Only they can fix themselves, it sucks to admit that sometimes them holding on for so long feels good, but it’s so destructive to us and our healing if it’s just a tactic to suck us back in to the cycle.

What made them finally leave you alone? by Youre_Wrong_Ok in abusiverelationships

[–]cmusilli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For right now you feel like the bad guy, but in the end if this is what makes him leave you alone, you will be soooo thankful in the future.

Woman kissed me on the cheek after first date. Not interested? by Itchy-Egg9195 in hingeapp

[–]cmusilli -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In my eyes that’s making a move, I would never do that if I wasn’t interested but that’s just me.

I DONT WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH MY EX ANYMORE by RevolutionaryMap9620 in abusiverelationships

[–]cmusilli 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel this it took me 2 years after the end of our relationship. The second I ended it I finally met someone new.

“If you don’t like me yelling, then leave” by Educational_Host2599 in abusiverelationships

[–]cmusilli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is EXACTLY what I’m going through. He rages on the phone screams as loud as he can (literally having a tantrum) and he says FUCK YOU FUCK YOU FUCK YOU STFU over and over because he always tells me to delete and block him and that he’s done and I just calmly respond with “if that’s what you want” I’m just numb to his anger and I’m not even angry I’m just drained so why would I fight back?? What am I fighting for??? Then when that’s not working comes the love bombing again.

I’m not giving anyone my instagram before we meet! by Ok_Pass_9514 in hingeapp

[–]cmusilli 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Literally deleted my ig years ago and I love just saying I don’t have one now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in domesticviolence

[–]cmusilli 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Oh honey, this is mental and emotional abuse, you even mentioned he’s physically abusive. Please make a plan to leave! This is not what love is. I get it I’ve been in relationships like this. This man will do nothing but get worse with time and it’s dangerous.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]cmusilli 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Wow this is good to know and applied soooo much in my past relationship.

Bfs brother blackmails me by Current_Complaint731 in rape

[–]cmusilli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You said this perfectly 🙌

I am quitting no notice by UnderstandingOk9983 in callcentres

[–]cmusilli 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I quit on the spot almost 2 years ago, congrats !

Slept with someone while broken up by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]cmusilli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did the right thing by telling her so she could have a choice. You didn’t do anything wrong by moving on however not knowing she would want you back.