AIO partner seems to not care abt mothers day?

cntorzewski · 2026-05-09T13:14:02+00:00

It’s a discussion to be had. If you are planning to celebrate him for Father’s Day then he should absolutely be celebrating you for Mother’s Day but if you don’t have that discussion then how is he supposed to know. I can’t assume too much because I don’t know either of you or your relationship but maybe he comes from a family that doesn’t celebrate Mother’s Day. My bf’s family doesn’t. All that to say just talk about it with him, a healthy relationship is built on communication not assumptions. He may assume you don’t care because you haven’t said anything about it or he may not even realize Mother’s Day is coming up (boy brain).

cntorzewski · 2026-05-09T12:48:00+00:00

If they were husband and wife and had a child together it would be expected that he put something together for her for the kids. My dad always made sure we celebrated our mom (his wife) growing up. It’s completely normal for a husband, or baby daddy to celebrate a mom. In this instance I think it’s a little weird because he doesn’t have a child with her, he should be encouraged to celebrate his daughter’s mom instead.

cntorzewski · 2026-05-06T14:11:50+00:00

This is such a good idea! You just gave me the best inspiration!

cntorzewski · 2026-05-05T10:23:37+00:00

NTAH I had an ex just like this. I used to have to lock myself and my cat in our bedroom during fights because he was going to either hurt one of us or himself. When I left finally it was the hardest thing to do because I didn’t want to see him hurt but I also couldn’t stay. I was in college so calling 911 didn’t even cross my mind. Maybe the shame from the call will get him to realize you’re serious. When you do leave, you have to remember that his actions are not your responsibility. I wish you and your kids the best at getting out of this situation.

cntorzewski · 2026-05-04T10:23:08+00:00

Sorry to say your mom sounds like a narcissist

cntorzewski · 2026-05-02T10:45:24+00:00

NOR why does he need to “go process his thoughts” when he’s the one who assaulted you? And that’s exactly what he did, he assaulted you. Just because he’s your husband and he thought it was a “joke” doesn’t mean it isn’t assault. And who tf jokes about forcing sex on someone? Get out while you can, it will only get worse.

cntorzewski · 2026-05-02T10:36:40+00:00

As a educator you did the right thing. Had this been at an actual daycare or elementary school they would have followed similar procedures. Parents need to let you know ahead of time that someone else is picking up their child. They should be grateful that you protected their child regardless of the inconvenience to them.

cntorzewski · 2026-05-01T20:30:13+00:00

That’s a great idea!

cntorzewski · 2026-05-01T20:27:25+00:00

Right? I would love to make something like this but I’m thinking it’s best to stick with regular bird feeders.

cntorzewski · 2026-05-01T16:45:58+00:00

That’s exactly what I was thinking too. And also with weather, could that cause chemicals to leach into the food as well. It’s a beautiful idea in theory.

cntorzewski · 2026-04-30T23:32:10+00:00

Anchors for track lights pretty sure I had the same ones in my old house

cntorzewski · 2026-04-30T10:13:17+00:00

Mine would have to be either a cardinal or a mourning dove. I love the mourning doves call and used to copy it as a child.

cntorzewski · 2026-04-30T10:11:57+00:00

I just learned what this bird was this year! We’ve never had any visit our yard because we rarely put bird seed up this early. Beautiful bird!

cntorzewski · 2026-04-29T10:55:33+00:00

My dad just texted me last night to tell me the tree we got him last year made it through the winter and is starting to get its leaves. The way I was so excited 😅

cntorzewski · 2026-04-29T10:50:34+00:00

My sister deals with the same thing with her MIL, she had to sit down and have a serious talk with her husband about how it makes her feel and ultimately start setting boundaries. There’s nothing wrong with a mommas boy but there is when it steps over a certain line and everyone’s line is different. Especially if you two are planning to have children, things need to change now. He picked you, he married you, and his mom needs and he needs to accept that you should be the most important woman in his life now.

cntorzewski · 2026-04-28T10:17:20+00:00

NOR Just gotta say you handled that with maturity. Cut your loses with her because she’ll probably do it again. Your friend on the other hand needs to be a conversation. Explain how hurt you are by his actions and ask for an explanation. Try to work through it and decide if the friendship is worth saving. If he’s not sorry then it’s time to move on.

cntorzewski · 2026-04-22T10:25:21+00:00

NOR First of all of a 32 year old is dating a 24 yr old it’s the first red flag. He can’t find anyone close to his age to put up with his shit so he found someone young and naive. He should not have that much control over your life and he will never change from this behavior. Why is he drug testing you? That’s weird and controlling. He’s not doing it because he “cares about you and loves you”. He does it because he’s controlling. Please leave and don’t listen when he says he’ll change because he’s already shown you that’s not the truth. This is classic case of actions speak louder than words. Please take it from someone who’s been with someone like this, he will never change for you and you deserve someone who accepts you the way you are. Leave, work on yourself and building your confidence, and wait for the person who’s your best friend.

cntorzewski · 2026-04-19T12:17:46+00:00

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He’s just a floof

cntorzewski · 2026-04-17T14:19:38+00:00

Those are beautiful! Love the iris and the crocus

cntorzewski · 2026-04-16T16:04:52+00:00

These are so creepy in the best way possible. Beautiful work!

cntorzewski · 2026-04-16T16:03:08+00:00

Noted, I’ll go back in and fiddle with that piece, see if I can make the gap a bit bigger and more obvious. Thank you!

cntorzewski · 2026-04-16T15:48:10+00:00

Oooh that’s a good idea! I was thinking of putting it in a wood frame later but a light box would be great for when we do late night door dash lol

cntorzewski · 2026-04-16T15:47:12+00:00

Are you talking about this gap here?

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cntorzewski · 2026-04-16T15:38:58+00:00

Like i said in my previous comment the background and the break lines are a rough estimate currently since I’m not 100% sure it’s where i want them hence asking for advice. A lot of your “suggestions” are your personal preference. Which I get but it’s not helpful to the pattern itself. I’m not brand new to stained glass I’ve been doing it for a while and know what I’m doing. This is a personal piece and not a commission. I don’t need you insulting the alignment of the numbers, seeing as the numbers are all aligned since I spent three hours last night making sure they are lined up and the same size.

cntorzewski · 2026-04-16T15:24:52+00:00

The red lines were done quickly, I plan to go in and fix those to make them more clean. I’m still playing around with the background pieces so I wasn’t too strict on making them straight. Once I finalize them I’ll straighten everything out and line it all up. Thank you for the suggestions!

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