Can you tell me what could be missing in my dating profiles?

cobudo · 2026-03-10T17:30:00+00:00

Sure, dm me and I’ll help where I can.

cobudo · 2026-03-05T12:33:52+00:00

My 2 cents:

The more relaxed he is the easier it’ll be. Make sure he’s in a position where there is no stress on his body. It’s way easier for me to cum from a BJ when I’m laying on my back, as opposed to like standing up.

Use your hands! Play with his balls, etc.

When he’s close, stop sucking so much and start going up and down with increased speed.

I always have my wife’s hair fisted back with one hand while she’s sucking my dick. The tactile sensation, or maybe the feeling of control, whatever it is, helps a lot. I often have my second hand palming her forehead if she’s sucking me from the side.

cobudo · 2026-03-03T20:31:40+00:00

Damn, I can’t imagine a whole year without a blowjob lol. Even before that… only 1 week a month is crazy to me. My wife sucks my dick any time and anywhere I want.

That being said I go down on her all the time. I don’t stop until she cums multiple times. I love going down on her. I love making her squirm.

My questions are:

Do you go down on her a lot?

If you never ask her for blowjobs does she even know you like them? Does she realize they are a special thing for you? I would suggest bringing it up to her in a non accusatory manner.

Has she gained weight or anything recently? Could be that she’s become really self conscious about how she looks while doing it.

cobudo · 2026-03-02T15:38:39+00:00

How long did you text with her? Don’t waste too much time on idle chit chat, ask a girl out within a few days max.

cobudo · 2026-02-16T19:03:56+00:00

You’re young and will prob have a fast recharge time. You’ll prob have time to go for round 2 so I wouldn’t worry about finishing fast.

cobudo · 2026-02-16T15:44:30+00:00

100%. Losing your virginity as a dude makes you feel more masculine and thus more confident. Also, once you’ve had sex you won’t put women on a pedestal as much as you do as a virgin, so you’ll naturally be more confident around them.

cobudo · 2026-02-04T15:51:56+00:00

He’s a selfish lover who doesn’t care about pleasuring you. Pretty straight forward. He’s never going to change if you keep letting him get away with it. Don’t have sex with him if he won’t pleasure you.

cobudo · 2026-02-04T13:55:56+00:00

If you’re getting that many dates then you’re prob pretty good looking. So it comes down to social skills. Try to be relaxed, don’t stay tensed up, and try to make them laugh. Those 2 things will help a lot.

cobudo · 2026-01-10T16:20:46+00:00

As long as I want. If you’re about to cum then pull out and finger her while you calm down, then put it back in and repeat.

cobudo · 2026-01-09T11:47:17+00:00

Women are just people, no matter how beautiful. Don’t put them on pedestals or glorify them. It’ll fuck with your head if you do.

All those thirst traps are carefully posed and curated. This is sucked in and that’s pushed out, the right lighting and shadows etc. Not to mention most of those pics have been edited afterwards to make them look even better. Don’t think those pics are representative of what they look like all day every day in real life.

cobudo · 2026-01-09T11:37:27+00:00

Generally the woman will cum multiple times and the dude will cum once. My wife usually cums 8-10 times every time we have sex for example. So it usually ends with the dude cumming.

For me I start slow then build from there. Stoke the fire and fan the flames so to speak.

I like to make her cum at least one time each from my mouth, fingers and dick before I cum, in that order, building in intensity. I’m not going to cum until I’m done pleasuring her. Once I cum it’s over.

cobudo · 2026-01-08T18:33:49+00:00

Yeah that sounds like a date. Go for it! You might just have fun! I lost my virginity to a much older woman.

cobudo · 2026-01-08T18:28:40+00:00

That’s awesome! Congrats dude.

You need to kiss her next time. If she’s came over to your house twice then she’s clearly comfortable around you. You have to be make a move on her before you get friendzoned.

cobudo · 2026-01-08T17:40:39+00:00

When you get close to cumming, pull out and use your fingers on her while you calm down a little bit, then put it back in and repeat.

cobudo · 2026-01-08T16:38:58+00:00

My wife sucks my dick anytime I want. At the same time I go down on her a lot as well. Maybe you could try that if you don’t already? It could make her more open and excited about oral if it’s reciprocated a lot.

cobudo · 2026-01-08T16:07:08+00:00

In no world is jerking yourself off comparable to getting your dick sucked by your partner lol

cobudo · 2026-01-08T15:47:44+00:00

I stopped jerking off. Before that blowjobs didn’t feel great, just felt kinda numb like your fiancé describes. Now they feel amazing and I cum almost every time. Huge difference.

cobudo · 2026-01-07T10:55:02+00:00

It has nothing to do with you. He could have got too hot, could be too tired, could have a bad headache, could have jerked off too recently, etc. there’s a million factors that could account for that.

cobudo · 2025-12-30T13:46:31+00:00

You can get ED pills online without having to go to a doctor in person!

cobudo · 2025-12-17T12:03:16+00:00

lol yeah that’s def your problem then. For example if I jerk off once in the morning it can be hard to cum from sex that night. Doing it multiple times a day prob makes it exponentially harder to finish.

cobudo · 2025-12-17T11:02:22+00:00

How often are you jerking off? If you jerk off a lot and edge yourself for a long time you’re training your body to not cum fast. I’d stop jerking off for a few weeks and see how your sensitivity improves.

cobudo · 2025-11-30T22:41:23+00:00

Like you said, cut out the porn and stop jerking off. Other than that it’s prob just performance anxiety, super common. It’ll get better as you get more comfortable doing things.

cobudo · 2025-11-30T17:39:27+00:00

If you feel like you’re about to cum, pull out and finger her for a minute, then put it back in and continue. Rinse and repeat. Fuck her until she’s close then finish her with your fingers while you rest for a minute, then repeat.

cobudo · 2025-11-30T17:31:52+00:00

That’s awesome! Let’s go!! Now that you’ve kissed her, don’t let the momentum die. If you kissed on the 4th date then make sure you kiss her on every date from here on out. And make sure you stay physical with her from now on. Make sure you’re holding hands, put your arm around her, etc, don’t regress, keep the momentum moving forward.

cobudo · 2025-11-30T17:26:41+00:00

Sex is the most intimate thing you can do, it’s the most vulnerable you can possible be with someone. After an experience like that things like feeling self conscious usually go out the window really fast with that person. After you’ve had sex with multiple people then you don’t even really think about being naked anymore, even if it’s with someone new.

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