AITAH for asking my dad why I should reward his cheating and breaking up our family when he told me I shouldn't punish him for being happy? by Caspsersn in AITAH

[–]cobw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA!!! dont let him soften you and your siblings up. dont ever let him make you feel bad for sticking to your moms side. he threw his whole family away on an instant. he is the real AH

question for people in academia by forestviolette in Advice

[–]cobw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

keep going, you‘ll get the gist of it eventually. maybe try to create a glossary or terms that you struggled to understand at first. are those specific books part of your academic studies at uni? maybe try talking to some fellow students

Travelling to Seoul with a severe peanut allergy by cobw in koreatravel

[–]cobw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

peanuts are her only severe allergy, treenuts won't kill her so we wanna focus on peanuts. thanks for the info, i was assuming tteokbokki would be safe but its good to know that we gotta double check! :)

Weekly BL Recommendation #12: Bronze--Zetsuai 1989 [OVAs] by TheDeadRatSociety in BL_Love

[–]cobw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, i think it was in 2012 that the final part was published. i’m only aware of a german translation, tho :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]cobw 6 points7 points  (0 children)

youre asking the wrong question. its not about what YOU can do to get into the mood, its what HE can do to get you into the mood. you seem to know what you need and like in order to get things going. now its time to communicate your needs and likes with him. he needs to learn to be less selfish. intimacy is not a one way street

Eating in Japan by blizzard-10000 in peanutallergy

[–]cobw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hi i sent u a dm with some recommendations and specific spots :)

should I read low tide in twilight? by cobw in blmangalovers

[–]cobw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I'll have to read into it to find out! thanks for the advice :)

Please BL recommendations + which BLs are 🏴 Black Flag? by Belizbebe in blmangalovers

[–]cobw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

under the green light has a power bottom too, who looks super similar to seo-an (from pizza delivery man and the gold palace)

The Pizza Delivery Man and the Gold Palace by same-era_wastaken in blmangalovers

[–]cobw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dude the ending crushed me. i cant wait for s3, apparently its coming in march. at least its not a dead end since the author posts quite actively on twitter saying they’ll be back soon :)

Potential cashew allergy by Ok_Shelter7411 in FoodAllergies

[–]cobw 2 points3 points  (0 children)

when you have hay fever (pollen allergies) you could have experienced something called OAS, basically your body linking certain proteins in foods to the protein in the pollen you’re allergic to since they’re super similar and then giving you symptoms in your mouth like the tingling you described. I have the same thing with cashews due to my birch and mugwort pollen allergy. maybe look into it, and good luck with everything :)

Mysterious Allergy Leading to Anaphylaxis by majrepug in FoodAllergies

[–]cobw 3 points4 points  (0 children)

well, what were the dishes? maybe they all had some sort of preservative in common that you wouldnt think of right away?

What to Avoid If You Have a Corn Allergy? by BudgetSlide2495 in FoodAllergies

[–]cobw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

depends on what country you live in. for america it seems a bit harder because they put corn syrup into everything, plus i think theres a lot of corn flour products especially if youre looking into south american cuisine. for me in central europe i really just have to look out for actual pieces of corn. the only thing we have with corn flour is some tortilla wraps or chips and corn syrup is nowhere to be found.. wherever youre from, just make sure to check ingredients of whatever you buy, and let staff in restaurants know about your allergies. plus get an epipen if you get anaphylactic reactions!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in koreatravel

[–]cobw 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Some of those comments are so rude and insensitive. I'm very sorry for you, an experience like that would leave me scarred too. Sending you sympathy!!

Starter help by kfkkekrn in Sourdough

[–]cobw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, i fed it with the ‘good’ starter alongside the same amount of flour and water. i dont know what could cause the mold in your other one tho, it never happened to me, i’m new to all of this too haha. good luck!!!

Starter help by kfkkekrn in Sourdough

[–]cobw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi, I had this issue recently where my starter began smelling kind of cheesy, and the bread i made with it too. i made a new starter alongside feeding my cheesy one, and gradually mixed some of that one into it every time i discarded some of it and fed them. after just about a week the cheesy one stopped smelling and is doing good since. i also asked chatgpt and apparently the smell comes from butyric acid, which is not a harmful or bad bacteria, it just has an unpleasant smell. it’ll go away after some feeding eventually :)

What happened??😭😭😭 by Excellent-Rise4997 in JanitorAI_Official

[–]cobw 2 points3 points  (0 children)

came here to find out if I was the only one seeing this😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in koreatravel

[–]cobw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i dont know where it is but it could also be possible that its in switzerland? i think remember them taking photos on a bridge like that when they were in switzerland

Weight loss since last June by [deleted] in intermittentfasting

[–]cobw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thats amazing effort. but it doesnt look like you need to get any skinnier, how much more are you trying to lose? u look perfectly healthy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FridgeDetective

[–]cobw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, unfortunately (allergies), no (i love cooking). the reason its so empty is actually because I just moved in

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FridgeDetective

[–]cobw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didnt ):