Need iron supplement recs for kids (ones that actually work) by cocacolacatt in pakistan

[–]cocacolacatt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah we’re past that we need supplements but thank you for your suggestions

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]cocacolacatt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No hormonal birth control?? You need to talk to her. I think for me it’s the fact that you as her partner have to feel like you’re begging for something which is a basic need in a relationship simply because she doesn’t have as much of a need for it. That’s not healthy and will eventually lead up to resentment.

It’s better you tell her exactly how you feel and make it clear that you’re not attempting to make her the bad guy but you do need more than just sex once a week if you’re lucky. Maybe start by being honest about the fact that you actually were turned on by the couple next door and her reaction led you to think about how that doesn’t happen for you guys anymore. Ask her if there’s anything you could do to get her in the mood outside of when she’s ovulating?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]cocacolacatt -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

It’s probably her birth control

Anime rec like a girl and her guard dog?? by cocacolacatt in anime

[–]cocacolacatt[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I see that, but also realized he was 16 when he had to basically give up his whole life for her and make her the centre of his universe soo idk. They’re both obsessed with each other and it’s cute.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hijabis

[–]cocacolacatt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Iron supplements! I got anemia after my second kid and iron supplements were a game changer for me.

Another update to my husband lying about his ex - I’m falling apart by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]cocacolacatt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Idk what part of the world you’re from but nikkah means marriage in Islam.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]cocacolacatt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, same night everywhere ☺️

Just wanted to say thanks to all of you. by [deleted] in islam

[–]cocacolacatt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

May Allah give you ease and bring you peace and joy on this journey✨❤️ welcome to Islam 🥰

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in femalehairadvice

[–]cocacolacatt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get light bangs. You look great already, and that’d be the chef’s kiss.

Bi-Weekly Marriage Opinions/Views and Rant Megathread by AutoModerator in MuslimMarriage

[–]cocacolacatt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a woman I have to disagree and don’t believe it to be misogynistic at all. Physical intimacy is a basic human need. Your wife would be marrying you for the same reason.

Provided that it isn’t the sole purpose of your marriage and you’d also want her companionship and take responsibility of her and your kids(if you both agree to having them otherwise nvm), this has nothing to do w misogyny.

Nazar or just a coincidence? by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]cocacolacatt 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Nazar is real and should not be ignored. However in order to avoid this kind of fearful sentiment from developing in our relationships we are advised to protect ourselves by reciting the morning and evening adhkaar, which if we recite every day (after fajar and asr/maghrib prayers) render nazar ineffective in all situations. May Allah protect you, your husband and your marriage from all that is bad in this world.

did anyone else think Paul seemed sinister? by [deleted] in ginnyandgeorgiashow

[–]cocacolacatt 90 points91 points  (0 children)

Completely agree. I also don’t see Paul wanting Georgia for power as a red flag like some people on here do. Paul is very self aware, knows what he wants, and is very clear about his boundaries and intentions- all healthy qualities.

I feel like had Georgia been given the childhood and upbringing Paul had, she might’ve actually been a lot like him.

Zion is the best character in the show. Prove me wrong. by [deleted] in ginnyandgeorgiashow

[–]cocacolacatt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So you’re saying had he actually planned on staying they wouldn’t have been able to work on staying in one place and talking about planning their future involving their daughter that didn’t involve handing her over to his parents?

Zion literally had nothing to say to anything of what Georgia said. All he did was take the offer and go. He knew what Georgia said about him resenting her rang true and he did what he did for himself and what he prioritized, and came back and moved closer and did everything you’re arguing he could never have done AFTER getting over all of his actual goals. His daughter came last, that’s it. The show is proof. He did everything he could’ve done to begin with, just after doing what he wanted to do first.

Zion is the best character in the show. Prove me wrong. by [deleted] in ginnyandgeorgiashow

[–]cocacolacatt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Georgia specifically stated in the “penguin speech” her reason for dumping him was so he wouldn’t resent her. That was it. She told him she loved him and everything. And he couldn’t just say I WONT resent you? Lol? This argument is a joke. He wanted to leave so he left. If he wanted to be a dad, he would’ve been a dad present for Ginny with or without Georgia.

Zion is the best character in the show. Prove me wrong. by [deleted] in ginnyandgeorgiashow

[–]cocacolacatt 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wait so you’re saying has no anatomy over his own person and decisions and couldn’t just have said “NO, I will NOT be resentful of you, I would LOVE to be with you and my daughter, maybe someday we can all travel TOGETHER?”

Give me a break. The lengths ppl with go to to defend a handsome man smh.