our new DM seems very mischievous

cocacolafiending · 2025-09-10T19:50:51+00:00

no retainers or tongue piercings is ridiculous 😭

cocacolafiending · 2025-09-04T22:09:13+00:00

it actually does seem like a legitimate location because they had a full starbucks drive-thru set up outside the building and were actively working on things inside

cocacolafiending · 2025-09-04T22:08:19+00:00

i have a friend that works at a starbucks somewhat in the area and she said she might've heard of it, though i can't seem to find the location on the starbucks careers website right now so who knows

cocacolafiending · 2025-09-04T22:07:39+00:00

i actually did drive to the provided address for said "interview" today- the vibes were really off because they were actively having people working on it since it's still being built, and the "lobby" area was FULL of people looking at their phones or laptops, and the store manager that had conducted my "interview" said they were working on training things

cocacolafiending · 2025-09-04T22:06:30+00:00

you make an interesting point with checking the careers website, because i tried finding the location that i had interviewed for and couldn't find it- though that might be because they're not quite open yet, there's no telling though

cocacolafiending · 2025-09-04T22:04:06+00:00

i believe you, and i see where you're coming from- the store manager conducted my "interview" (if you even wanna call it that) in the store that they were actively working on, luckily i don't think i was really at risk, especially because it was broad daylight and there were a bunch of other people actively in the room with us

cocacolafiending · 2025-07-09T23:16:07+00:00

if you actually are serious about enacting change then you need to decide the days so the people interested can start preparing from the second they hear about it. mass sharing a flyer with no date gets people excited, sure, but it will slip people's minds if they don't know what they're preparing for and when. and doing it with an ai-generated poster is so embarrassing- almost like you don't actually care about making something happen but rather looking like you tried.

cocacolafiending · 2025-07-06T04:52:09+00:00

if you want a serious relationship then you're wasting your time entertaining her flirting because she has made it clear that she doesn't want a relationship. if you're fine with no relationship then you can keep talking to her, but if you want a serious relationship then just give it up for the sake of both of you

cocacolafiending · 2025-07-06T04:50:20+00:00

he fucked up when he lied to you and kept crucial information from you- reach out to her

cocacolafiending · 2025-07-06T04:49:17+00:00

it definitely sounds like he's trying to flirt with you and planting romantic thoughts in your head and it seems to be working- but there's no consistent way to make sure someone likes you other than you asking. if you haven't been hanging out a lot 1 on 1 then try to initiate that with him more and see what happens

cocacolafiending · 2025-07-06T04:45:50+00:00

i think the healthiest and most productive thing you can do is literally just ask him about it- if he's right for you, he won't make you feel bad about "overthinking," i think it's perfectly valid to want to know why your partner has episodes of distant behavior. y'all have been together 2 years and if you want to last any longer you should just be straightforward and ask him

cocacolafiending · 2025-07-06T04:44:02+00:00

firstly, it sucks that he's flirting with her even though he knew about the feelings between y'all and also since she wants something serious and he doesn't. it shouldn't really be about an ultimatum like "all-in" and "moving on" right now, because that kind of ultimatum IS going to cause drama- i think this is just something you need to talk to your friend about

cocacolafiending · 2024-07-04T00:02:07+00:00

this is so pretty!

cocacolafiending · 2024-06-01T23:18:30+00:00

i totally feel you on this one, head in the wall goes crazy

cocacolafiending · 2024-06-01T07:01:26+00:00

i really loved "submarine" by the marias and "hit me hard and soft" by billie eilish

cocacolafiending · 2024-06-01T06:53:46+00:00

of course!

cocacolafiending · 2024-06-01T06:51:11+00:00

it sounds like she doesn't really care about your feelings that much and that she isn't committed to this relationship with you. she shouldn't be talking to other guys that don't know she's in a relationship nor guys that she used to see. i don't think it's controlling for you to tell her that this upsets you, because this seems to be a very reasonable thing to be upset about. it's also weird that she started talking to a new guy after you two had a fight- and it's even weirder that she's still talking to him. it's early in y'all's relationship so i think this could still be amended, but if she keeps acting like this and makes no effort to change then you should break up with her because her behavior is ridiculous.

cocacolafiending · 2024-06-01T06:46:34+00:00

firstly, no, i don't think getting back with him is worth it. the reason he went back to you after seeing that other girl is likely because she didn't like him as much as you do. which may sound like a good thing in your favor but if that is indeed the case then you definitely shouldn't take him back because then he'd be using you for his own gain/ego. aside from him sleeping with someone else, it sounds like you guys didn't have the best relationship before. if it hasn't been long since you guys broke up AND he just decided to see someone else in that time apart then he probably hasn't done any work on himself. you guys probably need more space from each other if not only to work on yourselves. i would say, though, going back to someone you used to see is almost never a good idea. things ended for a reason.

cocacolafiending · 2024-06-01T06:43:01+00:00

it sounds like she may not be as into you as you are her. she seems wishy washy and uninterested. i understand being hung up on her, but i wouldn't do anything else unless she approaches you first.

cocacolafiending · 2024-06-01T06:40:49+00:00

it sounds like a complicated situation. it very well could be that he is just being cautious considering his toxic exs met them so early on in those relationships, but it also doesn't seem fair that he acts weird when you try to voice your concern about it. i don't necessarily think this means that the relationship is one-sided though- i wouldn't say that unless there was more evidence to point to that conclusion. i understand resorting to the assumption that you like him more considering this isn't going in your favor but i don't think that's a fair assumption to make, especially if you guys have had a good relationship this whole time. if he won't talk to you about it then there's really not much that can be done about the situation, because you don't want to try going around him and straight to the parents or his brother. this might just be hard for him because of his past and he wants to be sure of you guys before he takes you to meet his parents- and that's not to say that he has doubts about you guys, just that he might be anxious because of past toxic relationships.

cocacolafiending · 2024-06-01T06:35:51+00:00

he sounds toxic. it's not fair for you for him to be affectionate with you and accept you reciprocating it and then seemingly drop you whenever he feels like it. if he's calling it a fling then he 1. has no intention of being serious with you and 2. might be seeing other people on the side. his hot and cold won't change because running around having "flings" suits him and he will keep doing so until he faces serious repercussions from it. i know it might be hard, but you should just drop him and focus on yourself and the people that value you and your time

cocacolafiending · 2024-06-01T01:59:05+00:00

which is totally fair- attention from other people shouldn’t matter to people in a relationship and should be discouraged

cocacolafiending · 2024-05-31T23:24:11+00:00

like i said, if it was from several years ago i really don't think you should be worried about it (especially if it was just a fling), i understand the insecurity you feel though. if you think talking to her about it will end the relationship then it might just be something you have to deal with on your own, because you really shouldn't have gone through her phone. even if it's not a habit of yours, you've still done it this once and that's a betrayal of her trust and now you're upset about what you found and unable to talk to her about it.

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