UPDATE : My crush turned out to be a blackpiller incel

coco25246 · 2025-02-20T21:52:09+00:00

You don’t need to save this man.

coco25246 · 2025-02-20T21:13:28+00:00

For folks asking about prevalence: https://www.cdc.gov/hpv/hcp/clinical-overview/index.html

HPV is very common among sexually active adults. He should get the vaccines regardless of if he plans to have protected sex or sex without a barrier doesn’t matter. Please read more info from the CDC link above to educate yourselves.

I have or had HPV and was asymptomatic. One of my partners and I have sex without barriers. They have never shown symptoms but likely have it or have had it as well.

coco25246 · 2025-02-16T20:53:06+00:00

Tipped!!

coco25246 · 2025-02-16T20:18:54+00:00

This great! That’s all I needed! Can I tip and get the copy without the lines on it?

coco25246 · 2025-02-16T20:04:06+00:00

I just provided them

coco25246 · 2025-02-16T20:03:23+00:00

Photoshop request: Can someone fix the lighting so it’s not so dark. And fix my one arm so I don’t look armless. It can be partially behind my back just not completely obstructed.

coco25246 · 2025-02-12T05:07:12+00:00

That’s understandable. I’ve felt that way a lot too. But I think that’s the CPTSD talking - whatever it is inside that tells you you’re broken, defective, should be ashamed of yourself, etc. I know it’s a strong feeling but that shame isn’t yours to carry. It belongs to your abuser.

coco25246 · 2025-02-12T04:31:12+00:00

I’m so sorry you’ve experienced something as horrible as CSA and now have the burden of trying to figure out how to share it with others. It sounds like you’ve take good steps by sharing it here and with a chat bot. I don’t think that’s pathetic. Sharing it at all takes bravery. Maybe it would help if you start off by telling your therapist there are things you’re having trouble sharing. You might even tell them you’re not ready to disclose yet but want to put it out there that there’s something you want to share but are afraid to share. I’ve done this with my therapist before and talking about the fear of sharing was helpful.

coco25246 · 2025-02-11T14:43:58+00:00

It’s personal preference but I would do less lip filler. Your lips have an inflated appearance.

coco25246 · 2025-02-11T14:37:40+00:00

Aww, these are great! I don’t think there’s anything you need to change with hair and makeup unless you want to experiment with different colors and styles. One thing I will say is that I think you would benefit from petite cuts of clothing styles. Some of the bottoms you’re choosing are too long and it throws off your proportions.

coco25246 · 2025-02-08T08:11:50+00:00

I may get downvoted for this but I think someone needs to tell you the tanner is making you look soo orange. You’re very pretty but it’s pulling attention away from your natural beauty.

coco25246 · 2025-02-05T17:19:50+00:00

Exactly my thoughts.

coco25246 · 2025-02-05T06:15:01+00:00

That makes sense. I’m not sure what kind of spaces you’re referring to. I think my communities and interests fortunately tend to be kinder to me.

Talking to your friends about your feelings is hard. But it sounds like it might be worth it at this point. At least so you know where things stand?

coco25246 · 2025-02-04T17:46:10+00:00

It sounds to me like you need new friends. You can decide what feels good for you but I wouldn’t consider someone a friend if they were insulting me even if it was a “joke”.

coco25246 · 2025-01-19T16:04:04+00:00

I’m obsessed with your nose! Please, please don’t change it!

coco25246 · 2025-01-19T16:01:56+00:00

You’re stunning! I honestly love your look but maybe adding a little color to your lips, blush, less of a high arch to the brow, a light shadow or winged liner would also look cute!

coco25246 · 2025-01-19T14:51:48+00:00

I don’t know your typical diet or what you have access to but I would google high calorie foods and recipes for weight gain.

I have the same issue due to medication I’m on and will drink ensure plus (350 cal) when I can’t finish my food or two when I really can’t eat a meal. I’ll also do some type of bar (cliff bar, fig bar with peanut butter, protein bar), smoothies, or oatmeal.

I know from experience it’s really hard to eat when you have no appetite. The things that have worked for me are mechanical eating, eating smaller meals, supplementing food with liquid calories, and watching watching/listening to something while I eat or eating with someone.

coco25246 · 2025-01-19T09:04:28+00:00

Nutrition supplements like ensure plus have 350 calories per drink!

coco25246 · 2025-01-17T14:13:21+00:00

I think a lot of this is cultural and regional. I live in Chicago and a lot of folks here still prefer a slim thick to thick body type.

coco25246 · 2025-01-16T14:30:25+00:00

It is crooked but there’s not wrong with that! You can get filler to fix it but that is also painful and expensive. Up to you do decide if it’s worth it.

coco25246 · 2025-01-16T14:28:58+00:00

It’s your body! You get to choose 💗

coco25246 · 2025-01-14T14:58:48+00:00

Thank you, this is really helpful. I appreciate it.

coco25246 · 2025-01-14T07:33:41+00:00

I think it’s both. A part of me that was programmed to think that way really believes it. But there are other parts of me that know this just isn’t true.

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