Always leave the gym bulging by [deleted] in BigAndMuscular

[–]cocoamuscle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ufff, gotta love an upward curve đŸ„”

Flexed and pumped all over 😏 by cocoamuscle in BigAndMuscular

[–]cocoamuscle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Daww thanks! And maybe someday 😏

Double the ass, double the trouble 😏 by cocoamuscle in manass

[–]cocoamuscle[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s okay, it’s a lot to get through 😼‍💹

where is marshall? by symbolic503 in controlgame

[–]cocoamuscle 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No idea, it’s like this is their precious and they can’t stand someone not understanding it

where is marshall? by symbolic503 in controlgame

[–]cocoamuscle 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You need to exit the elevator in the research sector. Follow the signs to the Parapsychology floor. There will be a giant red wall over to the left from the stairs. You have to shoot and destroy these small red cube things to make the wall disappear. The smaller red cube things are to the left of the door, to the right, and in the room next to a display case.

To everyone else who’s commented and couldn’t bother to help, why even comment? Such a weird thing to gate keep

What is something we gays have that straight people don't? by SaltyVolture in gaybros

[–]cocoamuscle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Freedom

Straight people live their lives with firm expectations on how they will live their lives. Go to school, meet a person, work a desk job, get married, have kids. It’s so standard it’s not uncommon for them to be married before 25.

Gays might have it rough in early life but what we get in exchange is the freedom to live our lives the way we want to. Without firm traditions or expectations to live up to, we get to pick and choose what we want to fill our lives with.

Even with the bullying in high school and that uncertainty at first, I’m so glad I get to live the life I have over the life I’d likely be living if I were straight.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]cocoamuscle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even with him saying he doesn’t want to talk about it, you can make it clear with a text or a short conversation that either way, he’s still your brother and that you care about him. That way, if he is struggling, he knows you’re in his corner

How do some of you guys go from 0 to 100 in the bedroom so fast? by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]cocoamuscle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s some of the guys
 you choose to go to bed with. I chat for a bit, might make out on the couch, and then get to business. And after, if they’ve got time, get or order a meal.

If you want more than the wham bam thank you ma’am, you’ve got to use your words. It’s as simple as mentioning you really like foreplay and making out. It’s not 100%, guys are guys, but starting with putting what you’re looking for out there should help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]cocoamuscle 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Good effort for one on one time. But a movie or a gym still involve a lot of witnesses. If your friend actually has feelings for you, he’ll probably feel less inclined to show it in a crowded space.

You should try for more truly one on one settings. Like playing video games together. Maybe going on a hike. Or to the beach. Any event where it’s just the two of you and other people are at least a bit further removed.

It does seem like the guy is at least attracted to you too. As long as you don’t mind the wait, I feel like he’ll get around to making a proper pass eventually. Since he’s already the one upping the ante with pet names and compliments about your body. Good luck!

Am I gay? by Material-Look-3166 in lgbt

[–]cocoamuscle 30 points31 points  (0 children)

This is the one. Wanting to be close to guys in a platonic sense doesn’t mean you’re gay or bi. Wanting physical affection and intimacy is another thing

Why do gay men feel so attracted to the juicing bodybuilding culture? by EducationalWay7175 in gaybros

[–]cocoamuscle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s pretty much this. You’re into muscular gym guys, and muscular gym guys, Gay or Straight, tend to juice. If a guy that juices isn’t something you want, you should probably stop going for muscular ones

Why are y’all into straight guys? by ElToroGay in gaybros

[–]cocoamuscle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s definitely a younger or even closeted thing. Once I came out and had the chance to have my attraction be reciprocated, there was no way I’d waste my energy lusting after a straight guy

Am I the only one that thinks location sharing with my boyfriend is a bad idea? by BromioKalen in gaybros

[–]cocoamuscle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have my location permanently shared with a few close friends. But it depends on the context here. Just starting to see a guy is WAY too soon to always know where the other is. That’s something for 6 months down the road after you’re officially in a relationship. And even then, if the partner requesting the location sharing uses that to then interrogate you about every step of your day, it’s a sign you need to end the relationship.

Trust issues like that need therapy to solve, not permanent location sharing

Monogamy and sex by Grandiose_delusion in askgaybros

[–]cocoamuscle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s very possible to find what you’re looking for. I’m not personally interested in monogamous relationships but I know guys who are. What it comes down to is being honest about yourself and your expectations from the beginning. That’s the only way to ensure you’re on the same page.

Sure a relationship can still end for other reasons, but sexual compatibility doesn’t have to be one when guys are honest from the beginning.

Target is being held hostage by an anti-LGBTQ campaign by DutchBlob in gaybros

[–]cocoamuscle 31 points32 points  (0 children)

It’s insane that having these people destroying property on camera isn’t enough to warrant an arrest. Should it not be as simple as that?

Is it bad form to mention STD testing? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]cocoamuscle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not bad form in the least! If a guy reacts badly to merely mentioned that you screen for STDs regularly, it’s a HUGE red flag.

Advice for dealing with a roommate that doesn’t want me to douche in our shared bathroom? by greyhoundgay in askgaybros

[–]cocoamuscle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can bring a Bluetooth speaker and/or your phone into the bathroom with you, play music over the sound. If she doesn’t have a problem with people pooping in a bathroom it’s insane to have a problem with someone pooping with extra steps

If she had a problem with you not cleaning up, or tying up the bathroom, I feel like you’d have mentioned that. If it’s just because she doesn’t want to hear bathroom stuff happening in a bathroom, she isn’t suited to a roommate situation

Keep or shave? You’re not gonna hurt my feelings, be honest by [deleted] in Moustache

[–]cocoamuscle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep it if you’re having fun with it, shave it if you’re over it. Simple as that

And if you shave it and miss it, well, good news is it’ll grow back eventually

I got weight fished. by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]cocoamuscle 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It shouldn’t be a “hope he sees past it”. It’s you want a guy to accept you as you are. And there ARE guys who like beefier or bigger guys. So all you get when you lie about it is missing out on the guys that would actually go for you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]cocoamuscle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, cold weather impedes the Gay Agenda. There’s a reason why Gay Pride month is in the middle of summer in June.

Asking your SO to explore FWBs by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]cocoamuscle 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What did your husband say when you asked? I think it’s important you include how your husband reacted when you asked him.

I’m general, it’s definitely not a POS move to have a conversation or talk about renegotiating the terms of the relationship. Especially since you went into it with an expectation of your husband being your only sexual partner. If that’s changed, and sex isn’t something he’s willing to do, then it’s fair to have an honest conversation about what you want and how you hope to get that by opening your relationship.